I sometimes find myself chasing Kayo round this forum, following his moves and posts and what he might say next. Does anyone else have this weird problem or is it just me.

Maybe its just because he’s around in the darker quieter hours of TV, or am I developing some strange kind of stalking thing.

Maybe I need some help?

I sometimes find myself chasing Kayo round this forum, following his moves and posts and what he might say next. Does anyone else have this weird problem or is it just me.

Maybe its just because he’s around in the darker quieter hours of TV, or am I developing some strange kind of stalking thing.

Maybe I need some help?

Soph, be careful, he’s not worth it! But yes, I find myself following his mad ramblings as well – does that make me a mad stalker as well?!?

Who's Kayo.....?!

redrus

Suegh... You post after every one of my posts..

I thought this thread was going to BE about you mate?!

Soph, I'm sitting here with a cheesy grin on my face...

but rest assured, I always lookee/see what all my forum friends are posting too... when I have time between my own incessant ramblings!

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I do know what you mean Soph but, don't we kind of all follow eachother.....?

redrus

I do know what you mean Soph but, don't we kind of all follow eachother.....?

redrus

Yes, you are very right. I just find myself being more of a 'follower' than being followed

Are you following me?

About Stalkers and Stalking

A recent study by the National Institute of Justice found that stalking was far more prevalent than anyone had imagined: 8% of women and 2% of men will be stalked in their lifetimes. The majority of stalkers have been in relationships with their victims, but a significant percentage either never met their victims, or were just acquaintances - neighbors, friends or co-workers.

Types of Stalkers

There are three types of stalker - partner stalkers, delusional stalkers and vengeful stalkers. Obviously, there is overlap. Since studies show that the overwhelming number of stalkers are men and the overwhelming number of their victims are women, we will be referring to stalkers and their victims accordingly. I Know You Really Love Me delves into much greater detail and provides extensive case histories about each of these types of stalkers.

Intimate partner stalkers are typically known as the guy who "just can’t let go." These are most often men who refuse to believe that a relationship has really ended. Often, other people - even the victims - feel sorry for them. But they shouldn’t. Studies show that the vast majority of these stalkers are not sympathetic, lonely people who are still hopelessly in love, but were in fact emotionally abusive and controlling during the relationship. Many have criminal histories unrelated to stalking. Well over half of stalkers fall into this "former intimate partner" category.

In these types of stalking cases, the victim may, in fact, unwittingly encourage the stalker by trying to "let him down easy," or agreeing to talk to him "just one more time." When the victim says, "I don’t want a relationship now," the stalker hears, "She’ll want me again, tomorrow." When she says, "I just need some space," he hears, "If I just let her go out with her friends, she’ll come back." "It’s just not working out," is heard as "we can make it work out." In other words, the only thing to say to the stalker is "no." No explanations, no time limits, no room to maneuver.

A victim should say "no" once and only once. And then, never say anything to him again. If a stalker can’t have his victim’s love, he’ll take her hatred or her fear. Don’t help him hang on.

Delusional stalkers frequently have had little, if any, contact with their victims. They may have major mental illnesses like schizophrenia, manic-depression or erotomania. What they all have in common is some false belief that keeps them tied to their victims. In erotomania, the stalker’s delusional belief is that the victim loves him.

The typical profile of delusional stalkers is that of an unmarried and socially immature loner, who is unable to establish or sustain close relationships with others.

In general, for any type of stalker, the less of a relationship that actually existed prior to the stalking, the more mentally disturbed the stalker.

Now this is a bit heavy Soph! Also a bit weird!

For kayo. Incessant ramblings? Don’t flatter yourself mate! They're not that good!

For kayo. Incessant ramblings? Don’t flatter yourself mate! They're not that good!

Now this is a bit heavy Soph! Also a bit weird!

LOL, yeah Soph ya weirdo..........

Surely, you wouldn't know when you're being followed though....?

redrus

I do know what you mean Soph but, don't we kind of all follow eachother.....?

redrus

Oh drus... i hate to say it mate, but er.... Oh, egypt, River... HuhHmm(clearsthroat)...

The first step is admitting it...

Hello, my name is Suegha, and I'm a kayo stalker.

'Whereever', is that a word......?

You're sick man, you'll be getting me a reputation....

redrus

Suegha no wait don't do it!!!! I ws only kidding buddy!

Hey Drus man!! Don't worry my friend. I won't tell anybody about what you said... you know, about wanting a pop at touching my balls.

(disclaimer: the above is a JOKE. Redrus said somehting which kayo took out of context, due to the inner context of the contextual text of the convo taking place in the outer realms of contextual Convo's)

you'll be getting me a reputation....

Ahem... !

totster

Suegha no wait don't do it!!!! I ws only kidding buddy!

I was only kiding kayo. If I was going to stalk anyone it would a babe! Not that I would though!

I sometimes find myself chasing Kayo round this forum, following his moves and posts and what he might say next. Does anyone else have this weird problem or is it just me.

Maybe its just because he’s around in the darker quieter hours of TV, or am I developing some strange kind of stalking thing.

Maybe I need some help?

Soph...it's just you. I hesitated (for some days now already) to tell both you and Kayo that:

Soph & Kayo are secretly in love

Don't deny it beautiful Lady since I happen to read just 1 or 2 days ago that you invited Kayo at your place in the company of another 5 or 6 girls.

Now, tell us the story....and stop telling us the weird story about stalking.......hmmmmm maybe it is

Maybe I can be of some assistance and help you to drag Kayo over to the UK before Xmas...what do you say?

LaoPo

you'll be getting me a reputation....

Ahem... !

totster

Oi, don't you bloody start...........!

redrus

I only follow Totster around to see what thread he's gonna close next.

I only follow Totster around to see what thread he's gonna close next.

Soph...it's just you. I hesitated (for some days now already) to tell both you and Kayo that:

Soph & Kayo are secretly in love

Don't deny it beautiful Lady since I happen to read just 1 or 2 days ago that you invited Kayo at your place in the company of another 5 or 6 girls.

Now, tell us the story....and stop telling us the weird story about stalking.......hmmmmm maybe it is

Maybe I can be of some assistance and help you to drag Kayo over to the UK before Xmas...what do you say?

LaoPo[/color]

No no no not true not true! I made a decision some time back not to get involved with fellow TVers, its for the best

Bugger. I'm quitting tv then.

Bugger. I'm quitting tv then.

He loves me!

Yes you have a bloody problem Soph - seek help immediately!!!

Now calm down boys and girls, nobody loves anybody an tv. We just have a deeply profound admiration, one for another. And that's perfectly acceptable and indeed honourable!

Bugger. I'm quitting tv then.

He loves me!

Yes and WOW....that will be something to celebrate.....

THE FIRST TV-MARRIAGE - Soph & Kayo - EVERYBODY IS INVITED

LaoPo

I guess my warning went unheeded!!!

Kayo is not supposed to see your WEDDING-dress, yet......

what happened to your face ?

LaoPo