I still remember the tears of joy when my now wife showed all her friends and family the cubic zirconia on her finger. 

 

 

On 11/6/2016 at 9:14 AM, geronimo said:

I'm sure if we wait long enough, there will be a positive member who tells the OP not to listen to the moaners and follow his heart. 

Yes follow your dick, err I mean your heart! LOL!!!

 

the million dollar question is : 

 

how much she wants for sinsod   !!    get over that then you can decide if you still want to marry her

Singapore, or on top of Victoria Peak in Hong Kong.

After I lived with my now wife for over a year, I asked her if she wanted to get married. I got a strange look from her and she asked, "Why". Not very romantic for sure. I told her there were certain US tax advantages for married people. That made sense to her and she said "Up to you". We got married.

After redundancy I came out to spend 6 months with my now wife. If we weren't comparable, I was going to go home forget Thailand, and look for work. When we went anywhere after 2 months, people would ask if she was my wife, I'd answer not yet. After another 2 after someone asked, she was upset. Why do you always say I'm not your wife? She said. Clearly a cultural misunderstanding, wed being together for four months, and in her eyes we were married. So I just said do you want to go to the Amphur's office then. She said yes, and that was that.

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Bernard Trink...   akas 'The Stickman' years ago complied a massive  true confession on line report   of Farang /Thai marriages .Horror stories from Farangs whom brought back spouses to home countries..Very pain full accounts of what went wrong..Very few were lucky to last...Miy own experience was a absolute failure.

Took me years to pull out of tail spin of  failed relationship that ended in divorce.I suffered years after..Life is suffering they say so true.. Good luck to all.