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There is 35 years difference between my gf and I and her family has accepted me from the beginning. We have been living together just over a year but dated for a few months prior. My gf works and makes 20k + a month in a respectable job, goes to school on Sundaysto further her education, studies reading, writing and speaking English at home and helps take care of the house. She is a beautiful young lady and says I look very smart. I look much younger than my age and in great shape. By living with me her standard of living has increased but other than a few gifts, Birthday, college graduation, Christmas she pays for her own things with her earned money.

So yes, it can work and the family can accept the relationship.

Haha. Why is it that everyone on thaivisa whose wife is old enough to be their daughter, always handsome, younger then they look, fit, not fat or bald

While their wife is hot, have a hot body, not a bar girl, speaks 17 languages and has 15 degrees and is upper level management ?????

Delusion at its finest

Maybe because younger girls prefer younger looking older guys who are fit, and not fat or bald?

Most older guys are also likely to be attracted to young girls who are hot looking, rather than unattractive, girls. Is that unusual?

really?? my gramps is 95 years old and looks about 80, but he doesnt have a single young girl chasing him down!!!! (he's not in thailand by the way)

most of the older guys that I know want a attractive for their age lady who has a great personality, and arent interested in a girl their daughters age

the way I see it, 90% of the girls that I know have wanted a guy between 1-5 years older than them, not a generation older

women who go out with guys their dads age:

1. have daddy issues

2. in it for the money/visa/fame/connections (ie financial benefit in some way)

Suntory Hibiki 750ml (750 ML) $71.99

$64.99 ClubBev! (currently out of stock)

That must be the 12 yr old. Its about 70 usd in my country. There is a 12, 17, 21, 30 yr old

Thanks for trying though

$65.00 USD at BevMo, but they are out of stock. Figure $2000 for 30 bottles, and I'm not sure how you would ship them here.

Doubt they are 65usd

Retail was about 170usd.

If you could get them for 65 usd. Ill take all of them ;);

Supply and demand give me quantities and I may accommodate thee.

Minimum 3, max 30

all depending on price

Happy to pay referal fee but dont want to pay more then retail

Ok I will pm you in the next day or two due to time difference etc.

Graciaz

Supply and demand give me quantities and I may accommodate thee.

Minimum 3, max 30

all depending on price

Happy to pay referal fee but dont want to pay more then retail

Local store/bar where,I can arrange some at cost from a mate in the UK.

Care to share the cost?

Ive been looking for this whiskey for a little while in a few countries around the world.

Just been told by a friend of a friend that their local shop/bar has some for sale

Does anybody know if their local store of anykind has this for sale?

700ml bottle pls.

Looking for any quantity at all. The more the better

Thabks everyone

There is 35 years difference between my gf and I and her family has accepted me from the beginning. We have been living together just over a year but dated for a few months prior. My gf works and makes 20k + a month in a respectable job, goes to school on Sundaysto further her education, studies reading, writing and speaking English at home and helps take care of the house. She is a beautiful young lady and says I look very smart. I look much younger than my age and in great shape. By living with me her standard of living has increased but other than a few gifts, Birthday, college graduation, Christmas she pays for her own things with her earned money.

So yes, it can work and the family can accept the relationship.

Haha. Why is it that everyone on thaivisa whose wife is old enough to be their daughter, always handsome, younger then they look, fit, not fat or bald

While their wife is hot, have a hot body, not a bar girl, speaks 17 languages and has 15 degrees and is upper level management ?????

Delusion at its finest

I would reply

"Well, if it is really about benefits for the man like sex. Then just be aware that if your sexual performance drops or I suddenly decide that you arent satisfactory or my tastes change, I will divert my finds and resources to someone that i decide is good enough for me! So you had better be aware of that"

I find it amusing that typically bottom of the barrell guys in their home country seem to think they get so Hansum when they catch a plane that they are eligible for hi so society!!!!

I would love to marry taylor swift but its going to take another 6 zeros in my bank accountant and for all the stars allign 4 times over for her to even look at me

Are you suggesting women are in it only for the money?

You mean ive been doing it wrong the whole time!?!?!?

damn.......

Im going to against the trend and not bag the op..............for a few seconds

Anyway. ive got nothing new to add to the previous comments.

However. Years ago i dated a med so girl who was very nice.

She'd pay for places she took me out to. And vice versa. She fit the ideal girl in terms of not being a gold digger according to my beliefs. However the odd occassion shed do small things that i would consider inappropriate eg the two of us were eating out and then her friend would call us over to visit her house after dinner. So she orders 3 to 4 main courses to take away and adds it to the bill (this was one of the occassions i was paying)

On these situations i just chalked it down to cultural. However. We randomly got talking about sin sot one day and she said to me. If we do get married. No need for sin sot. I was happy to hear that and that i had chosen a good girl and not money grubber

Unfortunately we broke up but the point is, some things you can let slide due to cultural differences. Some you simply have to stand your ground absolutely and refuse

To be honest, sometimes even i have no idea wherher its cultural or not

My two baht

Marry someone for visa/money/looks or something superifical then expect to have problems

Absolutely no sympathy from me for the both of them

There is no sense here. A 65 year old get to meet a 24-30 year old beautiful Thai girl. She say I love you and he already is in love with this beautiful lady. Get married and in this process he pay lots of money to her family, build a house etc etc. Then he say oh these Thai girls are only after money.

Well my question is what the hell do you have that she should be interested in?????

What can you give her at the age of 65??? You may not even be able to perform sexually as she need. You will not be or have not interest to go to disco and dance with her. You may not want a child at this age. In couple of years she even may have to clean your ass as you can not walk to the toilet either.

Well if she doesn't come to you for money and the security then she is one of the most stupid person.

Grow up and if you really want to find love in this LOS then find someone in your own age.

Bwahahhahaha!!!

Im almost in tears from laughter!

After being pointed out deluded behaviour by many. you come on to boast about sexually amazing you are on an internet forum and how you go to the gym 14 times per week and pick up 25 yr old hookers..........

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Thank you for my morning laugh

Who can blame any girl for trying to get a few extra baht out of these fat old western idiots. You regularly meet the heartbroken 50 somethings who can't understand why they can't find the right 25 year old Thai bar girl.

The RIGHT bargirl.........................this is so funny!

oh come on, when you are that HANSUM, you can get any girl as old as your daughter from your third ex wife is........

isnt ti obvious

Deal with it the Thai way,

Agree to everything they want, but never get round to actually doing it or handing over any cash.

1 "Yep, I'm gonna buy you a new m/c, just waiting to transfer some money in from my home account ........." etc.

2 "I'll buy the new battery next time I go into town."

3 "We can get married next month, just gotta get the affirmation to marry from my consulate"

4 "Sure, I can buy you all dinner at the new restaurant, I'll be a bit late, meet me there, order anything you like while you wait."

5. If I give you money, I lose face, so Im not going to do it (while watching them scratch their head as to the relevance of it )

typical thai visa, boasting about how wasted one can get,

I thought one grew out of that in your early 20s????

oh well, must be because their pot belly makes them extra HANSUM

Why would I want to go on a date with them??

oh and the correct name is 'the backdoor boys'

or so we were told when we were growing up

I told MY gf that I wouldn't even consider marriage until we had been together at least TWO years. Even so I also told her that I couldn't think of a good reason to get married. I am 72, she is 52 with grown children. We have both been married two times. Do we need another one? She is concerned about her future but I can provide for her through my will. From your post I can't see any reason to get married after only a year; or actually to get married at all. Getting married just so you can get her a visa isn't a good reason. Getting married is easy; getting un-married is really hard. What's your rush anyway? If you need taking care of; hire a housekeeper. If you need companionship; get a pet. If you need sex...well...this is Thailand. At least give it another year or even more. You asked for opinions and this is mine.

72 and 52 they are just numbers..............hahahaha. Sounds like your gf hears the cash register opening......

Is this for real sir? not a typo?

Bbbbbbbbbbbut im so HANSUM+!!!!!!!!

Job, job, what is her job?

From this we can begin to deduce how she spends her days, what the source of her income is and how much it is.

Also education level please. Thank you.

Accounting clerk with 2 years of university.

Accounting students are the only ones with half a brain

You have higher odds of success than most.

Obviously this one is an exception

Higher odds of posting here in a few montsmhs asking how he can get back all his assets and how she is demanding a settlement of 1m baht ? Along with taking his house that he paid for

Job, job, what is her job?

From this we can begin to deduce how she spends her days, what the source of her income is and how much it is.

Also education level please. Thank you.

Accounting clerk with 2 years of university.

Accounting students are the only ones with half a brain

You have higher odds of success than most.

Obviously this one is an exception

Higher odds of posting here in a few montsmhs asking how he can get back all his assets and how she is demanding a settlement of 1m baht

you dont say whether she admitted the money was from your account. why did you leave this important info out?

the money could have been from all kinds of weird stuff she got elsewhere.

My unimportant summary opinion

"Why the hell would I even need to ask that question!?"

/hiding behind my keyboard

She has her own business, which I paid for.

She owns 2 shop-houses in Pattaya, which I paid for.

She owns another house in the village, which I paid for.

She owns a 10 year old Nissan that I paid for.

She also owns one other house in the village.

Most of her income comes from renting out one of the shop-houses, as well as renting the 2 houses in the village.

Her first ex-husband also gives her 5,000 baht per month for his 2 children and 50,000 baht from me.

Her business generates peanuts, so I think that she will be better off if she moves out to the village and then she can generate more rental income.

Sure her life isn't going to be easier when the 50,000 baht per month disappears, but well that wont be my problem.

50,000 Baht a month!! ???

Amazing to see everything you have bought this Thai lady and then on top you pay her 50,000 baht a month? Most Thai ladies that i know in normal basic jobs don't even earn 10,000 baht a month ( which seems to be a normal and generous wage in this ( almost ) third world country.For most of the four years that i have been living in Thailand " 50,000 baht would pay me 6 months of living in Thailand " ( My total yearly amount is 100,000 Baht " all in " ) So why you would need to pay a Thai lady so much money?

I have always said ( as have many ) Never pay a Thai lady to live with you! She is with you for the wrong reasons.Why buy her a shop house? ( or 2....) Why buy her a car ? ( I have been riding a second hand bicycle here in Thailand ( worth 500 baht ) For some of us It's more than enough but then i am not greedy or materialistic.............

F.J

Haha a sucker born any minute

And to top of it all off, he sounds proud and half boastful

Buy a hooker more stuff then 3 geberations of wealth. Pay her per month while she gets money from the previous sucker

I think a Hollywood movie is waiting

Only in Thailand and thaivisa!!!

I just checked the prices of a few regualr hotels i go to and all have gone up by 20-100%!!

is there a reason for this?

I did a wide range of dates as well

Price rang $50-$150 per night im referring to

Most people who do not have kids don;t have them for selfish reasons

They prefer the freedom and the ability to do what they want when they want

Being a parent is not for everyone

I suggest you keep wearing a helmet

Yes i agree.

don't tell me you are one of those people that think having kids is doing a favor to the world?

having kids is just as selfish.