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12 hours ago, georgemandm said:

Ok I agree with you 

and yes she did know because I told her so , but like some Thais lies ever time they talk .

but that is life and you lean by that .

my new will get gold yes for sure but I have to be 200% sure she will respect it .

i know not all Thais are not the same buts lots are .

the new one is a top lady and I am very lucky to have her .

but I do tell it the way I have seen it in thailand and the  stories I have been told by people I believe, not just off the Internet.

 

 

Just to recap  - you have another Teelock, if yu buy her a gold chain or ring, you will tell her.............."if you ever sell this, I will kick you ut of the house"  figuratively speaking??         Your gift is exactly that, a gift, if you gave her money - would you tell her not to spend it??............does not compute.

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1 hour ago, TunnelRat69 said:

Just to recap  - you have another Teelock, if yu buy her a gold chain or ring, you will tell her.............."if you ever sell this, I will kick you ut of the house"  figuratively speaking??         Your gift is exactly that, a gift, if you gave her money - would you tell her not to spend it??............does not compute.

No not at all if I give her money it is hers to do what she wants with money is not gold , gold is to say I love you not to say go sell when you feel like it . 

The only people who make money out of gold is all the gold shop in thailand.

to me gold is a gift of love not a gift like clothes.

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57 minutes ago, georgemandm said:

No not at all if I give her money it is hers to do what she wants with money is not gold , gold is to say I love you not to say go sell when you feel like it . 

The only people who make money out of gold is all the gold shop in thailand.

to me gold is a gift of love not a gift like clothes.

One more think my new thai partner I hop would not sell it gold if I give it to her , she I hop understand the meaning of a gift of gold , is for love not a money thing, but you can never be 100% sure with any lady .

gets me this bs gold thing in thailand , because a thai has no idea how to save money for a  rainy day and think let's sell the gold just bs to me .

it is not thai  culture to sell gold it is the gold shop trying to make more money out of the stupid people who sell there gold .

it is giving as a gift of love when thai people get married not a gift to sell .

the trouble most western man are afraid to talk up to the thai partner if she go's out to sell the gold gift of love , the thai would say Mai Ben Ari and the  Western would say ok no problems because he is s???  Scared of being thrown out On the streets .

 

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1 hour ago, georgemandm said:

One more think my new thai partner I hop would not sell it gold if I give it to her , she I hop understand the meaning of a gift of gold , is for love not a money thing, but you can never be 100% sure with any lady .

gets me this bs gold thing in thailand , because a thai has no idea how to save money for a  rainy day and think let's sell the gold just bs to me .

it is not thai  culture to sell gold it is the gold shop trying to make more money out of the stupid people who sell there gold .

it is giving as a gift of love when thai people get married not a gift to sell .

the trouble most western man are afraid to talk up to the thai partner if she go's out to sell the gold gift of love , the thai would say Mai Ben Ari and the  Western would say ok no problems because he is s???  Scared of being thrown out On the streets .

 

Gold is a form of saving in thailand not all get given gold lots buy gold then cash it in when money is tight then buy more when they can. Again I say a gift is a gift once given its there's you can not say anything if sold. For instance when my mrs was setting up her buisness, she needed some capitol after spending  her ( yes her) savings (money) on the build costs. I offered to loan her some money which she refused (won't bother going into why safe to say she wanted to do it alone). So she sold her gold now the buisness Is doing  well she is replacing her gold. I really can't see the problem with this. 

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1 hour ago, Deepinthailand said:

Gold is a form of saving in thailand not all get given gold lots buy gold then cash it in when money is tight then buy more when they can. Again I say a gift is a gift once given its there's you can not say anything if sold. For instance when my mrs was setting up her buisness, she needed some capitol after spending  her ( yes her) savings (money) on the build costs. I offered to loan her some money which she refused (won't bother going into why safe to say she wanted to do it alone). So she sold her gold now the buisness Is doing  well she is replacing her gold. I really can't see the problem with this. 

You see like that up to you .

i see the other way , gold is a gift of love not to be sold off when she feels like it .

so let's just leave at that 

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21 minutes ago, Khon Kaen Dave said:

Sirbergen

Damn this English grammar.Tried to read it again,but still no luck.Google translate is my friend.But translate it from what

Look Mr knon Karen Dave or should I say Mr English , I read it very well from deepinthailand, but like you Mr English , you like to think you know it all when it comes to  English grandma and run people down .

Deepinthailand and I have had our run ins but people like you give  me the s??? , When you think you know it all when it comes putting it in to words , we all can't be Mr English can we .

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22 minutes ago, Khon Kaen Dave said:

Sirbergen

Damn this English grammar.Tried to read it again,but still no luck.Google translate is my friend.But translate it from what

Look Mr knon Karen Dave or should I say Mr English , I read it very well from deepinthailand, but like you Mr English , you like to think you know it all when it comes to  English grandma and run people down .

Deepinthailand and I have had our run ins but people like you  give me the s??? , When you think you know it all when it comes putting it in to words , we all can't be Mr English can we .

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25 minutes ago, Khon Kaen Dave said:

Sirbergen

Damn this English grammar.Tried to read it again,but still no luck.Google translate is my friend.But translate it from what

If you're gonna be a grammar nazi, the least you can do is using a space after commas and full stops. Not everyone on this site are native English speakers (I'm not), I'm sure you could understand his post if you actually gave it a try.

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georgemandm

Hey,hey hey,,calm down and take one of your anxiety pills before you burst a blood vessel.It was only meant as a bit of fun.remember fun? or are you all out.And your post was a bit iffy,i dont remember being called an "English grandma"And exactly who is it that gives you the sh$$ts'cos you never named them.I assume you missed out the word 'you'People on here are allowed to have fun with each other,thats what this FAMILY forum is all about.Have you never,gently,taken the piss out of somebody? I am sure that if Deepinthailand was so upset,he/she would have contacted me him/herself.But you had to come on here ,all protective like you was his mum.(or are you one of his gang) I have seen reply's from some posters that are downright vitriolic(look it up if you don't know what it means) and i meant it in F.U.N.So, being that you and your post are as interesting as a dog turd,I suggest that you find your entertainment elsewhere.Also,pleas submit your posts to me for approval bfore posting and i shall mark them for you.And,i shall now be watching your every post just to ensure and correct any of your errors.in this grammarian world we call life.

For gods sake lighten up man.I have never come across a man like you who is so in need of female company.

PS i am not allowed to post the proper terminology of those last few words for fear of being suspended.But i think you get my drift.

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 Serbergan

Heil to you serbergan.For gods sake did you not see it was a bit of fun.Or are you stunted in that area?I have seen absolute row's develop on here,through the kind of stupidity that is yours and your mate georgwotsit.I couldn't care less what you think.And a grammar nazi,and nazi should have a capitol letter because it's a proper Noun.My lack of puntuation is due to the fact that i am a fast typist but not that fast,so i sometimes miss them out.Although i am sure nobody is going to commit suicide over that.Now,my little childish friends,i suggest you have to go now,because i have something far more interesting to do than bandy words with the likes of you two.I have some paint watch Drying.:kiss01:

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6 hours ago, Khon Kaen Dave said:

Deepinthailand

i am sure that your post is interesting and true.Unfortunately,i cant read it.

Want borrow my specs Dave lol

Please trust me when I say Mr George is not repeat not in any gang of mine. When people see eye to eye then maybe we could be. But as everything the man says is so far off my logical radar I would say we  are poles apart eye for an eye more like. If I was his mum or his son trust me I would disown him.

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11 minutes ago, Deepinthailand said:

I don't need to buy her gold to tell her I love her. I see that as buying love. Let's leave it at that.

How do you see it as buying love , it is a gift of my love to her . 

Up to you how you see and up to me how I see so let's just leave it at that .

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20 hours ago, Khon Kaen Dave said:

With all due respect,i would not like to be the would be thief that tried to relieve my mrs of any of her gold.She weighs in at 40 kilos and carries a Stanley knife in her purse .She would have no problem in gutting some little shit that tried to take any of her trinkets.But notwithstanding that little idiosyncrasy,i love her to bits.

Remind me to be on my best behaviour next time I am in or passing through Khonkaen !

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I'm not worried about the gold I'm buying for my girl for our wedding when we're married.  A Thai girl wants to show other women she has a good husband.  Wearing gold is very important to them.  It creates a sense of well being.  I have a wonderful Thai lady and if the day comes when she needs the money, then I say good for her.   $8k worth of gold is the least of my problems.

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2 minutes ago, medic5678 said:

I'm not worried about the gold I'm buying for my girl for our wedding when we're married.  A Thai girl wants to show other women she has a good husband.  Wearing gold is very important to them.  It creates a sense of well being.  I have a wonderful Thai lady and if the day comes when she needs the money, then I say good for her.   $8k worth of gold is the least of my problems.

8k worth is not much at all .

when you give someone a gift of gold or what every , it is because you love them not to sell it .

just  disrespectful to sell that gift giver .

you need to understand lots of Thais , not all but lots of them just see it as more free  money.

if I am to give gold again , to any thai lady I will make sure she understand the  thought behind the gift.

not to sell it because she has no idea about save money for a  rainy day .

i have gold of mine and have had it for over 30 years in my family and neve think about selling it , it will go to my kids and I will tell them gold is a gift of love not to sell .

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1 hour ago, georgemandm said:

8k worth is not much at all .

when you give someone a gift of gold or what every , it is because you love them not to sell it .

just  disrespectful to sell that gift giver .

you need to understand lots of Thais , not all but lots of them just see it as more free  money.

if I am to give gold again , to any thai lady I will make sure she understand the  thought behind the gift.

not to sell it because she has no idea about save money for a  rainy day .

i have gold of mine and have had it for over 30 years in my family and neve think about selling it , it will go to my kids and I will tell them gold is a gift of love not to sell .

That's beacuse your culture is diffrent from thai culture. 

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17 minutes ago, Deepinthailand said:

That's beacuse your culture is diffrent from thai culture. 

Yes it is very true I agree with you but , if a thai lady wants me to  except some of her culture she has to except some of my culture, it is not all one is it .

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