BritManToo

1 minute ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Don't know why you got married, but I got married to have lots of sex. Don't know why any man would put up with an angry wife and no sex for long.

I've always managed plenty of sex with my Thai live-ins.

I don't need a bad tempered housekeeper, had enough of that game with my former Brit wife.

Just now, ubonjoe said:

What year did that happen. Before August of 2014 the clause of the police order was different.

It certainly has been allowed since then.

It may well have been at that time.

15 minutes ago, NanLaew said:

Real mid-life crisis guys do Ducati's these days.

And they also tell the sales guys to remove the newbie big biker software (eTraining wheels) during the dealer delivery prep.

PS, check your insurance coverage.

M/c insurance always government minimum.

I prefer single cylinder or V-twin.

Honda 300 is very affordable at around 45k for a 2014 ABS model.

Had a pal with a Ducati, it was in parts more often than it was working.

I prefer a bike that starts when I press the button.

Just now, AlfHuy said:

can always gift it to the lady.

I would anyway (gf or step-daughter), too much effort to bother with the 'foreigner' paperwork for trivial amounts of money.

Just now, AlfHuy said:

I had my men-menopause in Europe and bought myself a BMW. 

 

I've been thinking about a Honda CBR 300, if I had a longer 'permission to stay' I'd probably buy one.

I had a Honda Bros in the Uk (400cc) then a Yamaha Bulldog (1,100cc) in my 50s.

4 minutes ago, drbeach said:

You seem to have a penchant for "dumping" kids. Says a lot about your character.

Ever thought about bringing your family to whichever country you think is best for their future? The UK seems pretty good to me.

1. My former wife won't give permission for our son to leave Thailand.

2. my step-daughter (age 22) has no right to enter the UK.

3. I can't be bothered to drag them round even if I could.

4. Easier to make new kids in a new country without the baggage.

Actually the easy option would be to marry my step-daughter and move with her to the UK.

1 hour ago, Logosone said:

A lot of us have the same experience, we find a beautiful young woman aged 19. You have wonderful years together. Then she insists on having children. Then all the lack of sleep, the crying and screaming and constant work of child rearing tear up the very fabric of the woman you used to know. Her slim, tight, young body becomes a little wider, the face a little wrinklier. But the worst is the character change. The children for the first time teach her to be boss. And Boss Woman will not go away, every now and then she rears her ugly head in her interactions with you. Selfishness, short temperedness, sarcasm suddenly appear. Obviously the desire for sex and sexual experimentation disappear to a large extent as the poor woman is exhausted from child rearing.

You're just making excuses.

Rearing children isn't difficult or tiring, most of the day they're at school.

My son requires about 1 hour a day attention from each parent, if that.

He's been able to use the internet since age 3.

There are 3 adults in the house, no special food prep for him, he eats whatever we're eating.

2 minutes ago, ChaiyaTH said:

Same count for getting the visa on this at embassies.

All the embassy/consulate require is the kids birth certificate and a copy of their house book.

Had many Non-os for my kids.

Immigration wanting custody documents, is just another excuse to say NO, it's never been a requirement.

6 minutes ago, CorpusChristie said:

Did you ask using your wifes kids ?

It was a friend of mine, his Thai wife had been committed to an asylum (violent and dangerous).

They had 3 children together and he wanted to stay on to look after his children.

They refused, no sympathy, completely merciless.

2 minutes ago, Kadilo said:

Its not rational or normal behavior for a woman of any age to behave like this and no one should have to put up with it.

It's normal behaviour for almost every woman in the world over 40 years old (who's been living with the same guy for 2-5 years) IMHO. But nobody forces us to endure it.

I always ask guys .........

When did your woman last press herself against you without asking for money?

Depends where you are, Chiang Mai immigration just say NO.

3 minutes ago, Kadilo said:

If he used his brain this would be the last place to come for relationship advice. 

I've always found the relationship advice on this forum really helpful.

But it does help if you first acknowledge your woman is only with you for your money.

It's very hard to help the delusional.

Pretending your hired help loves you, is never going to end well for you.

12 minutes ago, innosiem said:

not sure if pensions need be from pension but that's not what we are talking about
i have not heard (until now) of anyone being asked to provide origin of funds beyond that of them coming from abroad
you would also need a very low balance in your account back home
for them to say its the same funds

Really, I'm hearing many immigration offices are refusing to process marriage extensions on monthly income without evidence from your pension provider.

Just now, NanLaew said:

Dumping the family because you disagree with a government's immigration policy.

 

Have you prior experience of doing this successfully?

Yes, dumped 4 kids in the UK back in 2009.

Came to Thailand and made some more ........ surprisingly easy as it turned out.

On 7/10/2020 at 8:44 AM, glegolo said:

Doxazosin 4 mg (DOZA-4)   = 2 baht/pcs  

Finastetide 5 mg (Harifin-5) = 1 tablett a day a 20 baht each....

 

My question is about this. I am doing fine now, my PSAwent down to nothing and my enlarged prostate dosn´t bother me any much any more.. Peeing is OK for me..... So.....

 

I'm in the same situation for the past 18 months, but taking 6mg of Dox.

I reduced the Finasteride to every other day (not sure this drug has any beneficial effect).

Reducing the Dox to 5mg means I can't wee again after 3-4 days (I try this every 2-3 months).

You take these drugs for life ....... or until you get your prostate surgically altered.

54 minutes ago, innosiem said:

hether 1 year is preferred or not, and much cheaper to just make a few monthly transfers starting now if you need
and would basically cost you just the transfer fees if you just keep circling the same 40k
if you cannot meet the financial requirements, and cannot get another extension or visa

Many IOs will refuse a 1 year extension on 40k/65k monthly income, unless you can show 1 years worth of transfers.

If you haven't been doing it for the last 8 months, it's too late now.

I have plenty of money in my UK bank, and that's where it's staying.

You may be wealthy enough to risk 25,000 pounds in a Thai bank, but I'm not.