sahibji Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 Don't have a girlfriend or boyfriend who has any signs of violent tendencies or mentally unstable. They can't handle relationships breaking up. Well your a bright one, pray tell how can you reconize a future crazy girl friend when you first meet? you may not pick up tell tale signs at the first meeting but some indication will start to show up in the course of time which sometimes get ignored and later bigger signs show up. being alert will pay not being "blinded" by love (which may be faked ). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clamhua Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 Are all disagreements dealt with violence in this country? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sahibji Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 As much as I like Thai people- one thing is a fact. Once a Thai becomes angry most lose control of themselves they become violent and threatening . they do not think of consequences of their actions. It is almost like they are temporarily insane. Best course of action- get out of their way if possible. When in that state they cannot be reasoned with.you have read the situation very well indeed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sahibji Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 it is unfortunate that the actual circumstances related to the incident rarely come to light. was it promises made to the attacker and not fulfilled or ill treatment or so many of the other behavioural traits that incensed the attacker. surely this sort of action cannot be condoned but it would be interesting to hear the other side of the story. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oxo1947 Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 A brit lad once told me: If you have never been robbed by a pro, you have never lived. if you havent been chased by ladyboys, youve never lived. If you havent been threatenef at knifepoint by thai gf you never lived. If you never been (semi) beaten up, shirt ripped to threads by a Thai gf, you havent had a Thai gf. 'Insanely and uncontrollably Im sure many farangs know those two words.555 So your Ladyboy GF done all those things to you..............wow you have lived............... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Asiantravel Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 flashback to the 1987 movie fatal attraction Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
timendres Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 A brit lad once told me: If you have never been robbed by a pro, you have never lived. if you havent been chased by ladyboys, youve never lived. If you havent been threatenef at knifepoint by thai gf you never lived. If you never been (semi) beaten up, shirt ripped to threads by a Thai gf, you havent had a Thai gf. 'Insanely and uncontrollably Im sure many farangs know those two words.555 Apparently, I have lived a lot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rimmer Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 A flame has been removed also one reply to it: 7) You will respect fellow members and post in a civil manner. No personal attacks, hateful or insulting towards other members, (flaming) Stalking of members on either the forum or via PM will not be allowed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ggt Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 While escorting the soon to be ex-gf to the condo door...she reached into a kitchen drawer and pulled out a knife...whereupon she set about trying to stab me...during the melee I managed to call the condo police desk...asking for assistance...I could hear them talking a laughing...no one came to my aid... Managed to get the knife away without too much damage to her or myself...and throw her butt out the door... When I went down stairs to ask what happened to my condo police assistance in my time of need...they laughed once again... This is Thailand... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krataiboy Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smotherb Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 Don't have a girlfriend or boyfriend who has any signs of violent tendencies or mentally unstable. They can't handle relationships breaking up. Well your a bright one, pray tell how can you reconize a future crazy girl friend when you first meet? If she becomes your girlfriend when you first meet her; that would be a good sign you may want to avoid her. Obviously, the OP was suggesting you get to know her before making her your girlfriend. See how she reacts to you talking to or being with other girls, watch her reactions to other men, see what demands she places on your relationship, observe her reactions to your likes and dislikes; and do so before you make her yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IAMHERE Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 What is he doing at walking street when has a "girlfriend"? Shopping ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swanny321 Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 Recently a screaming mad Thai wife, and there have been dozens before her, tried to cut her husbands penis off. This was tantamount to attempted murder. Just because he was doing what all Thai men do - screw around. Well according to every Thai women I met they screw around. When I pointed this out to the Thai women I share a condo with that the wife should be in jail - her response was a bit worrying....she believed the guy got what he deserved..........so attacking someone with a lethal weapon is the normal response by all locals here to infidelity....soooooooo don't ever forget that...!!!!! I was going say...lucky she didn't try to snip off his wiener-schnitzel! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mesterm Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 What is he doing at walking street when has a "girlfriend"? Walking, having a drink, eating, shopping, sight seeing? How about whatever he wants? Why should he not be in Walking Street? Sure. That's probably why a Thai woman stabbed him in public with scissors. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mesterm Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 What is he doing at walking street when has a "girlfriend"? Shopping ? For women? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WishWashMan Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 Im appalled , we all know she isnt a gf. SO stop calling her that. The man is her JOHN and she is his lady of the evening. WORDS DO MATTER. TOO many liberals dont want to cal ISIS ISIS.. Same principle here......................lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scubascuba3 Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 Im appalled , we all know she isnt a gf. SO stop calling her that. The man is her JOHN and she is his lady of the evening. WORDS DO MATTER. TOO many liberals dont want to cal ISIS ISIS.. Same principle here......................lol. Did you read the article? She has been his girlfriend for 2 years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WishWashMan Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 Im appalled , we all know she isnt a gf. SO stop calling her that. The man is her JOHN and she is his lady of the evening. WORDS DO MATTER. TOO many liberals dont want to cal ISIS ISIS.. Same principle here......................lol. Did you read the article? She has been his girlfriend for 2 years. No i did not read the article. Dont have too, its Thailand..............................hahahahahaha. Im modern day Sherlock Holmes. Main clue is its Pattya baby! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thechook Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 ...looks really savage.... ...and 'No means no'..... ...having a pair of scissors suggests 'premeditation' as well.... ...attempted murder....15 years....??? ...sadly probably not even 15 days.... You will get more for kicking a Thai dog than trying to kill a farang. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ozyjon Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 SORRY i'm leav8ng or going to get some milk or going to the toilet,,, in Cambodia and never come back, burn your sim card immediately. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Syduan Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 Don't have a girlfriend or boyfriend who has any signs of violent tendencies or mentally unstable. They can't handle relationships breaking up. That covers about 50% of the female population. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gandalf12 Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 Don't have a girlfriend or boyfriend who has any signs of violent tendencies or mentally unstable. They can't handle relationships breaking up. Well your a bright one, pray tell how can you reconize a future crazy girl friend when you first meet? Probably a good indication if she is carrying a large pair of scissors Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chicowoodduck Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 Rule Number 1...NEVER go with a lady who carries scissors in her handbag. RUle Number 2.....NERVER, EVER have a Thai girlfriend......end of story...? What if she is a hairdresser ? I have had a few of those and NEVER get the straight edge razor shave....? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chicowoodduck Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 Rule Number 1...NEVER go with a lady who carries scissors in her handbag. Rule Number 2.....NEVER, EVER have a Thai girlfriend......end of story...? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
captspectre Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 Don't have a girlfriend or boyfriend who has any signs of violent tendencies or mentally unstable. They can't handle relationships breaking up. Well your a bright one, pray tell how can you reconize a future crazy girl friend when you first meet? Easy, if you haven't worked it out already you have no chance. Sorry to rain on your parade but i was married to a woman for 20 ys with mental health problems its no joking matter and there wasn't any way of seeing what was to come, she went the opposite way to the above no 2 people are the same. why would you publicialy tell everyone who can read that your wife was nuts? don't you have any pride or feelings for her to publicially say that? what good that it do for you to write that statement? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mickmouse1 Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 Happy to only go with oldies who have good established business and reputation???safe man safe!!!!!??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luudee Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 The problem is that most farang do not understand how not "Losing Face" is important to Thais. If they are in public and do anything that makes their G/F loose face, and may be in a somewhat drunken state overdo it, some Thais will go overboard. Jealousy is an internationally occurring emotion. One has to understand the social environment and customs. Bringing your Thai g/f to walking street is a dumb idea ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ALFREDO Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 (edited) Im appalled , we all know she isnt a gf. SO stop calling her that. The man is her JOHN and she is his lady of the evening. WORDS DO MATTER. TOO many liberals dont want to cal ISIS ISIS.. Same principle here......................lol. Did you read the article? She has been his girlfriend for 2 years. No i did not read the article. Dont have too, its Thailand..............................hahahahahaha. Im modern day Sherlock Holmes. Main clue is its Pattya baby! To make that clear for you - The Walking Street and surroundings in only a small part of Pattaya and a lot of Expat people live there and have real relationships. So, sometimes you will go there, with or without Gf, but that is not a every day occasion. So if you ignorant and uninformed, not be sarcastic and impolite, just not write here only stereotype. I lived in 2 different, long relationships for many years in Patong, similar to Pattaya city and was also some times in Soi Bangla - the Patong - Walking Street, and know what I write about! Edited June 27, 2016 by ALFREDO Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atyclb Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 Don't have a girlfriend or boyfriend who has any signs of violent tendencies or mentally unstable. They can't handle relationships breaking up. Well your a bright one, pray tell how can you reconize a future crazy girl friend when you first meet? I can tell by looking at this one she is nuTTs!. Germans pick the most unsightly girls ........................why is this? lol. on the bkk metro were a couple. western male looked like christopher reeve the former superman movie star, full of muscles, slim and trim (bonafide handsome), maybe early 30's the thai girl with him (that he kissed once) was a dumpster. go figure Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
White Christmas13 Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 Thailand has one of the highest rates of domestic violence. 63% of Thais believe the partner has the right to use violence if someone fails to do what is expected. If you grew up with beatings at home, in school and on TV, it becomes a natural way to solve problems. When it comes to jealousy, keep in mind your Thai partner is a bomb with a lit up fuse. Well you better read this Thailand about number 76 in the world http://www.worldlifeexpectancy.com/cause-of-death/violence/by-country/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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