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For those of you who have lived here for years?
soalbundy replied to Hummin's topic in ASEAN NOW Community Pub
depends who you are with at the time, otherwise it is merely a cleaning up operation. -
For those of you who have lived here for years?
soalbundy replied to Hummin's topic in ASEAN NOW Community Pub
Yes, my cousin is bipolar since his teens, now as an old man he has discarded his medication after engaging in mindfulness meditation, his big breakthrough came when during meditation he tried to find what it was that was depressed and couldn't find it, he has improved tremendously and rarely has an attack. -
For those of you who have lived here for years?
soalbundy replied to Hummin's topic in ASEAN NOW Community Pub
If you are unhappy in a situation there are only 3 options, (1) change it, (2) leave it, (3) accept it without internal complaint, anything else is madness. Those are not cliches, the ego needs enemies to fight which results in tension, the ego isn't real per se, it is a collection of indoctrinations and societal norms bundled up as a package with the mind and determines the 'me', once the 'me' is seen for what it is, an illusion, you can become the non judgmental observer of 'what is'. As Shakespeare said, "nothing is good or bad, only thinking makes it so." It is my belief,and that of many wise sages, that you are an independent unit of consciousness that has identified with its avatar, it is covered in layers of ego, thoughts and fears, once these layers are stripped away it will realize its full potential and act accordingly, only then will things change for the better, you will find peace.....sorry for the sermon. -
Thaksin Shinawatra to Receive Certificate of Innocence in August
soalbundy replied to webfact's topic in Thailand News
Not now, he has the document to prove it. -
For those of you who have lived here for years?
soalbundy replied to Hummin's topic in ASEAN NOW Community Pub
I've studied the philosophies of Buddhism and Hinduism as well as modern physicists examining consciousness for over 30 years, they all seem to basically align, spacetime exists but isn't fundamental, consciousness is the basis, the absolute, although the 14th century German Christian mystic postulated that beyond consciousness was the void of nothing. Buddha was right I think when he said there is no self, no doer of action and the world is empty because nothing exists in and of itself, everything relies on everything else for their temporary brief manifestations which manifest within the field of consciousness. As the Indian sage Nisargadatta said, "You are not the body nor are you the mind, there is nobody", it is a mistake to think of yourself as a person but rather the true self is a localization of the absolute which, as the NASA physicist Tom Campbell (my big T.O.E) wrote, is itself evolving, we, as avatars, exist in the data stream of consciousness to lower its entropy, this is similar but more extreme than the cognitive scientist Donald Hoffman ('The end of Spacetime') who as an emirate at an American university is producing mathematics and computer simulations with his international team to show that everything is made up of agents of consciousness and the reality that we perceive is only 'eye candy'. All seem to converge to one basic idea, only consciousness is real. Again, Nisargadatta said, "That which is real does not change, that which changes is not real". Through deep introspective meditation one can come to the conclusion, inside you are emptiness, nothing, outside you are everything. The direct path to awakening was proscribed by the revered 20th century Indian sage Ramana Maharshi as to simply meditate on 'who am I', the question won't result in an answer but is designed to dissolve the questioner. -
For those of you who have lived here for years?
soalbundy replied to Hummin's topic in ASEAN NOW Community Pub
He's been married to his schoolyard sweetheart for 50 years. -
I used VFS, an agent, just send passport, form, proof of address and two photos to their office in Chonburi via EMS. just received an email from VFS Global that my application has been forwarded to HMPO. Total cost 11,000 Baht which includes passport fees and passport delivery to my house, saves me the cost of travelling to BKK twice from Isaan and all the other hassle, turnaround time is about 6 weeks they tell me.
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What makes life in Thailand still so great?
soalbundy replied to BangkokBernie's topic in ASEAN NOW Community Pub
I've been here 20 years so I've gotten used to every twist and turn they make, no it isn't exotic anymore, it's just home where I'm tolerated by the authorities. -
Thaksin Shinawatra to Receive Certificate of Innocence in August
soalbundy replied to webfact's topic in Thailand News
His fleece is white as snow. -
For those of you who have lived here for years?
soalbundy replied to Hummin's topic in ASEAN NOW Community Pub
What happens to the avatar of 'me' is of no consequence but knowing that you are the immortal screen on which the avatar acts out its life and not the avatar itself brings about the peace that is our essential being. No doubt he will live to be 90 if he can give up his extreme fitness regime, I think it's his way of pushing away the boundary of his mortality but then we all have our methods of coping. -
For those of you who have lived here for years?
soalbundy replied to Hummin's topic in ASEAN NOW Community Pub
Yes but I don't think these two experiences, which should have been a spiritual wake up call, will initiate any fundamental change in him, he has, on a material level no need or desire to change. He is a millionaire, happy, successful in his business and private life, likable and courageous. This shock will fade, his humour will plaster over his existential fear, he said to his surgeon, "If I can't take it with me, I'm not going" but who knows where he really goes when he sleeps. -
2 men & 1 women wanted by cops for sex on Patong beach (video)
soalbundy replied to webfact's topic in Phuket News
Just a harmless bit of spit roasting on the beach, they possibly got confused with the term, they brought their own meat and didn't need a fire. -
Police Arrest 5 Suspects in Robbery of British Crypto Trader
soalbundy replied to webfact's topic in Bangkok News
There's something missing here, so did they just beat the $hit out of him, nick all his stuff and then set him free with the words, "don't tell the cops"? -
Police Arrest 5 Suspects in Robbery of British Crypto Trader
soalbundy replied to webfact's topic in Bangkok News
Calm down Ali, pigs (if you'll excuse the metaphor) can be found everywhere. -
Police Arrest 5 Suspects in Robbery of British Crypto Trader
soalbundy replied to webfact's topic in Bangkok News
who was the victim, Ali Baba? I have a different understanding of socializing but perhaps it's a Muslim thing. -
one of life's great questions.
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Tell us about the idols of your pre adolescent self
soalbundy replied to Jingthing's topic in ASEAN NOW Community Pub
Never had any and still don't, everybody has an agenda and feet of clay. One person that I admire and still do is David Attenborough but that isn't the same as a role model. -
One would have to be a crying dick to find me scary. I merely wrote what millions were thinking but wrote 'woke' instead. Violence never solves anything in life but sometimes when a disruptive player leaves the game it becomes enjoyable again. Assassination is dangerous because it sets precedents for the whole spectrum and doesn't change anything, but who doesn't enjoy a film where the villein gets his just punishment.
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For those of you who have lived here for years?
soalbundy replied to Hummin's topic in ASEAN NOW Community Pub
You can't know that. I have a 70 year old brother in Australia who looks like a 45 year old with a 6 pack that a 20 year old weight lifter would envy, he does a 40 km bike ride before breakfast. Recently he broke his neck doing extreme mountain bike riding. They saved his life after an airlift to hospital and for the next 6 months wore an iron cage around shoulders and head. He was given a complete spinal scan as a last check up and two cancerous tumours were discovered in his intestines. Thankfully he had a successful OP. For the first time in his life he questioned his active carefree life style, never one for introspection his recent emails hint at a change, he had never before considered his life as transient. -
For those of you who have lived here for years?
soalbundy replied to Hummin's topic in ASEAN NOW Community Pub
As far as I'm concerned yes, the question of stability at that age is superfluous. -
For those of you who have lived here for years?
soalbundy replied to Hummin's topic in ASEAN NOW Community Pub
Intensive studies done in America have shown that dogs genuinely unconditionally love their owners. They have a brain anomaly, present, in a few rare cases, in humans which makes them extremely empathetic and loving. Dogs have no sense of self, hence no ego. Withholding food would obviously cause a dog to look elsewhere for nutrient, it's a matter of survival, instinctive in all sentient beings but that doesn't affect their sense of deep affection for their owner. For the owner a dog is only part of their long lives, for a dog you are its entire life. When I was away from home for two days and returned by car my dog tried to barge its way through the glass door, peeing with excitement when it heard the cars engine, I didn't get that reaction from my wife. -
Foreigner and Thai woman get into heated argument on BTS (video)
soalbundy replied to webfact's topic in Thailand News
When I was young, a long time ago, the F word was frowned upon if used in public, now it is part of everyday conversation. when my hero Bill Burr uses it in his stand up comedy it adds to the humour, it's expressive and adds to the drama, it all depends on the tone and the forcefulness used whether it is aggressive, expressive or just plain rude. So yes making a video and posting it online was petty.