Tom tells me the secret to her "success" in attracting women

[quiuvo]

I sat outside a restaurant and a tom joined me. We discussed the reason for her emotions, feelings, towards women. It is natural to her. So we sat there competing for the attention of the ladies walking by!

I asked her how she could have a very pretty lady as her girl and she said it was because men are brutes when it comes to sex! Very hard and fast. I told her I had a slow hand and she said that I was competition for her because ladies like that. She may have a point there. Talking about points to she she uses only her body and no dildos etc., unlike her friends.

[LeCharivari]

If only you'd known this before asking "What attracts pretty women to them? Sex, loneliness?" in your last thread on the subject ( http://www.thaivisa.com/forum/topic/676789-is-a-lesbian-the-same-as-a-tom/ ) ... and this does seem to reflect the link I gave ( http://travel.cnn.com/bangkok/none/dont-call-me-lesbian-tomdee-culture-thailand-176517 ).

..... and I have to admit that while I've sat outside several restaurants around the world having a coffee I've never been joined by a stranger of any description who "joined me" and proceeded to discuss their sexual preference and sex life and our respective sexual attraction, let alone a Tom. Maybe I'm doing something wrong .... or right, as I have no interest in working at the Kinsey Institute.

Edited November 22, 2013 by LeCharivari

[quiuvo]

Yeah, it would have giving me more to add to my questions if I had met the tom before I wrote the previous query.

Well, come and join me if you have any doubt about the veracity of my story about a tom joining me at a restaurant. I did talk to her first and she opened up. You must not be a friendly person. Especially if you don't want to be part of an institute.

[quiuvo]

I've been all over the globe also, probably more countries then you, and never had such encounter. I had some great encounters but not like this one where at the end she and I were competing for the ladies walking by.

[sustento]

What relevance does this have to the gay forum? It's a post by a straight man who seems slightly miffed that not every woman in the world fancies him. He ought to realise that lesbians really do prefer women. They're not just sitting there waiting for him to 'convert' them...

[Scott]

Yeah, it would have giving me more to add to my questions if I had met the tom before I wrote the previous query.

Well, come and join me if you have any doubt about the veracity of my story about a tom joining me at a restaurant. I did talk to her first and she opened up. You must not be a friendly person. Especially if you don't want to be part of an institute.

Interesting conversation. You will have to excuse those who believe nobody but themselves.

[onthemoon]

What relevance does this have to the gay forum? It's a post by a straight man who seems slightly miffed that not every woman in the world fancies him. He ought to realise that lesbians really do prefer women. They're not just sitting there waiting for him to 'convert' them...

The woman in the story was gay, that's the relevance. A straight guy talking about his experience with her is not off-topic IMHO.

I sometimes sit with straight women talking about good-looking men walking by and wonder why they would fancy her rather than me. Why would that be more relevant than his story? Or is it not?

[quiuvo]

Exactly . Thank you.

[sustento]

In other threads the OP is asking whether the female age of consent in Thailand is 16 or 18...

Up to you...

Edited November 23, 2013 by sustento

[onthemoon]

In other threads the OP is asking whether the female age of consent in Thailand is 16 or 18...

Up to you...

I think that is rather irrelevant. The OP made no secret of being straight.

[quiuvo]

In other threads the OP is asking whether the female age of consent in Thailand is 16 or 18...

Up to you...

What do you want to accomplish? I am glad other people agree with me.

[quiuvo]

Sustento, what are you up to?

[LeCharivari]

What relevance does this have to the gay forum? It's a post by a straight man who seems slightly miffed that not every woman in the world fancies him. He ought to realise that lesbians really do prefer women. They're not just sitting there waiting for him to 'convert' them...

The woman in the story was gay, that's the relevance. A straight guy talking about his experience with her is not off-topic IMHO.

I sometimes sit with straight women talking about good-looking men walking by and wonder why they would fancy her rather than me. Why would that be more relevant than his story? Or is it not?

Just goes to show how different we all are ... and just how limited my own experience must be:

I've never wondered why men, some 95% of whom are probably straight, fancy women more than me ... or even why most of the gay men probably fancy other men more than me ....

I've never presumed that I had been to "probably more countries then" (sic) someone I've never met and have nothing to base that or any other speculation about posters here on ....

I've never wanted to be part of any "institute" and I can't understand why that would make me any less of a "friendly person" ....

.... so many things I haven't done ....

[LeCharivari]

What relevance does this have to the gay forum? It's a post by a straight man who seems slightly miffed that not every woman in the world fancies him. He ought to realise that lesbians really do prefer women. They're not just sitting there waiting for him to 'convert' them...

The woman in the story was gay, that's the relevance. A straight guy talking about his experience with her is not off-topic IMHO.

I sometimes sit with straight women talking about good-looking men walking by and wonder why they would fancy her rather than me. Why would that be more relevant than his story? Or is it not?

I've got to agree with otm there, sustento .... after all, the Gay Forum isn't just for us gays and quiuvo should be able to post about his experience with a Tom here just as he has done variously in the Hua Hin / Cha-am, Phuket, Pattaya, Issan, and the Bangkok Forums, as well as the Marriage and Divorce and the Ladies in Thailand Forums. He would seem to be rather better travelled and experienced than others here, including myself, and it is only fair that we gays give his posts the respect and credibility they deserve.

[quiuvo]

Thank you all for your openness. I'm sorry if this forum was not the correct one and one of the powers that be would lead me to the right one.

[Scott]

Off-topic post removed.

[pxlgirl]

if the OP would had to experience gay sex, he'd probably describe it as brute, hard and fast as well... I wonder why?

[LeCharivari]

if the OP would had to experience gay sex, he'd probably describe it as brute, hard and fast as well... I wonder why?

Umm ... why ?