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Well, I used to donate as I have O+ blood type............but I cant now as I have low blood pressure!!!!

From the results we have, I would say not many people know their IQ scores or..........its just plain scary!!!

Neverburi................9 months is a long time to be a "tourist". What happened after the 9th month? I gather your gf had no employment in Thailand then since she can be on holiday for 9 months?

Alien2, from what I heard they tend to grant 1 month visas now. The visa is extendable on a case-to-case basis....... It be better off for her to go on that visa now rather than try to "extend" it for 3-6 months ..........they may get suspicious...since it is a "holiday visa" . Good luck!

No No Narachon............let me rephrase it for you.............

Shopgurl is a very nice, HONEST and beautiful Thai woman, and Mango is a very brash and annoying English man....... who did not show up when the girls asked him to meet us at Irish Xchange!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No worries Brit..............guess there are hardly any available people out here or just not looking.....for that someone special....

I would have thought there were...................

Donna...thanks for the post....at least someone who is brave enough to say what she wants!

Nope......Pat Pong............not a virgin when he met her.............

Brit.....never knew you were looking..........thought you were "taken"

Pat Pong...........well, the parents insist on it ....knowing full well she is pregnant....or no marriage......

English noodles...............You must be daft if you thought I meant an Arab man or maybe that's your preference. Nothing wrong with that............I thought you were English and should know what a stallion is??? Then again.....maybe everything is considered "animal" to you........Stallion is a man not a horse and a bird is a woman not a winged creature and etc......... Such nice cultured words........

There was a discussion amongst a few women yesterday.....it seems one of the guys we know "knocked up" his gf........but he cannot marry her until he comes up with the dowry!!!

Makes one think......he can have sex with her for free and get her pregnant but has to pay to marry her, go figure!! That makes a lot of sense......

Hi guys and gals........since some of the people on this forum are single and looking.........maybe it would be a good idea if they posted what kind of women/men they are looking for? What do you think?

HONESTY would be appreciated and no trolls please!!..........Must be willing and bold enough to meet in person...

Always friendship first right?

P/S I am not trying to start a debate/war or being sarcastic.....not sure whether the mods will lock this.........

I never carry mine anywhere, it is always kept at home.................no trouble so far. I have a valid work permit and visa though.......

I know one foreigner who has been stopped and he didnt have his passport with him. All he had to do was ask someone to bring it to him and it was fine............

RC, sorry.........as an Asian woman this sounds like buying livestock to me!!!!

I would say that up here, a well educated, nice looking girl with a good job and family, they would be asking for around 500,000 and 10-20 bht, where this was to be kept would be open to negotiation.

I would say that a thoroughbred Arab Stallion, 15 hands, with nice legs and a good body, they would be asking for 10-50k, open to negotiation............ alternatively you can have an Appaloosa, nice markings, 14 hands, yearling for 8k.............

True pnu....but he has indicated that whenever he brings the dowry thingy up.........the other party clams up.

Insisting or demanding dowry may cause a rift between the "happy couple"............... Better off letting the happy couple decide...

Hahahaha good one DJ..........his user name is "HOTGuyBKK" and yet he has to look on the net for a woman??? Me thinks something is not right here......

Uh huh..........you tell us everything except your personality and character!!!! An educated and successful man may still be an ass and vice versa........

Sorry............IF you are a FARANG, why do you want a dowry???????

Wouldnt it be better if your step daughter was happily married instead of you or your wife receiving money??? I dont think you should have any say either.........you are not her father.

Brit.........dont want anything from Andy Pandy............I am married.

It would be good to know that there are some MEN out there........men as in men who have guts........people who are afraid to meet are usually fakes.....LMAO The man wants to meet non-Thai women.......but is too......."chicken"

We do "bite" but we dont bite hard!!!

Neuro...what do you expect if you post stuff like this?? Of course everyone will misunderstand you. You should be more precise and clear!!

Penelope is right, get a woman who is able to get a visa to US by herself if you are distrustful or have serious doubts about a woman disappearing or leaving you.

Everything in life is a risk.......including marriage. Some people change after marriage (well most) and some dont. No one can predict what will happen in 5 years let alone 10 years..........people "fall out of love" or go through a "mid life crisis" and some marriages do break down........

If you are not able to face the above, it would be better not to have any relationship or get married! Stay single.

Furthermore, you indicated you wanted to try again if the first one was not successful........ever heard of "once bitten twice shy"?????

"Me love you long time"............works like a charm

As I said, this guy has SERIOUS doubts. We aren't livestock to be "imported" to USA each time one runs away or leaves you!!

Pat Pong is right, be gone with you!!

Well, yes IamMaic...............men will always be men.......generalising (dont get too sensitive guys).

This guy just doesnt know what he is getting himself into and obviously he is VERY doubtful about the girl he is with.....or he would not post this thread!!

I wouldnt want to take the risk..........do you know what will happen IF you do get caught or she got pregnant??? Just for a few shags...............there are other women to choose from. Not that desperate.....just yet LMAO

If you tell me you play it "safe"/condom.............they are not 100% full proof (read the label) Accidents do happen

Now, now IamMaic...........settle down. This guy didn't say he has done it before........or has he??

I think one should only be allowed....one application every 5 years.............then the men would be more careful and think properly

She disappears??? You dont plan to kill her do you??

Word of advice, try to get a decent woman who loves you and wants to be with you and do not get her over there if you have any doubts about her sincerity. Use the right head.......

I am sure immigration will be sceptical if your numerous "fiances" keep disappearing or keep taking off........wouldnt you?? They would question every "relationship" you have........ Doesnt look promising.

I think you will be wiser if you checked with your US embassy or your US immigration

I do agree with Sabaijai's advice......stay clear of the Moslem women!! As for your comment about Moslems purchasing alcohol, prohibition from bars and etc. That is not very true anymore. "Religiously/legally" they are not but most of them do it now, whether openly or secretly, especially in the large developed cities such as Kuala Lumpur and Penang. Legally, they are not allowed to smoke either but most of the Moslem men do it. Most Moslem I know "cheat" during the fasting month (Ramadhan). As you were stationed in MARA which is extremely "Moslem", you may not have noticed this.

Malacca is a nice place to live, its quiet, not much pollution and lovely "Baba Nyonya" food. There are many historical sites in Malacca too. However, it may be a little hard to find a job (unless you are retiring). Nevertheless, it is developing and things may change in about 5 years time. Industrial estates are mushrooming and sooner or later, pollution will set in.

Whatever it is, stay clear of the "moslem" states and you will be fine. The east coast of Peninsula Malaysia is where the "moslem extremist" are, where there are separate counters for men and women at the local hypermart and also cinemas.....go figure!

Kill the mother!!! Kidding...........it is the Thai/Asian culture that the offsprings have to take care of their parents. Since you have bought her the gift.......its up to her where she wants to "store" it.

So long as she doesnt start giving her mother her jewellery and lingerie..............dont worry about it.