BritManToo

And guess what, I don't date men, and therefore do not need to attract them (yet I do anyway, because, you know, woman who simply exists must exist to be hit on by men).

If you don't date men, why are you in a thread discussing domestic violence, men abusing women? this isn't about you!

555

ENOUGH! We can all learn from each other, on this forum, if the "baby-boys" just stop playing the "one-upmanship" games. If anyone has anything significant to "add" to the current topic, please do so. Otherwise, best we just all call it a day. Peace,,

I doubt I could learn anything from your or your plump friend.

Best you call it a day.

Hey, BritManToo, do you have your dictionary handy? You'll be needing it, about now, eh?

Gaslighting?

You got me on that one already.

As for my dictionary, would that be Thai, English, French or Spanish?

The extent of my vocabulary depends on the language with which you wish to communicate

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Duh, what LOS are you living in? You'd be quite surprised @ the number of Thais who read, and post to this forum.

There are 4 or 5 Thai men (but not actually educated or raised as Thai, all dual nationality).

Two Thai women (maybe) and two pretend Thai women.

Doesn't add up to much of a surprise!

The Op's topic is "Abuse against women in Thailand", period! All these "know-it-all" posters, don't know enough to stay focused on the topic issue. Huh?

As I pointed out earlier, topic is a non event as Thais don't use this forum.

And most expat posters don't know any Thai men, and only know Thai women on a very superficial level.

What exactly do you expect us to do?

Have a big mutual hate Thai men bashing session?

My 4 year old son has boxing gloves and trucks. His choice of toys. Give him a barbie doll and he will set it on fire.

Mine would pull the arms off in a second, then stuff it headfirst down the bog, good practise for future relationships.

Yep, no money no honey.

ill let you into a little secret,,,

life isnt just about honey,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

and take it from me some honey is very bitter

Yes it is, it could be rent honey, part time honey and permanent honey. It requires money to have one.

If not all three!

@David

Your OP already exceeded my budget.

We could bring greyhound racing to Pattaya. But using Soi Dogs not greyhounds.

But no betting of course.

I vote Jingthing for the hare!

Who is her boss? Prayuth I guess !

If this would be outside Thailand she would have been fired years ago for making TAT laughing stock.

They always were. With tourism departments 6 billion a year. This adds insult to injury. SCRAP or REVAMP kick out the corrupt deadwood in TAT.

My aunt Fanny could do a better job.

Unless you become our beloved leader, YOUR aunt Fanny won't get the job, and HIS (beloved leader's aunt) will.

@Caitlin

Another one for you to rant on,

http://www.thaivisa.com/forum/topic/781056-no-gender-december-deleted/

Enjoy!

Doesn't look like that bad an injury; just a fat lip (I've had worst and shook it off). The author of this article should use spell check and posters grammar is deplorable.

Suspect

Cosmetic surgery on his teeth and jaw.

Implants, etc.

10 teeth at 25k an implant or more.

How attractive is my Thai woman?

More attractive than my previous British woman (and half her age).

Come to think of it, I've dated some Thai guys that looked better in a dress than my previous British woman.

Thailand, you gotta love it!

What about women who abuse men? My Thai wife often scolds me for nothing and sometime shes gone into a fit of rage in which she has thrown all sorts of kitchen implements at my head. Yes its no joke, stand up hen pecked men and be counted, we shall not be bullied anymore.

Then what she has done is a crime, go report it. If you want to talk about women abusing men, start your own topic. I think it's totally important to talk about it, but why not give it its own space?

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Most abusers are not known to be criminals, especially those who are on the margin, whose abuse is mostly verbal violence and not physical violence. Control, manipulation, and gaslighting.

You don't live in Thailand, and this is the Thai news forum, how is this your topic?

I live in Thailand, I participate in the news forum, I think it's mine more than yours.

Verbal violence, you gotta be joking, learn not to listen, 90% of everything spoken by a woman to her male partner is verbal abuse ...... we just don't care because we have learnt not to listen.

80% of your posts appears to be verbally abusing me, who can I report you to, to get you some jail time?

It really isn't our fault you have been sidelined by mainstream society (misquote of Mr. Rush), get a bit of exercise sometimes, 20KG will make a lot of difference to the way men view you (assuming your avatar is a real photo of you).

is gaslighting?

Not to mention this forum is 99.9% white guys, Most of us don't have the ability to abuse Thai women (verbally or physically).

We can't speak their language, they can't speak out language = no verbal abuse.

We are mainly old and weak, they are mainly young and strong = no physical abuse.

In fact (like many of us), I rarely communicate with Thai women at all, they visit me for a short time, I pay them and they leave.

This is great. I wish them the best with their business.

For people who talk bad about it without even knowing it: obviously, you register them by their full name and not the nickname. And it's not worthless at all. It's a really great idea. Well given that you understand it.

How many guys do you know who can type their gf/wife name in Thai script?

(or even know their real name, Thai or transliterated)

I thought OC had been outed as a 65 year old white American male?

Why is anyone still feeding this obvious troll?

I've been to Nan.

Nothing any tourist would want to see.

Nothing I wanted to see either.

Seriously though, if we're just talking aesthetics, some of the women I've seen your average older boy shuffling around the Tesco/Big C/Makro stores and some of the malls are absolutely NOT hot at all.

Hotter than they could get back home?

Is the only important question.

Feminazi is a term coined by Rush Limbaugh, and if you want that association hanging around your neck, that's on you, buddy. Feminism is pretty darn cool, and I'll happily continue to offer opinions which differentiate me from a doormat:

From 'Rush' wiki,

"Feminism was established so as to allow unattractive women easier access to the mainstream of society."

Seems about right.

i have never heard a thai say : 'dumb farang'

but ive seen farangs say : dumb thai' one million times on this forum

whos the racist?

Thai isn't a race, it's a nationality.

Insulting Thais may make you a bigot, but it certainly doesn't make you a racist.

PS.

White people are not a majority in the USA, not sure about the UK.

If you would like to discuss issues of violence against women, especially that of violence against women in Thailand (this is TV, afterall), by men, you are free to do so. You're encouraged to do so! However, you weren't really doing that. You were concerned with "what about the menz?" and blaming the victims.

Not cool, yo.

Most of the women in Thailand with abusive male partners, chose them because of their violent nature.

Seems silly to choose a drug dealer or gang member for a partner then complain about the violence.

It's inherent in the partner.

Now if they chose a meek and mild mannered librarian as a husband, and he gave them a beating, I would understand the complaint.

PS.

Please lay off the feminazi rhetoric (menz is a province in Ethiopia), that isn't cool either.

TH is enough safe, if you DON'T :

- visit bars to look lady-boys and pick up bar girls (or opposite:),

- rent wheels especially motorbike,

- try any drug,

- swim too far from shore and got a line on water before swimming,

- visit fool moon parties,

- take a speedboat, minivan or double deck bus,

- rent jetski,

- try to make any scam,

- make argument with locals for 68.43 Baht,

- forget you are a foreigner here, and this country is their country.

Did the two who had their heads bashed in on Koh Tao do any of those things?

What about the couple shot on the street in Pai (by the policeman)?

Or the girl raped and murdered by the monk?

And no, I didn't say anything about you suffering violence, harassment, or sexual assault from a "man." I said you weren't a woman who has suffered these things from a man, and you aren't.

So if you want to limit this thread to just abused women, it's just you posting to yourself then?

(Don't think any men who abuse women will want to confess on this thread)