Im Rain i been here in Thailand since 2012 for the first i came to visit for a tourist and the second time i was working somewhere in Sakaeo Wangnamyen as a Filipino Coordinator for a newly opened company who hired Filipino and Native speakers to be deployed on some schools to teach ESL in the province of Sakeo Thailand. I meet some filipinos and few native speaker who works as a lecturer of some school. Living in Thailand was so easy everybody was so friendly and nice and the cost of living aren't that high. My boss ask me why not get married to a Thai man if you have a goal to live in Thailand. I was thinking many times about it "yeah thats fine" But my Thai lady friends tell me that marrying a Thai man was a very bad idea because according to them Thai men are worst they like to speak sweet things but after that they going to put a knife behind your back.. oppsss! God! so i change my mind and my friend advice me to register online on some dating sites. So i did it and registered my name and its funny i got zero message maybe im a filipino and everybody like thai ladies cause they're beautiful and sexy... i get tired and i think im wasting time on that dating sites so i decided of closing my account so before deleting my accounts i did a little bit search before deleting my profile. finally i got one message and his name was Seige. He stated that he was from England a widower and a single dad of 6yrs old kid. He said he was out of town for a business trip in USA. while reading the message i was so exited and shouting to death that "i got one "'i got one" sounds so crazy but really its true. We continue to exchange email and he demanded me to be honest and close my account and he begun to like me and he said he was in love already ( oh! thats was so fast for the person i haven't meet)... but while reading those messages i was wondering somethings wrong with the fonts it was like been copy paste "maybe" so i still continue to emailed him. So on his last message he was asking my number to phone me, will i don't think twice to give my phone information because i was so curios to hear his voice a little bit excited to hear him. after the next day my phone make a noise on my bag and then it wasn't a registered call so i was expecting maybe it was him who called me. yes i was right.

Me: Hello. so strange i cant understand hs words. so i turned on my phone speaker. Oh God. He sound like and Indian and telling me" Hello are you rain, IM rich im a business man and i wanna come there in Thailand to meet you. I have a lots of money... (Gosh and he delivered the words so worsts that i cant really understand.

Me: Oh my God.... i was so shock and speechless and like an ice melted so ashamed of myself, i feel so stupid and my knee was shaking because im so mad of myself... FAKERS! i hate you...

so now, i stop being online. its a very stupid idea going on dating sites...

I believe that maybe the right man will just there and come on the right time. Im sorry to share this I'm just so disappointed.

Quite agree arthurwait

Not visa related. Moved to general.

Woooowwww, hope that the company you work for, is not.....well...never mind.

Oh God. He sound like and Indian

Oh God not an Indian! Maybe if you stopped judging people based on their race, people won't feel the need to lie about it.

Sorry to hear about your plight. There are some very decent Thai guys out there.

Fakers, there are plenty on both side of the spectrum. Plenty of fake ladies and guys. Plenty of guys that act all nice screw the girl and dump her after their free of charge sex holiday. Plenty of girls acting all nice but going for money alone.

So yea fakers are bad but will always be there.

Woooowwww, hope that the company you work for, is not.....well...never mind.

My agency doing good. but we only hired someone who speak professional and with respect sir.

Fakers, there are plenty on both side of the spectrum. Plenty of fake ladies and guys. Plenty of guys that act all nice screw the girl and dump her after their free of charge sex holiday. Plenty of girls acting all nice but going for money alone.

So yea fakers are bad but will always be there.

I agree

Sorry to hear about your plight. There are some very decent Thai guys out there.

Yeah, i believe. But its better tis way not to entertain anyone.

The perils of dating sites I guess. Full of lying sociopaths and social misfits who can't get any in the normal run of life...but some will tell you there are really some 'quality ' women to be found online.....

The perils of dating sites I guess. Full of lying sociopaths and social misfits who can't get any in the normal run of life...but some will tell you there are really some 'quality ' women to be found online.....

That is not nice....OP is a woman.....

The perils of dating sites I guess. Full of lying sociopaths and social misfits who can't get any in the normal run of life...but some will tell you there are really some 'quality ' women to be found online.....

As opposed to those getting their gf from bars. (usually girls from bar are bar girls)

Your behind the times mate plenty of good quality woman to be found online. I haven't tried dedicated dating sites yet but other sites sure. Nowadays with line and whats app face-book ect everyone is online. Perhaps you did not figure that one out yet.

im sure youll meet a great guy some day, met my wife online married 8 years now.

Just be careful when go to these dating sites, our neighbor was scammed but lucky she spoke to me first .Wnt go into it but he was just over money from her.

finally i got one message and his name was Seige. He stated that he was from England a widower and a single dad of 6yrs old kid. He said he was out of town for a business trip in USA. while reading the message i was so exited and shouting to death that "i got one "'i got one" sounds so crazy but really its true. We continue to exchange email and he demanded me to be honest and close my account and he begun to like me and he said he was in love already

This is not a faker, it's a scammer.

It goes like this:

1. A great-looking guy contacts the girl.

2. The guy has a beautiful son.

3. The girl may or may not like the guy, but she will love the son.

4. Bit by bit she'll start to like the guy.

5. The guy will fall in love with the girl.

6. The guy will fly to meet the girl -- but he'll ALWAYS transit via a neighboring country.

7. In the neighboring county his son will have a terrible accident and be rushed to hospital.

8. The guy's credit card won't work. He can't pay his son's hospital fees. He needs money.

9. He contacts the girl and asks for a temporary loan

It's a successful scam. Lots of girls get taken.

The rule, as always, in never to send money to people you've not met.

Edited April 18, 201412 yr by casualposter

Oh God. He sound like and Indian

Oh God not an Indian! Maybe if you stopped judging people based on their race, people won't feel the need to lie about it.

I guess it was Chief Shitting Bull.

Oh God. He sound like and Indian

Oh God not an Indian! Maybe if you stopped judging people based on their race, people won't feel the need to lie about it.

I guess it was Chief Shitting Bull.

He was most likely Nigerian.

A girl that didnt get 4,000 emails on s dating site in one day?

thanks for sharing... but not sure i understand... who/what was fake?

thanks for sharing... but not sure i understand... who/what was fake?

Fake teachers?

MsPhilippines

Posted 2014-02-09 22:36:36

Hello everyone. I'm Rain, been teaching here in Sakaeo province

I thought she had just spelt that wrong.

I can relate fakirs to India, couldn't understand the problem.............................

Edited April 18, 201412 yr by chrisinth

Oh God. He sound like and Indian

Oh God not an Indian! Maybe if you stopped judging people based on their race, people won't feel the need to lie about it.

Not really. I can certainly understand her disappointment.

not the first time I heard an asian say she didnt like Indians

not the first time I heard an asian say she didnt like Indians

She said he "sounded" Indian. She didn't meet him.

He was probably African.

The perils of dating sites I guess. Full of lying sociopaths and social misfits who can't get any in the normal run of life...but some will tell you there are really some 'quality ' women to be found online.....

Apparently there's quality to be found at the local bar...

There are good and serious people on Internet dating sites. I met some. But also not so good. I met some. For "farang" men it is easy to meet because most ladies are local. For women, not so easy, because most men are "coming...",..."passing by". ...or just looking for fun times. If you are around 40 years old, even if you look younger and you are beautiful, Thai men always looks for a lot younger women to get serious, "farang" not always. Looking for serious relationship, you will have better chances meeting farangs a lot older than you. Some over 55 years old are retired, and already settled here, and looking for a good companion.

If you are from the Philippines, probably you are Christian, and you will find "referrals" and new friends in churches and religious groups...in sites like this one or expat groups sites, even in Facebook. Before meeting my Thai wife, I was always looking to meet women from your country, Asian, but with more western attitude. I was even thinking in move to Cebu. Many farangs will appreciate that for sure. Keep looking. Good luck.

Edited April 18, 201412 yr by thailampang2012

Be patient, take time.

Given the gentleman in question was Indian shouldn't the thread title be spelled Fakirs?