It's all rather sad, non acceptance of any situation produces conflict and stress but acceptance of 'what is', although the golden path to harmony within oneself, is hard and has to be practiced before it is easily achievable. What on earth was going through the wife's and boyfriends mind at the time? ''Let's wait till he falls off'' presumably.
The average Russian didn't start the war, those that are here are running from conscription (as are many Ukrainians). The stress would result from worrying about what would happen when they return and their source of income.
Getting to politics one could say that NATO ie. America isn't entirely without blame, against all agreements they have continually moved NATO's borders Eastwards, continually prodding the bear was never going to end well. America did a proxy Cuban invasion when the Russians moved Westwards. Neither the CIA or the Russian SVR are friends of peace and stability.
I think you are delving in the realms of fantasy here, what is true is that I would get all the increases starting from the moment I arrived, that might bump my 153 pounds up to 180 or so but who on earth would want to willingly live in the UK (apart from the dingy people).
I've got nothing against Russians or Ukrainians, we're all unhinged to a greater or lesser degree. I can imagine that the stress levels felt by both citizens of these two countries must be higher than that for citizens of other countries, we aren't in a position to judge.
Let us not be naive, the sun will still rise, rice will still be eaten, it is the way of the world, big boys will beat little boys, who said life should be fair. It is as it is.
No, America will be doomed, the mafia will rule but perhaps America deserves this fate and they will turn to their beginnings again, sometimes disasters are needed for a cleansing.
I'm not American, like most Europeans I look at what is happening in America with dismay and at Trump with disgust. Are these two candidates the best that the USA can do? One belongs in a care home and the other in prison.