My thai girlfriend - is she cheating on me?

[MrTrip]

Is that op a draft for a new book

Yeh it's going to be called "50 shades of paranoia and insecurity"

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[Gumballl]

What are the single women in France like these days? Do they spend all their free time in a church praying to God?

Seriously, I bet the beautiful single French women fornicate like rabbits. It's no different in any other part of the world, including Thailand. Everybody is looking for fun, and they know they only live once.

[kannot]

I wondered why my Wife was always busy at weekends.................has she got black hair? I think it might be her?

[wow64]

Yes to all the questions... Cant believe you had to ask.

Belly button ring... No bush and goes to farang bars... A few of the guys here probably know her.

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[Loptr]

She is not your girlfriend, she is a friend you shag... The term in Thai is gik...

[yellowboat]

Regardless of her virtue, you are at a disadvantage. Looks like you need to be a little more casual and not throw yourself into this.

[Whyamiandwhatamidoinghere]

Why worry if she is cheating on you? Stay in Thailand long enough and you'll be doing the same. Enjoy yourself... Get an Oralquick HIV Saliva Kit and test her even though you superman into the pussy without thinking. Any girl on a dating site that is gorgeous has probably entertained a few Batmans and Robins and a shit load of Thai men in a simular manner. This is The Land Of Smile where dreams are dreams. Pussy has no face unless you want it to. Think for a moment about this long essay you wrote. Seem kosher?

Edited September 12, 2015 by Whyamiandwhatamidoinghere

[h90]

Farang tink too mutt, let's face facts a decent Thai girl would not be shagging you a few hours after meeting you

not you.....but me so handsum they can't hold back......and he is from France, so he also smells better than me

[Whyamiandwhatamidoinghere]

There are many men on boothill and suicidehill who came here believing in a beautiful Thai girl. Your story is typical and there are numerous books filled with wide-eyed men seeking whatever who fall into the trap. Don't let the pursuit of happiness or pussy make you another resident in the above mentioned resting places. With that said, there are good women to be found...

[tajtom]

If she was on a dating site

Listen carefully to me ok.... They are internet players and use multiple phone apps that find 100,s and thousands of men

Yes you goose she is cheating and will never go off the phone $$$$

Grow a brain

[Soutpeel]

Farang tink too mutt, let's face facts a decent Thai girl would not be shagging you a few hours after meeting you

She abides to the first rule... It's wrong to be French...

Which is an interesting point, it seems to me the OP's English appears to be 1st language by the phrasing and syntax, and typically a garlic eating surrender monkey, certainly the ones i have come across wouldnt write this way

Further and i stand to be corrected, believe he mentioned getting a shower so proof postive the OP is not a surrender monkey

[tajtom]

Insanity and Levels are all working hoes LOL.... You should confirm her job son and no she is not what we say a good girl

Sorry to break the news son

[Berkshire]

Hey Frank, if you're the jealous type, you need to remove yourself from this relationship because you're just going to be torturing yourself. She's obviously into farangs. Unfortunately, Thai women who are into farangs are usually going to be into many farangs at the same time. And a Thai woman who slips into the sack that easily is going to be pretty popular online. I'm sure you know that there are tons of farangs in-country always looking for a free shag. Your "GF" appears ready and willing to provide. You're there, they're here. There's no way you're going to stop it.

[tajtom]

But not worry your banging the little hoe free arent you

What she wants is the slow release the bigger BAHT... You are a nieve falang with little experience she knows that and soon she will send you on your way

Good Luck

[juice777]

Take advice from the sugur hill gang song rappers delight "if your girl starts acting up then u take her friend" welcome to Thailand mate

[fang37]

I suggest that you ask the g/f for some x-rated videos starring herself. Then, you might learn why she strays.

[BKKSnowBird]

Good girls do not go to Pattaya or Insanity in BKK to party with the girls.

I know because I use to go there looking for bad girls.

There are many other clubs in BKK to go but Insanity, Climax, and Spicy is where girls go to make a few extra bucks.

[stephenterry]

You need to accept that someone is financing her lifestyle - maybe a rich old farang. But either he's not around much and/or can't satisfy her like a young man can. She probably does like you and is willing to enjoy her sex life while she's young enough.

So should you. Just chill, and don't ask questions, because believe me, at this point in time she's not serious about settling down. IMO, Thai girls in their 30s who enjoy partying are immature and live for today. They are also fun to be with.

Don't get all hung up about it, it's not going to happen. What you are is a gik (a bit on the side).

[asdecas]

It's Saturday Psychology time again at ThaiVisa Relationship Experts!

Seriously OP, if it don't feel right, it probably ain't right. In fact I'll go further and say it certainly ain't right.

Extricate.

[phitsanulokjohn]

For a french man,you sure write a decent English story,but if i were you i'd be inclined to listen to Quasimodo the hunchback of notre dame when he said the bells the bells......

[csabo]

Imagine a fisherman sitting in the center of a ring of fishing poles all dangling hooks in the water. Whats the fisherman waiting for?? Your GF is the fisherman. You are a minnow. Do you wanna be a fish or a fisherman? Keep HER on the hook instead. If she breaks loose...you guessed it..there's other fish in the sea.

[faraday]

Be guided by your feelings about this & I don't mean how you feel about her. You are very unsure, hence your long post. That's a warning sign.

Is she a 'bad lady' -I'm not sure . Just be careful,have fun & don't get hurt.

[thaibeachlovers]

Sounds like you want a "good" Thai girl that won't sleep around, but she slept with you first night and, even worse, had her packed bag with her when she picked you up.

I don't know if she is sleeping with other men, but I don't think you have the mental ability to marry a Thai girl. Just because they are friendly doesn't mean a thing once you are married.

Either just stay with her for the "fun", or look for a woman that won't sleep with you till she is married.

[BKResort]

Before I got married, in 3 years, I met around 40 mid age women, and I had relationships with 25. All decent working women...no bar girls, all younger than myself, some very beautiful, and I am not good looking, young, or rich.

I am sure, without asking, that at least 20 of them were having sex with other men...but..I was just having fun, wearing condoms, and I am not jealous.

The only one I asked about, was the one I liked most and I dated longer. She told me that she was dating another farang at the same time.

Most what your girl friend did it is very common here, for most mid age women looking for a farang boy friend or husband.

If you are jealous, Thailand is not the best place to getting hook for the first one you meet.

If you are jealous, Thailand may not even be the right place for you to deal with beautiful women....decent or not.

[thaibeachlovers]

PS. Use condoms. Don't trust her to be on the pill. Women use babies to ensure the ATM is well and truly hooked.

[steven100]

Quick !! where's the troll meter ?

[Chicken George]

First girlfriend.. not like there is a shortage here so play the field. Take lots of girls out. Date lots till you find one that is more to your taste.

[godden]

I think the guy needs to see a shrink.

[lucifer666]

Yes, she's cheating

[CrummyJuggler]

She has dated men much older than you, probably twice your age. You are near her age and handsome (I presume). Among her friends and family you would be a real catch, she knows it, but you a fresh from farangland and do not know your value or what you can get if you keep looking. She is going all out to impress you, wants you to fall in love with her, have a baby and marriage, before you realize your other options. I don't think she is being devious, just wants to impress you, keep you interested with the goal of something permanent with you. Give her some time, enjoy her company for a while, then decide if you want to keep her or move on.