April 10, 201511 yr What is with this "effeminate" reference to the teacher who went to Singapore? Most child molesters appear to be straight, have families, and abuse their own children. Gays are attracted to the same sex and are not pedophiles. Another comment akin to sexy dressing causes rape. What a primitive, uninformed, uninsightful, repressed group of people!!!. How can these folks be so blind to the devastating effects molestation has on children? I am in a group of recovering people and every drug abuser who is a woman in the group was sexually abused as a child. Coincidence? I think not. Get a grip guys!!!!!! While I tend to agree with much of what you say, I cannot agree with your statement "Gays are attracted to the same sex and are not pedophiles." Do you mean, unless they are priests? Are pedophiles attracted to the same sex child not homosexual? Gay,straight, or bisexual; pedophiles like children for sex. Not sure that pedophiles can be considered gay or straight. A man who assaults young girls is a pedophile, not a "straight" pedophile, but a pedophile alone. The same must be said for a man who assaults young boys. {Or female pedophiles} Gay or straight are sexual preferences linked to a persons whole being. Pedophiles are a whole different creature and I'm not sure they belong in either category. Purely a personal perspective and am in no way claiming this is linked to any sort of study or psychological definition of a pedophile. I just don't see them as part of the same spectrum as gay or straight people.
April 10, 201511 yr What is with this "effeminate" reference to the teacher who went to Singapore? Most child molesters appear to be straight, have families, and abuse their own children. Gays are attracted to the same sex and are not pedophiles. Another comment akin to sexy dressing causes rape. What a primitive, uninformed, uninsightful, repressed group of people!!!. How can these folks be so blind to the devastating effects molestation has on children? I am in a group of recovering people and every drug abuser who is a woman in the group was sexually abused as a child. Coincidence? I think not. Get a grip guys!!!!!! While I tend to agree with much of what you say, I cannot agree with your statement "Gays are attracted to the same sex and are not pedophiles." Do you mean, unless they are priests? Are pedophiles attracted to the same sex child not homosexual? Gay,straight, or bisexual; pedophiles like children for sex. Not sure that pedophiles can be considered gay or straight. A man who assaults young girls is a pedophile, not a "straight" pedophile, but a pedophile alone. The same must be said for a man who assaults young boys. {Or female pedophiles} Gay or straight are sexual preferences linked to a persons whole being. Pedophiles are a whole different creature and I'm not sure they belong in either category. Purely a personal perspective and am in no way claiming this is linked to any sort of study or psychological definition of a pedophile. I just don't see them as part of the same spectrum as gay or straight people. Then, in your mind, there would be no sexual orientation difference bewtween an adult male who likes little boys and an adult male who likes little girls? Edited April 10, 201511 yr by smotherb
April 10, 201511 yr What is with this "effeminate" reference to the teacher who went to Singapore? Most child molesters appear to be straight, have families, and abuse their own children. Gays are attracted to the same sex and are not pedophiles. Another comment akin to sexy dressing causes rape. What a primitive, uninformed, uninsightful, repressed group of people!!!. How can these folks be so blind to the devastating effects molestation has on children? I am in a group of recovering people and every drug abuser who is a woman in the group was sexually abused as a child. Coincidence? I think not. Get a grip guys!!!!!! While I tend to agree with much of what you say, I cannot agree with your statement "Gays are attracted to the same sex and are not pedophiles." Do you mean, unless they are priests? Are pedophiles attracted to the same sex child not homosexual? Gay,straight, or bisexual; pedophiles like children for sex. Not sure that pedophiles can be considered gay or straight. A man who assaults young girls is a pedophile, not a "straight" pedophile, but a pedophile alone. The same must be said for a man who assaults young boys. {Or female pedophiles}Gay or straight are sexual preferences linked to a persons whole being. Pedophiles are a whole different creature and I'm not sure they belong in either category. Purely a personal perspective and am in no way claiming this is linked to any sort of study or psychological definition of a pedophile. I just don't see them as part of the same spectrum as gay or straight people. Then, in your mind, there would be no sexual orientation difference bewtween an adult male who likes little boys and an adult make who like little girls? Honestly, I don't know. I know pedophiles have a type and tend to go for children who fit that type. I just don't know if they can be classified as gay or straight.
April 10, 201511 yr Dear JOC, dear mikemac.... if I want your sarcy remarks, I would probably have asked you! And if you were as intelligent as you are funny (...well..., I guess you are!), you might notice, that I asked Manbing to clarify. IF it was sarcasm...fine! But with the bunch of numbskulls, talking about "nanny states" and "the PC- brigade" ...and being serious about it...it is sometimes not easy to know! And now: get going, the bars open soon for Happy Hour! Would you like JOC and I to bring you back a Shirley Temple ? And there is nothing to joke about when it comes to nanny states and the PC brigade. They are real and should be feared and taken seriously. ...zzzzzzzzzzzzzz.....very interesting.....zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz....
April 10, 201511 yr Dear JOC, dear mikemac.... if I want your sarcy remarks, I would probably have asked you! And if you were as intelligent as you are funny (...well..., I guess you are!), you might notice, that I asked Manbing to clarify. IF it was sarcasm...fine! But with the bunch of numbskulls, talking about "nanny states" and "the PC- brigade" ...and being serious about it...it is sometimes not easy to know! And now: get going, the bars open soon for Happy Hour! Would you like JOC and I to bring you back a Shirley Temple ? And there is nothing to joke about when it comes to nanny states and the PC brigade. They are real and should be feared and taken seriously. ...zzzzzzzzzzzzzz.....very interesting.....zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.... Mission accomplished !
April 10, 201511 yr What is with this "effeminate" reference to the teacher who went to Singapore? Most child molesters appear to be straight, have families, and abuse their own children. Gays are attracted to the same sex and are not pedophiles. Another comment akin to sexy dressing causes rape. What a primitive, uninformed, uninsightful, repressed group of people!!!. How can these folks be so blind to the devastating effects molestation has on children? I am in a group of recovering people and every drug abuser who is a woman in the group was sexually abused as a child. Coincidence? I think not. Get a grip guys!!!!!! You cannot say that there are no pedophiles in the gay community.Yes, there are also gay pedophiles. Good luck with your recovery and group. Right, you cannot say there are no gay pedophiles. Not having seen any credible research on this, I would expect that the percentage of gays who are pedophiles is similar to that with Austrians who are pedophiles or truck-drivers who are pedophiles. As such, being gay or being effeminate has no probative value at all.
April 10, 201511 yr What is with this "effeminate" reference to the teacher who went to Singapore? Most child molesters appear to be straight, have families, and abuse their own children. Gays are attracted to the same sex and are not pedophiles. Another comment akin to sexy dressing causes rape. What a primitive, uninformed, uninsightful, repressed group of people!!!. How can these folks be so blind to the devastating effects molestation has on children? I am in a group of recovering people and every drug abuser who is a woman in the group was sexually abused as a child. Coincidence? I think not. Get a grip guys!!!!!! While I tend to agree with much of what you say, I cannot agree with your statement "Gays are attracted to the same sex and are not pedophiles." Do you mean, unless they are priests? Are pedophiles attracted to the same sex child not homosexual? Gay,straight, or bisexual; pedophiles like children for sex. Not sure that pedophiles can be considered gay or straight. A man who assaults young girls is a pedophile, not a "straight" pedophile, but a pedophile alone. The same must be said for a man who assaults young boys. {Or female pedophiles}Gay or straight are sexual preferences linked to a persons whole being. Pedophiles are a whole different creature and I'm not sure they belong in either category. Purely a personal perspective and am in no way claiming this is linked to any sort of study or psychological definition of a pedophile. I just don't see them as part of the same spectrum as gay or straight people. Then, in your mind, there would be no sexual orientation difference bewtween an adult male who likes little boys and an adult male who likes little girls? A pedophile is someone who is sexually attracted to prepubescent children (either boys or girls or both). There are other names for people who are attracted sexually to children who have or are going through puberty. So no there is no difference if a pedophile is attracted to boys or girls - it's got to do with the stage of the child's development (prepubescent). A gay person is someone who is sexually attracted to someone of the same sex. I have worked with victims is this area (among others) for over 15 years.
April 10, 201511 yr Western teachers accused could end up in a prison ...guilty, and case closed. Live under this rule and be prepared to suffer the risks. Xenophobic , Nationalistic , fever is the tool of use. Dirty westerners soon to be banned from schools? Property seized ? What's next? This is the very beginning And forget fair and balanced The innocent will get locked up and if lucky deported. Edited April 10, 201511 yr by Plutojames88
April 10, 201511 yr Popular Post Homosexual and heterosexual are not operative terms in regard to pedophilia, anymore than they would be operative terms when used with those who engage in bestiality. Pedophiles generally fall into two categories, fixated or regressed. Fixated pedophiles are people whose emotional development stops, usually because of some traumatic event, at a particular age. Since this fixation occurs prior to puberty, they are naturally fixated on the same sex. Prepubescent children have little or no interest in the opposite sex. As they grow older, they remain emotionally fixated at the age where they stopped emotionally developing. The body and the mind become sexual, but the emotions are of a child. They then go on to engage in sexual activity with those at around the age that they are fixated. Fixated pedophiles usually cannot be treated. Regressed pedophiles are usually attracted to the opposite sex. They are people who have poor coping skills and are usually facing some difficult situation with which they have a great deal of trouble coping. It can be loss of a job, a death, divorce, etc.. As a coping mechanism they 'regress' to an earlier time, but since they have matured sexually, their orientation is toward opposite sex relations. For the vast majority of people when we look at a child, we do not see anything sexual. Just like when we look at an animal we don't see them in a sexual manner. So whether you like males or females, normal people don't find themselves sexually attracted to a child. Once a person enters puberty, then there are other terms, such as hebephilia. Once puberty starts, then a sexual interest becomes more normal. It may well be illegal, but generally it is not considered a mental condition. Without knowing a little more about the age of the victims, we can't make definitive statements about the perpetrator, except that he has violated the law, the position of a teacher and numerous other moral and probably legal situations. So, let's keep this discussion on the topic of the abuse of children and stay away from a circular debate of straight/gay issues in pedophilia.
April 11, 201511 yr Child molesters to lose teaching licences: council And then what???? Free to go anywhere else????? Have some tea-money for compensation???? "The process of selecting teachers cannot screen all [the bad candidates] out, and there are nearly 400,000 teachers in Thailand, hence a large organisation like this is bound to have some bad apples," Narong said. "People who apply to be teachers don't show an inappropriate side while applying for the job but when they actually work and are exposed to temptations, some might do inappropriate things, and they must be probed and severely punished if found guilty," he said. BS lame FACE saving XXXX-cuse as always ......
April 11, 201511 yr Bongoz said, "A pedophile is someone who is sexually attracted to prepubescent children (either boys or girls or both). There are other names for people who are attracted sexually to children who have or are going through puberty. So no there is no difference if a pedophile is attracted to boys or girls - it's got to do with the stage of the child's development (prepubescent). A gay person is someone who is sexually attracted to someone of the same sex. I have worked with victims is this area (among others) for over 15 years." I do not doubt your belief; however, I would like some creditable citation--not wikipedia, or any other non-scholarly source-- for your statements. I find it hard to believe there is no difference between someone who likes sex with little boys and someone who likes sex with little girls. Edited April 11, 201511 yr by smotherb
April 11, 201511 yr The office of basic education commission? Never heard of this burracratic juggernaut before. Well it looks like they finally found a reason to exist anyway. I wonder how many useless employees sucking up a government salary for who know how long it took to come up with this pearl of wisdom.
April 11, 201511 yr The office of basic education commission? Never heard of this burracratic juggernaut before. Well it looks like they finally found a reason to exist anyway. I wonder how many useless employees sucking up a government salary for who know how long it took to come up with this pearl of wisdom. They are the department in charge of general schooling in Thailand and the increasingly dumb arse teachers council of Thailand (Khurusapha)
April 11, 201511 yr "Office of the Basic Education Commission chief Kamol Rodklai said yesterday that the council had informed him that incidents of teachers molesting students would be regarded as major cases and council officials would assist any police investigation." So what was the previous policy? It does make you wonder ... Policy, what policy?
April 11, 201511 yr Homosexual and heterosexual are not operative terms in regard to pedophilia, anymore than they would be operative terms when used with those who engage in bestiality. Pedophiles generally fall into two categories, fixated or regressed. Fixated pedophiles are people whose emotional development stops, usually because of some traumatic event, at a particular age. Since this fixation occurs prior to puberty, they are naturally fixated on the same sex. Prepubescent children have little or no interest in the opposite sex. As they grow older, they remain emotionally fixated at the age where they stopped emotionally developing. The body and the mind become sexual, but the emotions are of a child. They then go on to engage in sexual activity with those at around the age that they are fixated. Fixated pedophiles usually cannot be treated. Regressed pedophiles are usually attracted to the opposite sex. They are people who have poor coping skills and are usually facing some difficult situation with which they have a great deal of trouble coping. It can be loss of a job, a death, divorce, etc.. As a coping mechanism they 'regress' to an earlier time, but since they have matured sexually, their orientation is toward opposite sex relations. For the vast majority of people when we look at a child, we do not see anything sexual. Just like when we look at an animal we don't see them in a sexual manner. So whether you like males or females, normal people don't find themselves sexually attracted to a child. Once a person enters puberty, then there are other terms, such as hebephilia. Once puberty starts, then a sexual interest becomes more normal. It may well be illegal, but generally it is not considered a mental condition. Without knowing a little more about the age of the victims, we can't make definitive statements about the perpetrator, except that he has violated the law, the position of a teacher and numerous other moral and probably legal situations. So, let's keep this discussion on the topic of the abuse of children and stay away from a circular debate of straight/gay issues in pedophilia. Scott, perhaps we are arguing semantics, but it appears you, Bluespunk, and Bongoz espouse beliefs that same-sex or different-sex preference in pedophilia is nonsense. However, you do so without citing accountable social research to support your statements. I ask for viable cited research to support your statements, if that is indeed what you are saying. I believe there is a difference between adult males who prefer sex with male children and adult males who prefer sex with female children. You may replace "adult males" with "adult females" in both places used and the same statement is made. In this belief, I am neither suggesting homosexuals are the abusers of same-sex children nor am I suggesting heterosexuals are the abusers of different-sex children. Indeed, some pedophiles may have no adult sexual orientation. However, I believe there must be a difference between the two groups. I too did not cite supporting research. However, in support of my statements, I find several sustainable sources, one article, http://psychology.ucdavis.edu/faculty_sites/rainbow/html/facts_molestation.html does cite several studies which recognize a difference between abusers of same-sex children and abusers of different-sex children. The research is on-going and I have yet to see a definitive study which defines the difference. Suffice to say, I still believe there must be a difference between same-sex and different-sex child molesters. These studies include: Marshall et al. (1988). Sexual offenders against male children: Sexual preference. Behaviour Research and Therapy, 26, 383-391.; Blanchard et al. (2000). Fraternal birth order and sexual orientation in pedophiles. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 29, 463-478.; and Bickley & Beech. (2001). Classifying child abusers: Its relevance to theory and clinical practice. International Journal Of Offender Therapy And Comparative Criminology, 45, 51-69. The focus of much of this research is to debunk the posit that homosexuals are more likely child molesters than heteroseuals. I offer no argument to that conjecture. However, according to the article, . . . none of the studies in this area have obtained data from a probability sample, that is, a sample that can be assumed to be representative of the population of all child molesters . . . not all child sexual abuse is perpetrated by pedophiles (or hebephiles) and not all pedophiles and hebephiles actually commit abuse . . . Another problem related to terminology arises because sexual abuse of male children by adult men is often referred to as "homosexual molestation." The adjective "homosexual" (or "heterosexual" when a man abuses a female child) refers to the victim's gender in relation to that of the perpetrator . . . The distinction between a victim's gender and a perpetrator's sexual orientation is important because many child molesters don't really have an adult sexual orientation. http://psychology.ucdavis.edu/faculty_sites/rainbow/html/facts_molestation.html FYI, Hebephiles are molesters of adolescent children.
April 11, 201511 yr Homosexual and heterosexual are not operative terms in regard to pedophilia, anymore than they would be operative terms when used with those who engage in bestiality. Pedophiles generally fall into two categories, fixated or regressed. Fixated pedophiles are people whose emotional development stops, usually because of some traumatic event, at a particular age. Since this fixation occurs prior to puberty, they are naturally fixated on the same sex. Prepubescent children have little or no interest in the opposite sex. As they grow older, they remain emotionally fixated at the age where they stopped emotionally developing. The body and the mind become sexual, but the emotions are of a child. They then go on to engage in sexual activity with those at around the age that they are fixated. Fixated pedophiles usually cannot be treated. Regressed pedophiles are usually attracted to the opposite sex. They are people who have poor coping skills and are usually facing some difficult situation with which they have a great deal of trouble coping. It can be loss of a job, a death, divorce, etc.. As a coping mechanism they 'regress' to an earlier time, but since they have matured sexually, their orientation is toward opposite sex relations. For the vast majority of people when we look at a child, we do not see anything sexual. Just like when we look at an animal we don't see them in a sexual manner. So whether you like males or females, normal people don't find themselves sexually attracted to a child. Once a person enters puberty, then there are other terms, such as hebephilia. Once puberty starts, then a sexual interest becomes more normal. It may well be illegal, but generally it is not considered a mental condition. Without knowing a little more about the age of the victims, we can't make definitive statements about the perpetrator, except that he has violated the law, the position of a teacher and numerous other moral and probably legal situations. So, let's keep this discussion on the topic of the abuse of children and stay away from a circular debate of straight/gay issues in pedophilia. Scott, perhaps we are arguing semantics, but it appears you, Bluespunk, and Bongoz espouse beliefs that same-sex or different-sex preference in pedophilia is nonsense. However, you do so without citing accountable social research to support your statements. I ask for viable cited research to support your statements, if that is indeed what you say. I believe there is a difference between adult males or females who prefer sex with male children and adult males or females who prefer sex with female children. You may replace "adult males" with "adult females" in both places and the statement still stands. In this belief, I neither suggested homosexuals are the abusers of same-sex children nor suggested heterosexuals are the abusers of different-sex children. Indeed, some pedophiles may have no adult sexual orientation. However, I believe there must be a difference between the two groups. I too did not cite supporting research. However, in support of my statements, I find several sustainable sources, one article, http://psychology.ucdavis.edu/faculty_sites/rainbow/html/facts_molestation.html does cite several studies which recognize a difference between abusers of same-sex children and abusers of different-sex children. These studies include: Marshall et al. (1988). Sexual offenders against male children: Sexual preference. Behaviour Research and Therapy, 26, 383-391.; Blanchard et al. (2000). Fraternal birth order and sexual orientation in pedophiles. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 29, 463-478.; and Bickley & Beech. (2001). Classifying child abusers: Its relevance to theory and clinical practice. International Journal Of Offender Therapy And Comparative Criminology, 45, 51-69. I realize there must be more current research, but my library site is down for maintenance and it is getting late. This research is on-going and I find no definitive results. Much of this research is focused on debunking the position that homosexuals are more prone to child molestation than heterosexuals. However, according to the article, . . . none of the studies in this area have obtained data from a probability sample, that is, a sample that can be assumed to be representative of the population of all child molesters . . . not all child sexual abuse is perpetrated by pedophiles (or hebephiles) and not all pedophiles and hebephiles actually commit abuse . . . Another problem related to terminology arises because sexual abuse of male children by adult men is often referred to as "homosexual molestation." The adjective "homosexual" (or "heterosexual" when a man abuses a female child) refers to the victim's gender in relation to that of the perpetrator . . . The distinction between a victim's gender and a perpetrator's sexual orientation is important because many child molesters don't really have an adult sexual orientation. http://psychology.ucdavis.edu/faculty_sites/rainbow/html/facts_molestation.html The term, hebephile, refers to an adult who molests adolescent children.
April 11, 201511 yr First of all: about time! Second of all: step in the right direction! [email protected] I rip your throat on that comment...care to explain? Yet more proof that those who use or threaten violence are not the brightest of individuals. They must really hate that they can't throw their stupid fists around on the internet
April 12, 201511 yr Child molesters to lose teaching licences: Thai council Is that all? it's a joke! That's what OBEC via the teachers council will do. We presume the police would prosecute the guilty person.
April 12, 201511 yr First of all: about time! Second of all: step in the right direction! [email protected] I rip your throat on that comment...care to explain? Like everyone told you, it's a sarcastic remark aimed at the inadequacy of this policy to deter kiddy fiddlers. Losing their license to operate should be the least of their problems. I'd reserve a special place in hell for these creeps. I wouldn't deport them either. Thai prison is far worse than uprooting and moving these pond scum on to fresh pastures. It's a shame some people are too retarded to stop abusing children and to get sarcasm when it's so frequently in evidence on this site.
April 12, 201511 yr Lose license. Yes THAT should stop their putrid behavior. No jail? No, but it will keep them out of schools.
April 12, 201511 yr I know there are a lot of teachers on this forum and I would like to ask you a question. How wary are you in your dealings with your charges that you ensure that an allegation of sexual misconduct cannot be levelled against you? I ask this because the Teachers Union in the UK is very concerned about the number of false allegations made against teachers, often called 'revenge allegations'. Less than 1% of all these allegations end up in UK courts, implying that either the allegation was false or there was insufficient evidence. Read the rather disturbing Telegraph report, especially the comments at the end. http://www.telegraph.co.uk/education/educationnews/9194130/Prosecute-children-over-false-allegations
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