My girlfriend just left me!

[quiuvo]

No, I don't get or give for free.

i highly doubt it that you dont get it for free.

what b.s here about 95% of the girls looking for money. Sure if thw guy is old and ugly. Then he has to pay do these guys seriously think al guys pay Crazy i get it for free and most thai young males too Things change when you are old and want a younger attractive girl.

Then you pay as they rather have a young handsome nice guy (thai) then a wrinkled old foreigner.

Must be great believing everyone pays just bexuase most old guys do.

Sorry christy not meant for you just that first remark.

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The percentage I got from five Thai men. You must go Dutch for everything. Good for you. In general, In USA, young guys with great cars and a house get many ladies, whereas the Nissan or ford drivers get the left overs.

[FiftyTwo]

No, I don't get or give for free.

i highly doubt it that you dont get it for free.

what b.s here about 95% of the girls looking for money. Sure if thw guy is old and ugly. Then he has to pay do these guys seriously think al guys pay Crazy i get it for free and most thai young males too Things change when you are old and want a younger attractive girl.

I hate to be the one to break this to you Robblok, old chap, BUT

1) You are OLD.

2) You look a lot better with a bag over your head.

3) Great bod though!

I suppose 1 out of 3 ain't bad.

Edited January 29, 2014 by FiftyTwo

[quiuvo]

No, I don't get or give for free.

i highly doubt it that you dont get it for free.

what b.s here about 95% of the girls looking for money. Sure if thw guy is old and ugly. Then he has to pay do these guys seriously think al guys pay Crazy i get it for free and most thai young males too Things change when you are old and want a younger attractive girl.

I hate to be the one to break this to you Robblok, old chap, BUT

1) You are OLD.

2) You look a lot better with a bag over your head.

3) Great bod though!

I suppose 1 out of 3 ain't bad.

Hey, wake up. You get it for free because they are fishing. If no hooking then they will leave you. You ain't no knight in rusted armour. I knew a sixty yr old whom the girl, girl waited two years and finally the family kicked him out after no money, house, gold, truck. You ain't getting it for free. Also they Thai men are left for other men after they don't pay their share of the expenses and start spending the ladies money!! 555. Then they hook up with a lady because they have more in common. SF USA.

[faraday]

I suppose that one way or another we pay for most things in life....whether we pay with baht/£/$/ or our time. Everything has a price...or does it?

As an example......did Anna Nicole Smith marry Marshall just for money...she was 23 & he was 89?? I

Just to push the thread in another direction & take the heat off the OP....is there anything you wouldn't do for money...if the price was right?

Let's keep it clean though.

[wym]

Personally I wouldn't do ANYTHING that went against my ethics.

However that's pretty much based on doing no harm, so if the money were right just about any sex act would be fine. Not that anyone would pay me at this point in my life.

Did have a friend call me when I was in a spot some time ago asking if I'd take 10K THB for a group of wealthy Chinese men to watch me screwing a beautiful girl.

I said no although I really needed the money, just wasn't enough that's all.

[faraday]

Would you let your wife/gf have sex (if she was agreeable) with another man for 1m$?

As per "Indecent Proposal".....

I can't even think about that....*shivers*

[wym]

For the past twelve years EVERY ONE of my SOs has been perfectly free to sleep with other men.

Most haven't taken me up on that, but accept that I'm not willing to be monogamous.

Some have had outside girlfriends too though, but rarely do they let us all play together, da&n shame that.

[meom]

Would you let your wife/gf have sex (if she was agreeable) with another man for 1m$?

As per "Indecent Proposal".....

I can't even think about that....*shivers*

LOL.

I might join them for that amount.

[faraday]

And I guess the next Q for 1m$ is......?

[quiuvo]

I suppose that one way or another we pay for most things in life....whether we pay with baht/£/$/ or our time. Everything has a price...or does it?

As an example......did Anna Nicole Smith marry Marshall just for money...she was 23 & he was 89?? I

Just to push the thread in another direction & take the heat off the OP....is there anything you wouldn't do for money...if the price was right?

Let's keep it clean though.

It has to be clean. I have many things I would not do for money.

[quiuvo]

Would you let your wife/gf have sex (if she was agreeable) with another man for 1m$?

As per "Indecent Proposal".....

I can't even think about that....*shivers*

LOL.

I might join them for that amount.

I'll get 500,000 and jump at it. Then jump on a plane........

[quiuvo]

Nobody has mentioned a crucial point here about Thai culture, which is that it's still widely considered normal for the male in the relationship to support his spouse and in most cases his minor spouse ("mia noi").

I know several Thai men who do well and they give allowances to their spouses and brag about it - money and relationships often do go together in Thailand, it isn't considered sinister.

Well worth remembering in order to keep the debate meaningful and relevant, we are in Thailand here folks, not in the West. Of course a lot of dudes are taken for suckers but still, we need to drop our Western outlook from time to time, it does help in achieving a successful expatriation.

A Chinese friend of mine here in Thailand told me yesterday that he got his fourth little wife.. He does have lots of money, yes he can afford their demands I guess

[wym]

But can he keep UP with their other-than-financial demands?

Tigers and rhinos look out. . .

[quiuvo]

But can he keep UP with their other-than-financial demands?

Tigers and rhinos look out. . .

Sum, ok you are back on track to getting 2,000 posts soon.

My friend uses kamagra or Levitra when he thinks his harem needs it or he needs it. It's all good with the magic potions.

[quiuvo]

But can he keep UP with their other-than-financial demands?

Tigers and rhinos look out. . .

Sum, ok you are back on track to getting 2,000 posts soon.

My friend uses kamagra or Levitra when he thinks his harem needs it or he needs it. It's all good with the magic potions.

Sorry, wym, I meant son

[wym]

My friend uses kamagra or Levitra when he thinks his harem needs it or he needs it. It's all good with the magic potions.

That gives me the opposite problem, getting the wood to relax takes a large team many hours.

AFAIC only for when marathon group sessions over days are in the cards. . .

[JLCrab]

My friend uses kamagra or Levitra when he thinks his harem needs it or he needs it. It's all good with the magic potions.

That gives me the opposite problem, getting the wood to relax takes a large team many hours.

AFAIC only for when marathon group sessions over days are in the cards. . .

"I only take viagra when I am with more than one woman." Jack Nicholson Esquire interview, 2003

[wym]

More like when you take it, no single woman's got the stamina or patience to actually finish the job.

[kirstymelb101]

Hey, wake up. You get it for free because they are fishing. If no hooking then they will leave you. You ain't no knight in rusted armour. I knew a sixty yr old whom the girl, girl waited two years and finally the family kicked him out after no money, house, gold, truck. You ain't getting it for free. Also they Thai men are left for other men after they don't pay their share of the expenses and start spending the ladies money!! 555. Then they hook up with a lady because they have more in common. SF USA.

get and want are two separate meanings. Generally age isn't an important factor, but when I'm approached by an old man pub/bar who thinks I'm local Thai and tries to BUY me flashing his money, it's kind of offensive. JUST because I can GET doesn't mean I want BELIEVE me. I'm not for sale period.

Edited January 30, 2014 by kirstymelb101

[JLCrab]

Jack's comments need no editing. BTW Wilt Chamberlain has some good quotes if you're running low on material.

[ZAKY]

You are lucky enough for the THB 15k /m some have lost million and got deported on top and many have committed suicide, when you say : your girl friend, do you beleive that you are the only one? its so easy to get a type of escort for the when you are in need. It will cost you much less without in your mind any commitment towards her. One trick they also like to play is to break and see your reaction, then if they find that you cannot live without her. They will turn you mad.

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[kirstymelb101]

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Edited January 30, 2014 by kirstymelb101

[robblok]

No, I don't get or give for free.

i highly doubt it that you dont get it for free.

what b.s here about 95% of the girls looking for money. Sure if thw guy is old and ugly. Then he has to pay do these guys seriously think al guys pay Crazy i get it for free and most thai young males too Things change when you are old and want a younger attractive girl.

I hate to be the one to break this to you Robblok, old chap, BUT

1) You are OLD.

2) You look a lot better with a bag over your head.

3) Great bod though!

I suppose 1 out of 3 ain't bad.

Hey, wake up. You get it for free because they are fishing. If no hooking then they will leave you. You ain't no knight in rusted armour. I knew a sixty yr old whom the girl, girl waited two years and finally the family kicked him out after no money, house, gold, truck. You ain't getting it for free. Also they Thai men are left for other men after they don't pay their share of the expenses and start spending the ladies money!! 555. Then they hook up with a lady because they have more in common. SF USA.

39 is not old.

i agree about the bag as my body would better suit a 25 yo so you got a point.

I still stay with my points as for not paying. i just dont trawl for poor girls who go with old guys foronny Tommo. The relations i been in gils shared in costs. Sorry guys there are plenty of guys not paying they just go for independent girls.

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[thailiketoo]

i highly doubt it that you dont get it for free.

what b.s here about 95% of the girls looking for money. Sure if thw guy is old and ugly. Then he has to pay do these guys seriously think al guys pay Crazy i get it for free and most thai young males too Things change when you are old and want a younger attractive girl.

I hate to be the one to break this to you Robblok, old chap, BUT

1) You are OLD.

2) You look a lot better with a bag over your head.

3) Great bod though!

I suppose 1 out of 3 ain't bad.

Hey, wake up. You get it for free because they are fishing. If no hooking then they will leave you. You ain't no knight in rusted armour. I knew a sixty yr old whom the girl, girl waited two years and finally the family kicked him out after no money, house, gold, truck. You ain't getting it for free. Also they Thai men are left for other men after they don't pay their share of the expenses and start spending the ladies money!! 555. Then they hook up with a lady because they have more in common. SF USA.

39 is not old.

i agree about the bag as my body would better suit a 25 yo so you got a point.

I still stay with my points as for not paying. i just dont trawl for poor girls who go with old guys foronny Tommo. The relations i been in gils shared in costs. Sorry guys there are plenty of guys not paying they just go for independent girls.

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Do you think Mel is ugly? Do you know what his last lady cost him? 425 million dollars. Now there is a lesson there. Tell me the truth do you think Mel having to do it over again would have rather spent the time in a go go bar?

Mel is a buddy and I asked him a few years ago if he was paying for it. He said no way. I'm handsome and famous and talented I don't have to pay for it. What do you think he'd say today?

[robblok]

39 is not old.

i agree about the bag as my body would better suit a 25 yo so you got a point.

I still stay with my points as for not paying. i just dont trawl for poor girls who go with old guys foronny Tommo. The relations i been in gils shared in costs. Sorry guys there are plenty of guys not paying they just go for independent girls.

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Do you think Mel is ugly? Do you know what his last lady cost him? 425 million dollars. Now there is a lesson there. Tell me the truth do you think Mel having to do it over again would have rather spent the time in a go go bar?

Mel is a buddy and I asked him a few years ago if he was paying for it. He said no way. I'm handsome and famous and talented I don't have to pay for it. What do you think he'd say today?

Ow gawd.. equating paying your share after a divorce to paying for sex and renting a girl by paying her a monthly salary.

Everything to justify yourself don't you guys.

Its pathetic.

If you look at it like that then I have paid for it too as I have had a divorce when i was 29 that cost me money.

Most of you guys seem to love to live in a bubble, renting girls and calling them GF's.

That being said if i had such an arrangement with a hot girl when i am say 60 or so i would not call her a gf or expect her to love me and stuff. She would just be someone i pay to stay with me knowing if it was not for the money she would be gone. I would do my best to protect my money then because i know that is what she wants and not me. I would not delude myself and look at it any other way.

I would just enjoy it but not fool myself, that is my whole point.

Tough luck for your ego's guys be honest with it.

[billSMITH]

Mel isnt handsome. He knows it. We chatted the other day!

[wym]

Most of you guys seem to love to live in a bubble, renting girls and calling them GF's.

That being said if i had such an arrangement with a hot girl when i am say 60 or so i would not call her a gf or expect her to love me and stuff. She would just be someone i pay to stay with me knowing if it was not for the money she would be gone. I would do my best to protect my money then because i know that is what she wants and not me. I would not delude myself and look at it any other way.

I would just enjoy it but not fool myself, that is my whole point.

Tough luck for your ego's guys be honest with it.

Speaking for myself, no one's deluded, yes assets protected, having plenty of fun thanks very much.

Nothing wrong with "girlfriend" though, nor "wife" when it comes to that, the very very high percentages of relationships all over the world and throughout history based on business/money didn't use a different vocabulary.

In fact I reckon safe to say romantic "love" as the only acceptable basis for mate selection would be a small fraction of the total relatively recent and rare from that POV.

Ow gawd.. equating paying your share after a divorce to paying for sex and renting a girl by paying her a monthly salary.

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If you look at it like that then I have paid for it too as I have had a divorce when i was 29 that cost me money.

Yes you did. Was it good value for the money, to the point you'd go back and do it again?

For 97+% of my relationships "yes" and "yes I would in a flash".

Edited January 30, 2014 by wym

[thailiketoo]

Mel isnt handsome. He knows it. We chatted the other day!

OK white guys are sickly looking I'll grant you that but me and Micheal Jordan are tight. I asked him a few years ago if he felt he was paying for Juanita his wife to stay with him? He said no, of course not she stays with me cause I have a ripped body and am handsome as heck. Then after the divorce I asked him with a smile, "Mike how much did you end up paying for Juanita?" He told me, " hundred and sixty eight mil, bro"

Edited January 30, 2014 by thailiketoo

[billSMITH]

Hey, wake up. You get it for free because they are fishing. If no hooking then they will leave you. You ain't no knight in rusted armour. I knew a sixty yr old whom the girl, girl waited two years and finally the family kicked him out after no money, house, gold, truck. You ain't getting it for free. Also they Thai men are left for other men after they don't pay their share of the expenses and start spending the ladies money!! 555. Then they hook up with a lady because they have more in common. SF USA.

get and want are two separate meanings. Generally age isn't an important factor, but when I'm approached by an old man pub/bar who thinks I'm local Thai and tries to BUY me flashing his money, it's kind of offensive. JUST because I can GET doesn't mean I want BELIEVE me. I'm not for sale period.

Most girl are not for sale! But dont blame the old man for finding you attractive................lol. It is thailand. And it really is different here, re girls.

[billSMITH]

Ow gawd.. equating paying your share after a divorce to paying for sex and renting a girl by paying her a monthly salary.

Everything to justify yourself don't you guys.

Its pathetic.

If you look at it like that then I have paid for it too as I have had a divorce when i was 29 that cost me money.

Most of you guys seem to love to live in a bubble, renting girls and calling them GF's.

That being said if i had such an arrangement with a hot girl when i am say 60 or so i would not call her a gf or expect her to love me and stuff. She would just be someone i pay to stay with me knowing if it was not for the money she would be gone. I would do my best to protect my money then because i know that is what she wants and not me. I would not delude myself and look at it any other way.

I would just enjoy it but not fool myself, that is my whole point.

Tough luck for your ego's guys be honest with it.

Delusion is bad. Guys make bad decisions based on fantasy! Decisions become much better wo the rose colored glasses on.

Nothing wrong with paying for a girl -just dont call her you gf!