Should respect Thai girl as respect yourself.

[jennygood]

Thailand is not a land lie. This is my experience not only thai can lie but some farang think he is higher and better than thai people but you should think thailand is not rich country like Europe but we are more kindly and not strong or black heart as my ex Bf. I met him in Thailovelinks and he told me like a good person and i trust him every word. I think i am too stupid to trust him cause he told the word what i want. I started with lie he is from Austria but he wrote from Germany and age but i didn't care ! I care only his heart and after we talked he told me he is handicap with leg then i was shock. Why he didn't tell me the true but again l just want a good man with a good heart and i said i hope your heart don't handicap. Then i decided to see him and he came to thailand and stayed with me. That time i worked with thai government. I never asked him about money when i worked and he made the kitchen for me by himself and i told myself i will be a good GF for him after that. He would like i go to Europe and he didn't want i went only 10 days ( i have annul vacation only 10 days) then i decided to quit a job cause i really love him. I walked with him only 1 leg and i never feel bad cause i love him and he loves to bicycle when he was in thailand. He like to tell me i am stupid in English but i said i can do what i can and i didn't finished in international school just cheap thai university. He is smart but i am stupid.! After i got visa then we went to Munich then we drove to Austria. He said word and want to finish with me oftenly. But he came back cause i said i love you and he didn't want to pay sin sod but i said this is my culture to show how to respect thai parents. My family was not so poor and i have a car by my earn. I think i can work and make the money why he is so cheap! Then i said no marry in thailand. Thai family they love their kids and they don't care about the money too much and when you or their daughter got bad situation they will help more than that. Then we didn't marry in thailand. He wanted i sign contract before marry for if i finish with him i will not get anything and yes i said cause i dint love the money and i love him more. I studied Goethe for A1 and i past and he made a visa D for me. We have relationship for 1.5 year and i went to Germany after 1 week he said it is too risk to marry me and i can fight at the court then i was painful and told him what do you want from me i will sign the contract but still not enough and i told myself again and i know exactly he didn't' love me for real and think only negative about thai woman and i said if i were rich or have more money then will be great ? This is the man i really love and lie many thing to me.!! Before he said he loves a kid but he didn't want to have cause he want to travel with his motorhome. Finally he care only his money not love. He booked the flight for me and told me in the morning then i have to get up and go. Is this call gentleman ? I think he will tell me before 1-2 days but not. Thai girl have a heart can pain and sad! Why didn't respect at all. I hope farang read my article and hope you love your thai wife or GF and respect her. We are thai and didn't rich money but we are rich about good heart and don't play game with heart and respect each other if you want to be butterfly then talk to her before start relationship. Thank you for reading. Manfred

[Scottythai]

Sorry to hear about your bad luck. Sometimes people are bad (Black Heart) It does not matter what country they come from but how they act and feel inside. There are nice people in every country but there are also bad people from every country. Try not to worry about it. I think you are lucky to not marry him seems like you will have a happy life with out him around

[soi41]

And the point is??

There are good farangs and bad farangs! What a surprise.

There are good Thai ladies and bad Thai ladies. An even bigger surprise!!

Just tell your Thai ladyfriends to be carefull with onelegged farangs from Germany/Austria.

[robblok]

Yes there are bad foreigners, this guy tried to protect himself so he would not end up paying a lot of money when it went wrong. I did the same thing the first time and I was lucky else it would have cost me a lot of money because my ex was a bad girl.

That is the problem good people will always suffer for the mistake of the bad ones.

[kannot]

Thais respect each other so much many of them have giks, probably so they can get extra respect eh??

Its dog eat dog here make no mistakes about it.

[frankold]

Goto the Austrian embassy and file a complaint ;-)

[StreetCowboy]

That's why I never tried to learn to read Thai - the intimidating and apparently impenetrable walls of text with no punctuation or capitalisation.

Sadly the misogynist miscegynist racists on this forum will not bother to read the full post - if I did not, how can we expect them to? and will make flippant remarks or pull up irrelevant contrary tales of woe.

All I can say, Jenny / Manfred, is that there are plenty more fish in the river, and the gypsies use dynamite to catch them

SC

[marstons]

Compliments on the English spelling for a poorly educated Thai girl who lived in Austria, grammar well would pass for an English speaker trying to come across as Thai.

[StreetCowboy]

Compliments on the English spelling for a poorly educated Thai girl who lived in Austria, grammar well would pass for an English speaker trying to come across as Thai.

I tried to find a clip of Bill Forsyth's "That cynicing feeling" but this was the best I could come up with

[hellodolly]

jennygood

The very fact you could write in English is a great accomplishment. Yes you were used but that is the reason a lot of Farongs come here to Thailand is to use women. Some of them unfortunately meet a women who is better at the game than they are.It is pointless to expect respect from some one who can not respect themselves.

Pick up the pieces of your life and you can put your life back in order. Next time you meet a man try to learn more about him and do not make up excuses for him like you did. I love him is not an excuse it is a door for him to use you more.

There are many good men out there so do not be so disheartened. I have a super Thai wife. But I had to go through a few relationships to find her.

[kikoman]

Yes there are good and bad in all people, I know what you are saying, I found a great Thai wife that does everything for me, I really glad I met her She is beautiful , funny, and makes my life worth living and I am so happy with her here in Thailand. Many Falang's have been burned by the women in their own country and in Thailand want to marry a young women but do not trust their wife, how do they expect to have a good marriage.

I was never asked for or paid Sinsod as my wife had been married before and had two daughters, that I love and care for as my own. I built a house for her and the girls and I treat her as I treated my wife back home, with love and respect.

She is a great person and a great wife. I am glad to hear your side of the story and wish for you to find a person you can be happy with.

Good Luck:

[metisdead]

A number of troll posts have been removed. Everyone here was a newbie at one time, were you greeted as a troll on your first post?

[Naam]

And the point is??

There are good farangs and bad farangs! What a surprise.

There are good Thai ladies and bad Thai ladies. An even bigger surprise!!

Just tell your Thai ladyfriends to be carefull with onelegged farangs from Germany/Austria.

the young lady deserves some sympathy and not your cheap sarcasm!

[Patron]

I'm sorry to hear your story Jennygood.

9 years ago I met a Thai girl in Bangkok,this morning I woke up and

watched her sleeping.She opened her eyes and said I love you so too much.

I said I do too.And then I kissed her......

[martynsnowmans]

I'm sorry to hear your story Jennygood.

9 years ago I met a Thai girl in Bangkok,this morning I woke up and

watched her sleeping.She opened her eyes and said I love you so too much.

I said I do too.And then I kissed her......

please ........ pass me a sick bag

[kikoman]

I'm sorry to hear your story Jennygood.

9 years ago I met a Thai girl in Bangkok,this morning I woke up and

watched her sleeping.She opened her eyes and said I love you so too much.

I said I do too.And then I kissed her......

please ........ pass me a sick bag

Some people have the gift some do not, you obviously do not.

I also found happiness in Thailand, maybe the reason women do not like you is your attitude!

you can change that, but you can not change ugly (inner or outer}.

Cheers:

[jennygood]

Yes and i am so sorry for my poor english. I dont want to be rude and i am polite. I am so sorry for my grammar but this is not main point.

I just would like to say something and if too difficult for you to understand then dont read it. Just go cause you are too smart !

Pardon, I think you speak thai very well.

(Some people can read and understand! )

** I just would like people respect each other. Dont play with a heart and lie if you dont love her for real just tell the truth before start serious relationship.**

Maybe she is a good girl and love you for real. I didnt want to fight and said bad word to somebody think negative.

Thank you for your kindness and all nice post and i hope you are happy with your wife and family. From my sincerely.

Jenny.

[sbk]

First of all, its extremely poor netiquette (ie bad manners for those who fail to grasp the concept) to focus on spelling or grammar. Not everyone is a native English speaker and even a fair number of those aren't the best spellers. So, to those who focus on the petty. Enough.

As for the topic itself, its a pity that a few Thaivisa members have such great difficulty in being considerate human beings and that over half the posts on this thread have had to be removed.

Given that, and the OP's final post, I am closing this thread.

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