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sqwakvfr

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  1. Yes he was an ASS but he was right.
  2. #3 is minor but when it happens on a regular basis and the Gym membership fee is nonrefundable then it becomes a moderate issue.
  3. I thought standards of courtesy were universal. Apparently I was wrong. I was not talking about things like cutting in line or a buzzer not working. But when a business shows someone blatant hostility and rudeness just for coming in for service or a driver leaving a slippery surface where a passenger would step on and then laugh about it? To me this is concerning. Of course this is just my opinion.
  4. I am not a touchy, feely or sensitive guy but I would like courtesy. If I show you courtesy then it should be returned. I am not like some who feel "they all hate us". However, at times I feel the same way. If you are open for business then expect someone to walk in and expect service. If you are a driver logged into Grab then expect a rider to hail you. As a driver ensure the floor of the vehicle does not have a slippery substance that could cause a rider to slip. Lastly, if a business publicly states that it is opens at a certain time them do so. ff not then change your opening time. This is my point about this subject: This country is very inconsistent and often it's people react with anger when one simply asks a question. Lastly I will reveal a detail about myself that probably makes a difference on how I am treated by the locals. I am an American but I am not caucasian. When most Thai first see me I believe they think I am Chinese because I am of Asian descent. I believe this is what sets the course for my interaction with Thai people. I know many Thai people have had negative interactions with Chinese but I am not a rude Chinese person. For me this will always be a losing battle. For grins once I told a Thai person that I was Chinese and this was met with a warm smile and "shei, shei". So I should learn Mandarin and go with the flow. Anyway, just another day in the land of smiles.
  5. Thanks. You know me so well. You must have been present at the clinic to witness my "retentive" attitude?
  6. Based upon my experience of living in 6 countries it is not like everywhere.
  7. Your opinion. Therefore, you must be correct.
  8. Ok thanks. Then getting upset when a patient shows up at a clinic is acceptable? Laughing at a passenger who slips and hits his head when he enters a car because the driver left a slippery substance on the floor is acceptable? Got it. I have lived in 6 countries and I have not had similar experiences.
  9. This guy in BKK is ready(just a little early). Now he has time to upgrade his equipment. Apparently he thought the water gun fights would last for 3 weeks and not 3 days. The article says he is a visitor from China.
  10. I guess most have never heard of North Korea but many know of South Korea? My mistake. Next time I will make a South Korean reference.
  11. I just took a shower. Thanks for the reminder.
  12. I think you just summed it up. I had a professor in college who said “ time is money and money is life”. This is not true in LOS.
  13. Now I know 0700 actually means 0730 or 0800? Schedules and timetables have little meaning or value in LOS. Unless it negatively affects them. For instance if a train or flight is delayed.
  14. Did most Thai people get the message that the current PM and government want 40 million arrivals this year? More arrivals mean more problems, more “bad” guys and more chances of cultural misunderstanding and/or misinterpretations. Some the locals I have met act like they want the borders closed to foreign arrivals, Sarcastically I asked them “have you ever been to North Korea”? They did not get the joke.
  15. That is why I do not say much to most locals. All I need to do is buy a product or service. At times the product and service are not great but there is not much a foreigner can do about that. This has been the most difficult lesson I have learned. But at times I wonder why? The I get back to reality.
  16. It is more an observation than a complaint. I have learned that most locals hate it when a foreigner complains. Therefore, I I rarely give feedback to the locals.
  17. I have lived in Chiang Mai for over 7 years and “ I will never understand the local people”. Recently the following interactions have occurred: 1. Went to a well known clinic that is part of a major hospital for a bood test. The clinic opens at 0700 and I showed up exactly at that time. All the employees seemed upset that I showed up at 0700. Got the blood test done but the cashier had not come to work yet. This made the employees ever more upset. I waited until 0800 when the cashier showed up and paid for the blood test. The clerk then slammed the receipt on the counter. I later found out that the clinic employees get to the spend the first hour relaxing because most patients do not show until at least 0800. I guess “ it was my mistake for showing up when they opened”? 2. Used to go to a gym that opens at “0700”. During my time at this gym they would open at 0730, 0800, 0900 and once at 1200. I asked the employee and eventually the manager about the inconsistent opening times and all got was a smile but no answer. I found another gym shortly after. 3. I recently booked a Grab car. When the car arrived I entered and slipped on the floor mat and hit my head on the door frame. The floor mat had a slipperysubstance and when I pointed this out to the driver she started laughing. I guess this was funny to her. The slippery substance looked like Armour All? Is admitting to a mistake and apologizing to a foreigner not possible?
  18. This could be more common when casinos are legalized in LOS.
  19. In some Asian countries, for instance in S. Korea, the term dowry is no longer used. Now it is called a gift. AKA: Tomato/Tomatoe???
  20. Had a cyst removed from my lower back(an easy place for the doctor) at CM Ram two years ago. Total coast was 1,1,000 Baht. Might worth it just go bye CM and ask either at Dermatology Center or at the Main hospital.
  21. Common sense dictates a store would be more efficient to stock shelves late at night or even early morning. Most large markets in the US stock shelves after midnight or a few hours before they open. Often this is outsourced to a third party. Of course common sense and efficient business operations are rare to nonexistent in the Land of Smiles. Billy Joel once said “don’t go changing, trying to please, I love you (LOS) just the way you are”. I must be getting old because lately I feel “love it or leave it”.
  22. Just for context in some countries there is no national police salary. For example in Campbell CA (this is in northern CA) the starting salary is now well over $100,000. In the city of LA the starting salary is now over $50,000.
  23. But at this pay rate who would want the job? In California many of the fast food places now have to pay $20 an hour? If one makes $24 an hour then this comes to almost $50,000 a year. Why deal with the stress, danger and in many cases the BS of police work for just a little more money?
  24. 25 years probably means he is at the highest pay rate. At 20 years I was at the highest pay rate for my old department. By that time I had longevity step raise, maximum vacation and sick time (which I could convert some into cash) and my retirement pay was now at a very good rate. I beleive the intent of the article was focused on new or newer officers.
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