I have a girlfriend who lives in Chiang Mai whom I have loved and provided for the past 1-2 years, suddenly she went radio silence and I have discovered she is suddenly seeing some guy who seems to be a boss type from Pai. I really love her and have done nothing but good for her. Please my brothers suggest what I should do?

Get a new one. 

Do you mean you funnel money to some bint overseas and you've just found out she's taken you for a mug?

Agree with previous poster, buy/rent a new one.

Edited December 22, 20169 yr by Chicog

My girlfriend also ran off and is seeing some guy who seems to be a boss type from Pai.

 

Wait a minute, OMG, is she the sam*

To understand your current inner turmoil, you should recount how and where you met this 'love of your life'. Maybe you will discover that it was all a little too easy. It sounds as though she has offered you a lesson to learn - best you learn it!

Choices: - - In regards to this GF - it does not seem you have any choices. She has made a choice to be with someone else. That's it. Stop payments and go on to the next one...

 

Choices: Fortunately, you probably have many choices, especially if the job comes with a monthly salary. 

Happens all over the world mate, move on.
Don't go crawling to her!!

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move on.
Don't go crawling to her!!

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i Know how you feel, I was renting a honda zoomer for a long time, and now someone else is renting it.

Give me what's left of your money, because I won't hate you the way she will hate you if you try to interfere with her relationship with her new sponsor.

Why come on TV asking a question when you already know the answer?????

Forget about her, move on with your life.

Get your ar.e up to Pai and party 

TIT......Remember the old adage "you don't lose your place, you just lose your turn".

 

take a few hours out of your day and find a replacement before she changes her mind and subs you back in from the bench......otherwise it's lather rinse repeat.

 

 

 

 

troll or fool to be asking such a question here

 

the only answer is to get on your horse, ride to Pai and off the guy

 

then forget about the unfaithful wench

8 hours ago, tangox said:

Please my brothers suggest what I should do?

 

Take a number...get back in the queue.

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I have a girlfriend who lives in Chiang Mai ....

 

Assuming this is not a fake post, you are saying you don't live in Thailand, I think. I have a girlfriend who lives in another country?

 

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 ...I have discovered she is suddenly seeing some guy who seems to be a boss type from Pai.

 

How did you discover this? Just curious, you know. 

 

Anyway, so here's what you do: Buy a ticket and fly out there right away. Find out where this Casanova is and confront him and kick his butt, big time. The girl will see who the real HE-MAN is around here, yes sir. Then tell her you will give her 50,000 baht a month to be good, and then all IS good, again. 

 

See how simple this can be? 

There was no 'girlfriend'.  You had a short-term lease, with no contract.  You can either renegotiate or find a new contractor.

Thais link material support with love much more than hallmark card western mentality... 

 

Clearly you havent provided her enough material 'love'.. Try buying her that car she wanted.. Perhaps a nice plot of land.. Build her a house on it.. 

 

That should sort it out in no time.. 

You have to approach this like a high stakes poker game. You must find out what her current lothario from Pai is giving her and then you must up the ante. You have to show her you really mean it so by surpassing her current bf's largesse you will show her that you love her. Don't be a cheap charlie and fork over the hard cash to her.

One of the reasons we change job could be the salary and prospects in the new company is better.

 

You are the hierer. Interview your next candidate that is satisfied with what you offer.

 

Those lovely words are part of the girl's working vocabulary.

 

If you still believe in true love with her , think again dude.

 

Seriously, have you ever had a relationship with a woman in your home country where you provided a monthly "retainer"? The proper term to use is either employee or mistress, but not "girlfriend". You should have sorted the terms of the deal before you started to send cash.

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Hush up my cynical typing fingers but the OP's post has a strong wiff of troll post about it. 
......, or...,
I'm sorry mate but money can't buy you love..., or common sense..., 
however..., maybe, just maybe, money can rent you a(twisted) version of commitment..., until you're either broke, or come to your senses..., or both.

Edited December 25, 20169 yr by Sandy Freckle

Take up a hobby, such as internet trolling.

 

Maybe she needs cock as well as cash?

What should the OP do  ?

 

...  stop sending her money, and save it towards his next trip, instead.

Nothing like a little year-end trolling.  Ho ho ho!

damn ....  this is what she doe's after all you've done  !!

 

leave the banger and get another,  it's a buyers market at the moment ...

just get down Nana way and find yourself an honest one.

2 hours ago, steven100 said:

leave the banger and get another,  it's a buyers market at the moment ...

just get down Nana way and find yourself an honest one

Better still, stay in your own home town/city/country environment and find your 'true love' without the strings!