chrisbinbkk99 Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 I been here near on 20 years married kids and till recentaly had a gf (all thai apart fom me) I am not proud I dont like my wife and I do everything for my family no questions asked. Today I was "discovered chatting to another thai bird" by my gf of nearly 2 years Outcome lost her - can not blame her - lost also my focus. I never sleeped behind my womens back nor would I! guess I just got bored and being a man I went the wrong track! I know people will attack me but I live that life as I belive my kids are important and moreover the people I support. My wife of 12 years is no idiot either, calm me is better... So my question is why oh why do thai women pretend to be involved in a relashionship when indeed they got no real fight to stay in it... even given the facts prior Sent from my GT-I9500 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnotherOneAmerican Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 (edited) Don't understand. You have a Thai wife and a Thai gf? and your Thai gf dumped you for talking with a third Thai lady. Edited July 5, 2013 by AnotherOneAmerican Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Berkshire Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 Just to clarify...your question has nothing to do with Thai women but YOUR woman and your woman only. Only you can answer that question. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Soutpeel Posted July 5, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted July 5, 2013 your feeling sorry for yourself...go and get a soapie...will feel heaps better 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soutpeel Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 (edited) Don't understand. You have a Thai wife and a Thai gf? one suspects the wife is an Ex and based on the way this is written the OP may even be on the ear medicine Edited July 5, 2013 by Soutpeel 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YeahSiam Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 Maybe the OP should employ a ghost-writer. I've read it twice and still don't understand what he's on about Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arminbkk Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 (edited) I think he is married but cheats on his wife and she knows, but now his gf caught him talking to yet another woman, I think. I also think his gf hit him on the head and fingers, so his ability to type coherently is impaired for the moment. Edited July 5, 2013 by arminbkk 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThaidDown Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 So my question is why oh why do thai women pretend to be involved in a relashionship when indeed they got no real fight to stay in it Probably the same reason that a man pretends to be in a relationship and continues to look around for someone else. For both male and female it passes the time and you get laid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisbinbkk99 Posted July 5, 2013 Author Share Posted July 5, 2013 No its the neglect of a matter of fact I.e. your in this position (small wife) or they choose to be something else Sent from my GT-I9500 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soutpeel Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 No its the neglect of a matter of fact I.e. your in this position (small wife) or they choose to be something else Sent from my GT-I9500 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app No its the neglect of a matter of fact I.e. your in this position (small wife) or they choose to be something else Sent from my GT-I9500 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app I apologise in advance if your first language is not English, but <deleted> are you on about ? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevvy Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 just try and relax and think about your life ... we all go through hell sometimes in our life ...good luck 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisbinbkk99 Posted July 5, 2013 Author Share Posted July 5, 2013 Yeah sorry hard time explaining will repost later sorry guys Sent from my GT-I9500 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrypticBob Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 Yeah sorry hard time explaining will repost later sorry guys Sent from my GT-I9500 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app It's OK; no need to repost, we understand Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ava15 Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 Geez. One woman is more than enough for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benalibina Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 Yeah sorry hard time explaining will repost later sorry guysSent from my GT-I9500 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile appIt's OK; no need to repost, we understand You must be the only 1 who understands the OP ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrypticBob Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 Yeah sorry hard time explaining will repost later sorry guysSent from my GT-I9500 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile appIt's OK; no need to repost, we understand You must be the only 1 who understands the OP ! Sometimes appearances count for a lot Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benalibina Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 Yeah sorry hard time explaining will repost later sorry guysSent from my GT-I9500 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile appIt's OK; no need to repost, we understandYou must be the only 1 who understands the OP ! Sometimes appearances count for a lot I suggest you rewrite the topic on behalve of the OP, so we all can understand it clearly. Can do ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stoneyboy Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 Yeah sorry hard time explaining will repost later sorry guysSent from my GT-I9500 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile appIt's OK; no need to repost, we understandYou must be the only 1 who understands the OP ! He's not called Cryptic Bob for Nothing. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benalibina Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 Yeah sorry hard time explaining will repost later sorry guysSent from my GT-I9500 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile appIt's OK; no need to repost, we understandYou must be the only 1 who understands the OP !He's not called Cryptic Bob for Nothing. Haha, means he is intelligent so he must be able to rewrite the OP's post in order for a simple mind to understand the clear content of the topic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkkfoxi Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 I am the OP so you guys hung up on the grammar or the content? spell it out for me! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benalibina Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 Looks like the OP suffers from schizofrenic disorder ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scully Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 No its the neglect of a matter of fact I.e. your in this position (small wife) or they choose to be something else Sent from my GT-I9500 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app So you've got a Mia Noi who dumps you for talking to another woman that isn't your wife. So your Mia Noi thinks you are looking for a third little wife, what a tangled web you weave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
farang000999 Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 (edited) This can be a very hard thing for say when it happens but who can say yes and no but you have to put yourself in the other peoples shoes and then you will understand all of it better. the answer is not yes and it is not no but it is not no and yes at the same time. you have to do what is right for yourself and for the other people but what is wrong and what is right, right cannot be wrong but wrong is cannot be right so you have to think very slowly and patiently about how can resolve the situation in a way amicable to all parties but you then have to think about what all parties really want, not just say they want and what you can do to help them really. Edited July 5, 2013 by farang000999 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bangkokhatter Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 oh come on the OP has been caught playing away and now he does not like the reaction of his GF......WHAT ABOUT HIS WIFE ?..just cos it;s Thailand does not mean you have to lose your moral compass. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
megaworldasia Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 It never fails to amuse me just how many westerners coming to this country haven't got their act together when it comes to being in a relationship. The bottom line is this; if you want to play the field, be a butterfly, put it about - DON'T BE IN A RELATIONSHIP. It's as simple as that. the problem is that so many are emotionally weak; they can't handle being alone and so they latch on to the nearest Thai bird that comes along telling them sweet nonsense. More often than not, due to their failed relationships back home, they're grasping and a relationship with a seemingly submissive, pliant little Asian woman seems the answer. They rush into a marriage only to find it's not quite what they expected due to all the cultural anomalies. They cast about because they're bored and dissatisfied. Not only that, they don't actually know what they want and in the end it turns into clusterfxxk; largely of their own doing. My experience is that the majority of farang coming to Thailand are completely unsuitable for a relationship with any woman. Myself included. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benalibina Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 It never fails to amuse me just how many westerners coming to this country haven't got their act together when it comes to being in a relationship. The bottom line is this; if you want to play the field, be a butterfly, put it about - DON'T BE IN A RELATIONSHIP. It's as simple as that. the problem is that so many are emotionally weak; they can't handle being alone and so they latch on to the nearest Thai bird that comes along telling them sweet nonsense. More often than not, due to their failed relationships back home, they're grasping and a relationship with a seemingly submissive, pliant little Asian woman seems the answer. They rush into a marriage only to find it's not quite what they expected due to all the cultural anomalies. They cast about because they're bored and dissatisfied. Not only that, they don't actually know what they want and in the end it turns into clusterfxxk; largely of their own doing. My experience is that the majority of farang coming to Thailand are completely unsuitable for a relationship with any woman. Myself included. Now you got this out of your chest and informed us all, you feel relieved ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
megaworldasia Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 It never fails to amuse me just how many westerners coming to this country haven't got their act together when it comes to being in a relationship. The bottom line is this; if you want to play the field, be a butterfly, put it about - DON'T BE IN A RELATIONSHIP. It's as simple as that. the problem is that so many are emotionally weak; they can't handle being alone and so they latch on to the nearest Thai bird that comes along telling them sweet nonsense. More often than not, due to their failed relationships back home, they're grasping and a relationship with a seemingly submissive, pliant little Asian woman seems the answer. They rush into a marriage only to find it's not quite what they expected due to all the cultural anomalies. They cast about because they're bored and dissatisfied. Not only that, they don't actually know what they want and in the end it turns into clusterfxxk; largely of their own doing. My experience is that the majority of farang coming to Thailand are completely unsuitable for a relationship with any woman. Myself included. Now you got this out of your chest and informed us all, you feel relieved ? I take it English isn't your first language? Hence "now you got this out of your chest" instead of off your chest. I'm on night shift so I've got plenty of time to trade insults with a silly little <deleted> like you. Feel free to say something completely stupid in jibberish. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FritsSikkink Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 It never fails to amuse me just how many westerners coming to this country haven't got their act together when it comes to being in a relationship. The bottom line is this; if you want to play the field, be a butterfly, put it about - DON'T BE IN A RELATIONSHIP. It's as simple as that. the problem is that so many are emotionally weak; they can't handle being alone and so they latch on to the nearest Thai bird that comes along telling them sweet nonsense. More often than not, due to their failed relationships back home, they're grasping and a relationship with a seemingly submissive, pliant little Asian woman seems the answer. They rush into a marriage only to find it's not quite what they expected due to all the cultural anomalies. They cast about because they're bored and dissatisfied. Not only that, they don't actually know what they want and in the end it turns into clusterfxxk; largely of their own doing. My experience is that the majority of farang coming to Thailand are completely unsuitable for a relationship with any woman. Myself included. Now you got this out of your chest and informed us all, you feel relieved ? I take it English isn't your first language? Hence "now you got this out of your chest" instead of off your chest. I'm on night shift so I've got plenty of time to trade insults with a silly little <deleted> like you. Feel free to say something completely stupid in jibberish. Good thing you have loads of time, maybe you can try to understand the quote option. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Songhua Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 This can be a very hard thing for say when it happens but who can say yes and no but you have to put yourself in the other peoples shoes and then you will understand all of it better. the answer is not yes and it is not no but it is not no and yes at the same time. you have to do what is right for yourself and for the other people but what is wrong and what is right, right cannot be wrong but wrong is cannot be right so you have to think very slowly and patiently about how can resolve the situation in a way amicable to all parties but you then have to think about what all parties really want, not just say they want and what you can do to help them really.LOL. Thankyou for clearing it up, Doctor Farang000999. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iancnx Posted July 6, 2013 Share Posted July 6, 2013 Hmmm interesting thread. Not sure where the 'bin' fits into all this nor the 99.... But we should all be reassured that newcomer Megaworldasia has a handle on it all and can provide a depth of experience 27 times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.png.3b3332cc2256ad0edbc2fe9404feeef0.png)
Recommended Posts
Create an account or sign in to comment
You need to be a member in order to leave a comment
Create an account
Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!
Register a new accountSign in
Already have an account? Sign in here.
Sign In Now