Yeah.
PEA are not happy for their customers to become their suppliers.
There is some reluctance to give money back to the people they normally take it from.
As for fitting batteries, if you are grid connected with a feed-in contract, PEA then becomes your battery. I haven't done any sums, but my guess is batteries would work out more expensive in the long run.
That PEA limit on feed-in power would be the show stopper for me. Limiting my solar output to suit PEA is a big NO. Also I would be less than content to give right of entry to any bean counters.
The problems of supplying power are a bit complex because of maintaining grid stability. In Australia, one would need to fit an inverter which can be controlled by the electricity company. This would allow them to control grid voltage by changing the outputs of hundreds of feed-in inverters.
I prefer the simple life of my own, more or less, independent power.