medina323 Posted December 17, 2014 Share Posted December 17, 2014 Just go to the mall and and easy to attract younger low mileage girls like moths to flame if your observant. Of course a lot of them want a long term Daddy ATM to rain baht on them. But you can easily give them a test drive and donate to their expenses for the time exchanged. Are you seriously suggesting that ex-pats should stalk young women in shopping malls like predictors on the hunt for vulnerable prey and that many of the girls who visit malls are potential prostitutes? Or perhaps this is your perception that most Thai women have the traits that given the opportunity will prostitute themselves? Low mileage, test drive, you equate them to vehicles. Are you some kind of perverted moron? If I should witness anyone like you perving and trying to solicit women in a public area or shopping mall, I would have you arrested. Weird and sick. Stalk? Yeah they tend to stalk me and if one pays any attention they are interested in other men also. Maybe you don't look attractive to them but when I go to a mall they are trying to catch my eye. If a girl catches your eye after the first contact then it means they are interested in you. I guess some people don't understand that concept. I just give them my email or phone and that's that. Women like attention and if you slip them your email or # then even if they don't call you they feel good about themselves. They feel desireable and that is a big part of why women go to malls etc. They like attention. And have a card or piece of paper all ready to give to them so it's not awkward. Just say excuse me.. Call me if you like and give them the paper. Anymore fake moral outrage you would like to display BJ? So you actually take pre printed cards with your personal info, to the mall, to slip these lucky ladies and make them feel desirable? *chuckle* OP, if nothing else you'll find the CM nightlife (and malls) good for comedy, sometimes intended... sometimes not. But always there. Have not yet had a night out in CM that I would classify as grim (maybe a couple grim moments though). Bottom line with the diaspora of opinions - you're going to have to investigate and make your own call. Beautiful city and place to be. Best of luck. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oscar2 Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 Stalk? Yeah they tend to stalk me and if one pays any attention they are interested in other men also. Maybe you don't look attractive to them but when I go to a mall they are trying to catch my eye. If a girl catches your eye after the first contact then it means they are interested in you. I guess some people don't understand that concept. I just give them my email or phone and that's that. Women like attention and if you slip them your email or # then even if they don't call you they feel good about themselves. They feel desireable and that is a big part of why women go to malls etc. They like attention. And have a card or piece of paper all ready to give to them so it's not awkward. Just say excuse me.. Call me if you like and give them the paper. Anymore fake moral outrage you would like to display BJ? So you actually take pre printed cards with your personal info, to the mall, to slip these lucky ladies and make them feel desirable? *chuckle* OP, if nothing else you'll find the CM nightlife (and malls) good for comedy, sometimes intended... sometimes not. But always there. Have not yet had a night out in CM that I would classify as grim (maybe a couple grim moments though). Bottom line with the diaspora of opinions - you're going to have to investigate and make your own call. Beautiful city and place to be. Best of luck. many, many long-time expats in Thailand have cards printed in Thai language with their contact info and they give them to ladies they meet. many get a good response; provided they are clean, physically fit, nicely dressed, etc. if the lady chooses to make contact, a conversation ensues (in Thai language) and usually a meeting is arranged to meet for a meal. what happens next depends on the chemistry. if you are obese, dirty and unshaven, wearing flip flops, and are a cheap charlie, can't speak a word of Thai even though you've lived here 10 years, then don't bother trying this! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post CobraSnakeNecktie Posted December 18, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted December 18, 2014 (edited) ^^ I don't bother printing cards. Just a handwritten one is fine. I have seen many inappropriately dressed foreigners make connections with Thai girls at malls. And don't kid yourself. If a Thai girl/women is approached and given a paper or card then in her mind she is the hottest thing in the world and will tell many friends and buy new clothes because they deserve it. They think wow that skin whitening therapy and new outfit they bought is sure paying off. Men are now capitivated by their beauty. If you see a girl you find attractive and she makes secondary or more eye contact then approach her and say wow your beautiful and give her your number and walk away. Worst case they don't call. Seriously a guy could be wearing a giant diaper and tell a girl she is beautiful and she is going to massage the experience into something positive about her beauty. Thailand attracts some of the biggest loser guys in the world who had no clue about women in their home countries. They come to Thailand because the supply/demand somewhat compensates for their complete lack of analytical ability and low self confidence. Edited December 18, 2014 by CobraSnakeNecktie 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whispering bag Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 (edited) if you are obese, dirty and unshaven, wearing flip flops, and are a cheap charlie, can't speak a word of Thai even though you've lived here 10 years, then don't bother trying this! i try all of these things, but it doesnt work. i still have to return waves and smiles from multiple beautiful young girls daily. it a real pain after a while. so i only go outside when i absolutely need to. PS: i'll bet you are holding back your best tips and demanding payment or royalties in a book or something Edited December 18, 2014 by whispering bag Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siamod Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 Better not be a smart dresser over here, because almost nobody do these days. The ladies will think you are kind of weird or gay. If you wear wife beaters, shorts and flip flops and are bold, unshaven (yeah, hipster beards) plus have a nice beer belly, you will be much in demand for many thai ladies. At least, it seems so. But I know OT. The bar ladies on Loi Kroh or elsewhere will give a sh.. about this anyway;-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WinnieTheKhwai Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 As we remain short on visuals, another good reason to go is the traditional Thai dancing. This was last night; most cultural experience I had in a while. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Chicog Posted December 18, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted December 18, 2014 As we remain short on visuals, another good reason to go is the traditional Thai dancing. This was last night; most cultural experience I had in a while. DSC00510.JPG Have those women scrubbed and sent to my tent. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daoyai Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 As we remain short on visuals, another good reason to go is the traditional Thai dancing. This was last night; most cultural experience I had in a while. DSC00510.JPG Have those women scrubbed and sent to my tent. Maybe later, at present they are having a feed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparkles Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 Loi Kroh deserves a heritage listing.Years from now people will then be able to see what CM was before the Chinese invasion. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
true blue Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 spicy was certinally busy last night never seen so many ladies in there, mind you there was a few farangs as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
puukao Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 (edited) spicy was indeed hopping.....i wore my best wife beater with super tight denim shorts, and showing my guns like a weight lifter. i do need to lose another 300 lbs/50 stones/150 kgs (?) for my 5 ft 1 frame but no worries i got my groove on. i admit, the girls didn't like me at first, but i was raining 1000's for 10 minutes before i left the king. they say i look good good.... Edited December 18, 2014 by puukao 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slipperylobster Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 As we remain short on visuals, another good reason to go is the traditional Thai dancing. This was last night; most cultural experience I had in a while. DSC00510.JPG Looks like my chair, in the background...at dragonfly bar. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WinnieTheKhwai Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 Well done! Let's do another one. (And yes they're both exceptionally female, and also born as such. (The pre-empt people from serving up that nugget.. Young thai women are finally getting taller, thankfully.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hmficc Posted December 19, 2014 Share Posted December 19, 2014 "And have a card or piece of paper all ready to give to them so it's not awkward. Just say excuse me.. Call me if you like and give them the paper." How many test rides have you gotten from this suave technique? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WinnieTheKhwai Posted December 19, 2014 Share Posted December 19, 2014 (edited) ^ The success rate doesn't have to be very high if the quantity is up there. So it's just persistence really. It's like challenging a girl with "pick a number between 1 and 100, if I can read your mind then you'll have sex with me". Every 50 or so you get it right. 10 in a night, so that means you score at least once a week. Edited December 19, 2014 by WinnieTheKhwai Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orang37 Posted December 19, 2014 Share Posted December 19, 2014 And don't kid yourself. If a Thai girl/women is approached and given a paper or card then in her mind she is the hottest thing in the world and will tell many friends and buy new clothes because they deserve it. ... Seriously a guy could be wearing a giant diaper and tell a girl she is beautiful and she is going to massage the experience into something positive about her beauty. Revelation of the esoteric meaning of an important dynamic aspect of Thai cultural norms and social-interaction patterns ... of-the-month ! ~o:37; 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mickeem Posted January 4, 2015 Share Posted January 4, 2015 Does anyone know why the BIB turned up and had the Loa Kroh bars closed down before midnight last night ? All I mangaged to find out via a couple of quick calls that there was an incident at the bar beginning with L on Kotchasan road Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
true blue Posted January 4, 2015 Share Posted January 4, 2015 must have all gone to yellow,still buzzing big time,at 2 in the morning, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dave2 Posted January 4, 2015 Share Posted January 4, 2015 re Does anyone know why the BIB turned up and had the Loa Kroh bars closed down before midnight last night ? All I mangaged to find out via a couple of quick calls that there was an incident at the bar beginning with L on Kotchasan road ive no idea if they shut down loi kroh bars down at midnight or had an incident in a bar begining with l in kotchasan road but i can tell you they had a police and army check point outside lucky and power bar at 11 ish last night dave2 ps ... theyv seemed to be looking at something out of someones backpack in the back of the pickup truck ! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WinnieTheKhwai Posted January 4, 2015 Share Posted January 4, 2015 (edited) Girl at Power Bar said it was just another checkpoint/alcohol check, moved down from Thapae gate. Didn't shut down the bars; just the usual Gestapo action on people driving cars and motorbikes. Edited January 4, 2015 by WinnieTheKhwai Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mapguy Posted January 4, 2015 Share Posted January 4, 2015 And don't kid yourself. If a Thai girl/women is approached and given a paper or card then in her mind she is the hottest thing in the world and will tell many friends and buy new clothes because they deserve it. ... Seriously a guy could be wearing a giant diaper and tell a girl she is beautiful and she is going to massage the experience into something positive about her beauty. Revelation of the esoteric meaning of an important dynamic aspect of Thai cultural norms and social-interaction patterns ... of-the-month ! ~o:37; Huh? Well, yeah, maybe! Maybe not! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Mapguy Posted January 4, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted January 4, 2015 Fascinating, this overwhelming concern about bars and bar girls, especially on Loi Kroh. If it weren't for that concern--- and that for food, shopping malls and 90-day reports --- ThaiVisa would probably not exist. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amexpat Posted January 4, 2015 Share Posted January 4, 2015 What would you like to discuss, Mapguy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loptr Posted January 4, 2015 Share Posted January 4, 2015 Perhaps we should discuss the paradox between Particle theory vs Wave theory of physics.... Nah, bar girls are more fun... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bill97 Posted January 5, 2015 Share Posted January 5, 2015 And don't kid yourself. If a Thai girl/women is approached and given a paper or card then in her mind she is the hottest thing in the world and will tell many friends and buy new clothes because they deserve it. ... Seriously a guy could be wearing a giant diaper and tell a girl she is beautiful and she is going to massage the experience into something positive about her beauty. Revelation of the esoteric meaning of an important dynamic aspect of Thai cultural norms and social-interaction patterns ... of-the-month ! ~o:37; Huh?Well, yeah, maybe! Maybe not! CSN's expressed attitude about Thai women is so offensive if taken seriously it only speaks to the regrettable condition of his illness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ulysses G. Posted January 5, 2015 Share Posted January 5, 2015 What would you like to discuss, Mapguy? Thai food and Thai temples. It never gets boring. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WinnieTheKhwai Posted January 5, 2015 Share Posted January 5, 2015 (edited) Well there are two temples on Loy Kroh, three if you count the Chinese center, and a McDonalds AND Burger King on either side. So chances are we'll keep debating it no matter what. And there are more and more restaurants opening up, of course. Latest is that Carnival bar now serves food. My original understanding was that this was mostly to get some more wiggle-room on bar-closing days (as they would be able to claim it's a restaurant much like bars in the USA are forced to do in several states. ) but I tried a burger just for the heck of it and it was excellent. Turns out they hired a former chef / chef assistant (and his wife) from Chez Marco. It's not really an environment for fine dining, but I am tempted to now try some of the fancier stuff on the menu. So with the burger place outside of the Raming Lodge Hotel, and McD adn Burger King, Loy Kroh may yet turn into the new Hamburger Argument Battle Ground! Edited January 5, 2015 by WinnieTheKhwai 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Diplomatico Posted January 5, 2015 Share Posted January 5, 2015 Tried Rock Me burger yet? Only been there once but thought it was pretty good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
binjalin Posted January 5, 2015 Share Posted January 5, 2015 well a friend tells me, as he goes to LK weekly, that its still good fun BUT he misses the bars near D2 which were always fun too but as part of the current 'D's 'bringing happiness' they do close earlier than previously Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ulysses G. Posted January 5, 2015 Share Posted January 5, 2015 (edited) And there are more and more restaurants opening up, of course. Latest is that Carnival bar now serves food. Unless she has sold it, the owner had a restaurant there initially, which had moved from behind where Cozy Corner used to be: The Laughing Leprechaun used to be one of the best places in town. However, that was a lot more due to her former husband than to her, but maybe she remembers enough to provide some good food once again. Edited January 5, 2015 by Ulysses G. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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