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Supporting documents required when re-entering on Non-O O/A Multiple Entry E-Visa
The entry stamp in our passport obtained at the airport when we first arrived using the e-visa approval letter and insurance documents has the words, "Non-O/A" and "e-Visa" written on it. Sorry if that was confusing. The document you are referring to as "a printed copy of your e-visa" must be the "notice of e-visa approval" that we used on our initial entry I would guess. I haven't seen a document that says that it is the actual e-visa. I guess I get confused by all of the different terms, After being here for eighteen years the whole e-visa deal is hard for me to get used to, getting old I guess. -
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Are Older Men in Thailand Trading Love for Financial Ruin
How long have you two been married? -
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Could an October Surprise Shift the Deadlocked Trump-Harris Race?
Seem the October surprise is from God's wrath. The hurricanes in NC, Georgia and Florida with widespread destruction in rural red areas will upend Republican election plan to canvass for votes and the ability and incentive for the weary and exhausted residents to vote. It also bring home to many that climate change is real and exposed Trump as the pathological liar. -
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Are Older Men in Thailand Trading Love for Financial Ruin
Ok, thanks. I feel better, -
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Why Are You Even Here? The Surprising Attitudes of Some Expats in Thailand
Thailand, with its stunning beaches, warm climate, and unique culture, has long been a haven for expats. From retirees stretching their pensions to digital nomads seeking an affordable tropical lifestyle, many people are drawn to this vibrant country. Yet, despite the allure of the Land of Smiles, it’s surprising how many expats seem to have little interest in embracing the very culture they’ve moved into. In conversations witnessed on this forum by fellow expats, I’ve noticed a pattern: a significant number haven’t bothered to learn even basic Thai. Worse still, some openly express disdain for aspects of Thai culture and people, often making comments about the local “attitude” or complaining about things they just don’t understand. And then, there's the food—a key part of any cultural experience—where some outright reject Thai cuisine in favor of imported Western options. This begs the obvious question: Why are you here? The Culture Disconnect One of the most puzzling aspects of this expat phenomenon is the disconnect with Thai culture. Learning the language is not just about communication; it’s a bridge to understanding and integrating into society. Yet many long-term expats in Thailand don’t take the time to pick up even basic Thai phrases. When asked why, the excuses range from “I don’t need it; everyone speaks English,” to “It’s just too hard to learn,” and a particularly common one: “I leave it to the wife.” This last reason is perhaps the most revealing. Many expats rely on their Thai partners to navigate the language and culture, effectively outsourcing a key part of their integration. But learning the language, even at a conversational level, is crucial to breaking down cultural barriers. It opens doors to genuine relationships with locals, provides deeper insights into customs and traditions, and ultimately enriches the experience of living abroad. Failing to make an effort can make you feel like a permanent outsider, even after years in the country. Disdain for the Locals Even more surprising is the number of expats who seem to have a negative view of Thai people. Complaints about the "attitude" of locals—whether it’s the perceived lack of urgency in business dealings or frustration with how things are done here—are common. This can be especially frustrating for someone who chose to live in a country known for its relaxed pace of life and cultural differences. Of course, no country is without its challenges, but approaching the locals with respect and understanding goes a long way. Cultural differences are inevitable, but isn’t that part of the adventure of living in a foreign country? Rejecting Thai Cuisine Thai food is globally celebrated, and many people travel to Thailand just to sample its incredible flavors. Yet, some expats turn their noses up at it, opting for Western food or international chains. While everyone has their preferences, avoiding local cuisine entirely suggests a lack of curiosity or desire to truly experience the country. Living in a country and not trying its food is like reading half a book—you’re missing out on a rich and essential part of the story. Thai cuisine is as varied as its regions, from spicy curries to refreshing salads and delicious street food. By avoiding it, expats deny themselves one of the simplest pleasures Thailand has to offer. So Why Are They Here? If not for the culture, the food, or the people, what is keeping these expats in Thailand? The answer often boils down to three things: the weather, affordability, and ease of access to companionship. The Weather: Thailand’s tropical climate is a major draw for people seeking to escape harsh winters. It’s warm year-round, and for many, that’s enough to make the trade-off for cultural discomfort worth it. Affordability: Thailand is an attractive destination for those on fixed incomes, especially retirees. The cost of living is relatively low, and a modest pension can stretch much further than in many Western countries. Companionship: Thailand is also well-known for its vibrant nightlife and the ease with which foreigners can meet local women. For some expats, this is a big part of their appeal in staying long-term, though it may not be something they openly admit. Is It Enough? For those expats living in Thailand primarily for these reasons, the question remains: is it enough? Without a deeper connection to the culture, the food, and the people, how fulfilling can life in a foreign country really be? It seems a shame to live in such a culturally rich and welcoming place while maintaining a bubble of isolation and indifference. Thailand has so much to offer beyond the weather and affordable living. For those willing to immerse themselves—by learning the language, embracing the food, and approaching locals with an open mind—the rewards are far greater. It’s about more than just existing in a place; it’s about truly living there. Expats who continue to reject the culture and people of Thailand may find themselves missing out on the true beauty of the country. The richness of the experience lies in the interactions, the new tastes, and the ability to grow beyond one’s comfort zone. So, to those expats who struggle to connect with the culture they’ve chosen to live in, maybe it’s time to ask, “Why are you really here?” If the answer is just the sun, cheap rent, and an easy life, you might be missing the point of living in a place like Thailand. Ultimately, its what works for you and makes you happy ! but the question remains "Why did you choose to be here in Thailand, beyond the woman you married ? -
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Why Doesnt "Me Too" Apply to Democrats?
If you want to generate some responses you need BOMBSHELL in the title.....555 -
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Thai PM urged to seek extradition of Tak Bai Massacre suspect from Japan at ASEAN Summits
Exactly! Responsibility goes all the way up. -
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Why Do You Even Drink?
exactly ... and same here, if I wanna sit here and enjoy my cold beer while reading all the nonsense that appears on AN daily then that's my god damn constitutional right ! no one pays ya rent ... only you.. -
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Are Older Men in Thailand Trading Love for Financial Ruin
I'm not attacking you. I'm trying to calm you 😊 -
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Are Older Men in Thailand Trading Love for Financial Ruin
Because he posts his woman hating drivel all the time on the open forum, just like I post my replies. So, what is your point attacking me about it? -
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Pattaya Police Raid Poker Gambling Ring, Arrest 9 Foreign Players
it must be the booze and paid women that make the foreigners willing to commit other crimes in Pattaya... That and the ease to get out of small things by providing the correctly sized envelope. -
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Down under or Thai? Aussie mum trades Oz for Land of Smiles
What's good for the goose..... -
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Thai Police Bust Multi-Million Baht Sex Toy Smuggling Ring
Relax soi 11 is full of kathoeys ......no need to panic. -
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Thai society’s con man unmasked: Smooth criminal pledges to change his stripes
Was I the only person who came here thinking he would see a picture of Thaksin? -
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Thai gov. to tax (remitted) income from abroad for tax residents starting 2024 - Part II
Responding to this would only take the discussion further off-topic and away from the point of this thread.
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Monsoon season brings usual number of influenza patients to Phuket hospitals
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