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I think you had better realistically incorporate your low maintenance beauty taking her share of the house (100%) while seeking maintenace for the child you will probably end up having, into your calculations

This is a completely personal belief that has no scientific evidence. But whenever i listen to a thai male speak thai. To me it comes across as quite feminine. The sounds are soft and there are no firm sounds.

Ive spoken a few thai words and i feel quite 'feminine' speaking them.

Maybe remotely the language's sounds contributing to the higher then usual ladyboy/gay phenemon

Years ago when i was a student. There was a thai exchange student and we got to know eachtoehr and one day i asked her . Why so many ladyboys in thailand?

To which she replied "because its trendy"

I rmemebr being shocked and thinking to myself "<deleted>. I dont care how trendy it is. Im not attracted to men. Im just not going to change sides because its trendy"

Maybe it is line of thinkijng that we non thai people dont understand!

have only been here a few years, so I have not been privy to all the many ways of Thai ladies...other than to avoid bargirls like what they are..diseased dogs of the largest order of stupid possible.

If I wanted to throw my money away sure, if I wanted to have a clingy disease infested dog, I would simply pickup the nearest soi dog for free and bring it home. besides they have sticky fingers as a few of you on here know.

Right well I'm not a fan of bargirls either but I draw the line way before describing them as "disease-infested dogs".

Most take care of themselves down there since it's one of the few things they have to offer a man.

Is it possible that the object of your desire picked up on your misogynistic tendencies?

Spot on!

I have no respect for them but calling them diseased is way too harsh

They are providing a service for cash. Just like any other business.

They make a choice and face the consequences of their choices (alabeit some think they deserve to be treated like mother theresa)

If they are such low lives what makes the people who use them?!?!?!

have only been here a few years, so I have not been privy to all the many ways of Thai ladies...other than to avoid bargirls like what they are..diseased dogs of the largest order of stupid possible.

If I wanted to throw my money away sure, if I wanted to have a clingy disease infested dog, I would simply pickup the nearest soi dog for free and bring it home. besides they have sticky fingers as a few of you on here know.

Right well I'm not a fan of bargirls either but I draw the line way before describing them as "disease-infested dogs".

Most take care of themselves down there since it's one of the few things they have to offer a man.

Is it possible that the object of your desire picked up on your misogynistic tendencies?

Spot on!

I have no respect for them but calling them diseased is way too harsh

They are providing a service for cash. Just like any other business.

They make a choice and face the consequences of their choices (alabeit some think they deserve to be treated like mother theresa)

If they are such low lives what makes the people who use them?!?!?!

They don't respect you so cut back on the family's welfare payments and see if that gets their attention.

Why do you pay them anyway?

As has always been the case "you can't buy respect" so money is not the way to get it. Show them you won't cop their crap will probably earn you a little respect but also shown the door.

Good riddance. You can do better and gain a little self-respect in the process.

regardless of thailand or any country in the world

if you have to pay for the women directly or indirectly, its a form of prostitution.

if two consenting adults are happy with that arrangement, then its none of our business and good luck to the both of you

However, if you are deluded and think they are with you because of you are so hansum, then be prepared to be taken for a ride.

Im sureeven hugh heffner doesnt think 21 year old blonde models are in it for his wrinkles and charms

Never had that problem whether it be family members or any other Thai person, mind you I try not to go to places with large farang population

You nailed it, Sabaidee Mai.

Treat Thais with respect and - with very few exceptions - that's the way they will treat you.

Farangs are a different breed; many more seem to be arrogant and clueless here in Thailand.

I find that those that are socially hopeless or mildly put 'losers' back home are the ones who come to a third world country and expect to be treated like a king......

Especially if they have somesort of income/pension that is peanuts back home but considerable in thailand

if your wife had any respect for you this wouldn't happen. sounds like the cliche old retired farang who never integrated at all with a young poor wife/family in it for the moolah.

classic.

Does one really need to show respect to an ATM ?

The last time I didnt show respect to an ATM it took swallowed my atm card!

Only on thaivisa /thailand

Boasts about how long theyve been there

boasts about being choosy

Boasts about choosing a girl with a former fsrang hubbby

boasts about knowing her for two years married for one

blames loan sharks for all their problems

Sometimes i think a mirror would be the best medicine

umm.. I have three words for you.....or four......or a sentence

Are you for real???

Whaddahelll is wrong with you?????

No offence. But two marriages and you are looking for another one online with a person youve met three times!!!! Thats insane

Would you even consider having a baby eith a girl you met in australia three times!?!?!

A lot of farang say i have no assets so she isnt in it for the money. But the woman are probably preying on the fact that farangs will man up with daddy responsibilities and pay up 200 aud per week which is almost hitting thr jackpot

The amount of headache with the scenario makes me want to reach for another pain killer

Do you pay by the hour or by the day?

In thailand, they prefer buffalos as sinsods. But the buffalos need/wear prada slippers

<deleted>##ing thais are so stupid when it comes to money. Very stupid in this case hope its not the once in a lifetime money grab from you. Super scam the farang... Sounds like one of those dragged out long scams that people wait for the perfect oppertunity to strike the big one. Youve got to wonder in a third world country, is there such a thing as love or is it just a tool for leverage.

In either case she has messed up either a money grab or just being untruthful and unable to be upfront asking you for the cash. You wont be the worst farang in her life if you do a runner, the first one left her with a kid.

so how stupid does it make the person who falls for it

Well, After another 13 years.....maybe you will be better suited to make an even better choice.

Im sure even after another 13 years, he will still be a hansum man

Before I left my wife asked me for a thousand baht so she could play lottery and prayed that she would win a million baht to help her dying father. I have explained to her often that playing the lottery is as good as throwing money away. "would you ever bet on the numbers 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 or 5 5 5 5 5 5 5?"(or how ever many digits it is). I would ask her. She would reply' Of course not! How could anyone win on such an unlikely number!" I would respond, " Absolutely correct!

Thats just makes me lost for words on many levels for the BOTH of you

Lottery is a very low odds investment. Every investment is a gamble

Why would the odds of 1234567 be less then others. If the prize is split then thats a different story

If a dying father would be good luck. Every person would be rich when their father passed away

I cringe for the both of you

Ok.....

so you are choosy with women and have bèen learning for 13 years.

But your wife does something of this magnitude without you knowing

She is close to her family and you have never met the dad.

Your farang husband number 2

You are blaming the loan sharks

She wants to buy a lotto ticket becauze her dad is dying

Sounds like the same story as a first timer in thailand

I think you should pay the 200k baht and show them how much of a man you are. Maybe she could borrow some more and double up

let me guess.... he loses face for being asked.

Face rears its head once again

What???? Prostitution in thailand???

Never!!!

Why would such Hansum men need to pay for it!

Im sure the ladies love beer guts, bad bodyodour,and deulsional alcoholics doublr their age

And im sure the years of experience and success they have at home with the ladies make them experts

If you cant do the time dont do the crime.

Anybody dealing drugs is dealing DEATH. scum of the earth.

So you think alcohol vendors or bottle shop owners should get death as well. Since alcohol kills nore people then drugs

There is nothing wrong with alcohol in moderation. The same cannot be said about drugs.

Why not ?

Millions of people take drugs for recreational purposes and lead perfectly normal lives - not everyone goes onto descend into crack dens !

I know a few regular marijuana takers. Been doing since they were teenagers. 1 has his highs and lows (he also drinks alot so who knows what is contributing ) the others seem completely normal

I also know of a few every now and again cocaine users and all of them are super achievers (like decaprio in wolf of wall street)

On the other hand i know a few people who are f'ed up on alcohol.

I dont condone illegal drug use. I only do social alcohol and caffeine. Id be very worried for myself if i started needing a beer at 9am or had to drink coffee/energy drinks to function throguhout the day

If you cant do the time dont do the crime.

Anybody dealing drugs is dealing DEATH. scum of the earth.

So you think alcohol vendors or bottle shop owners should get death as well. Since alcohol kills nore people then drugs

So what are you saying, 'its ok to sell illegal drugs'?

Not at all. Im saying,the punishment is far too harsh especially ina coubtry with such double standards.

Also the differnece in punsihment between drug dealers and alcohol dealers is 50years prison vs $1m salary for a ceo of an alcohol company. Hardly remotely fair even though drugs are probably worse then alcohl

If you cant do the time dont do the crime.

Anybody dealing drugs is dealing DEATH. scum of the earth.

So you think alcohol vendors or bottle shop owners should get death as well. Since alcohol kills nore people then drugs

Are some of you guys serious?

Boasting about being able to spend 10 to 20k per month on food!!!!

If you worked an average job back home upon retirement anyone could afford it

Only on thaivisa!

Who else is going to marry me!!!!!!!

unless this happens, there is no way anyone is going to marry me!!!

maybe im not HANSUM enough!

That reminded me. Was watching a interview with a famous japanese comedian about 70 who married a 25 years old model

And he was laughing how when he went to meet the parents. He was 30 years older than them

And how he got along really well with the grandparents who were the same age

He had a big grin on his face haha