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??? If I understand you correctly, predatory banks lend money to people that are unable to repay. Seems like a stupid business model. What really happens is a different story. People tell banks they can repay and then down the road realize they can't without drastically cutting expenses. Then they blame the banks. There is a reason rates are high for certain individuals.

Maybe you didn't read the post I was replying to? Sure you're busy but in your rush you seemed to erroneously read my post. . The poster I replied to stated born with diabetes ( neonatal). I never stated that type 1 is not genetic nor develops after birth and have stated this obvious truth in this thread. Many people are predisposed genetically to type 1 diabetes which is greatly exacerbated by poor eating habits. I guess we disagree on "rare". As you stated it is entirely possible which I agree but it is extremely rare? Diabetes is of very little concern for thin active individuals. Add healthy diet and the odds shrink even more. Maybe I should replace rare with extremely unlikely? Why people want to ignore the elephant in the room is odd but predictable. It is unhealthy lifestyles that have caused this diabetes epidemic. It is an awful disease to cope with for many and ignoring the "root" cause and focusing on the outliers seems nuts to me but maybe I'm missing something.

Unlike the what I've witnessed outside of Thailand and I too have wondered why. My Thai brother in-law was thin and healthy looking but suffered from diabetes. He ate like many Thais; copious amounts of processed rice which is only a little better than raw sugar. I myself consume huge amounts of sugar everyday but have almost eliminated processed rice. If I'm going to eat crapp it is going to be something I enjoy more than plain white rice and it definitely isn't going to be my go to food source. Many Thais probably get 70% of their calories from rice and this has been catastrophic for many. 20 years ago when Thais were much thinner, diabetes was a major concern for many. I remember thinking what is going on here with so many people in the village going to clinics for insulin shots.

Those barriers will save many people as frustrating as they are when you want to U-turn or take a left. Thepprasit was a free for all and motorbikes getting run over was common when stopping in the middle to turn. Watching cyclists extend there leg into traffic while waiting to turn made me cringe. They will never be removed and traffic will flow much better IMO. Time will tell and may be wrong but hard to imagine the road being worse off.

I would feel frustrated also but I'm not into the "WOKE" thing and would rather speak the truth. Being born with diabetes is rare (.00015 - extremely rare ) and google "Neonatal Diabetes" if you have doubts. As I have stated many times, perfectly healthy lifestyle individuals develop diabetes but it is extremely rare. Many of us are disadvantaged genetically and we have to adjust - life isn't fair. I myself have had pitty parties about my lot and realized it wasn't the solution. As for using "I feel" as pretty strong evidence as you stated, it is used to express an opinion. I am far from always correct and am open to new information when presented. Some on this forum nitpick ( not you) and aways choose fighting for their beliefs in lieu of listening to others. Diabetes is a frightening disease and ignoring the "main" cause to make people feel better about themselves is not the answer. People are much more willing to face the truth as you did, when a health situation is presented with clarity. 7 Years ago I was told I would only recover 50% of my lung capacity based on the MRI and the breathing force of my lungs. It was a clear message and I moved forward after shedding a few tears.

You forgot the sentence prior. "For the many "Know-it-alls" here". I think we all know diabetes is not just for fat people and I stated that in my post. Why are you selectively omitting what was said? I feel, possibly in error, that diabetes is a a disease of the unhealthy minus rare exceptions. His post was stating the exception to the norm which confuses the root issue. People eat much too much and exercise too little.

So diabetes is a thin people disease? You are taking this personally and that is not the answer. Diabetes is catastrophic health issue and your post is condescending and pointless. I think we all get that diabetes inflicts healthy individuals and this unfair. I would bet 95%+ don't fall into the healthy category. My good friend years ago had diabetes and everybody was shocked. Why were they shocked? It is extremely rare is the reason. Doesn't take a genius to reflect on the body shape of those they know that have diabetes.

Generally speaking you are correct but my gut is telling me you might be cow like. Can you kindly post a pic of your gut and with this post in the background. Think that may clear things up. Nothing wrong with loving donuts but there can be consequences. BTW, I love donuts and sugar. A look in the mirror and my good blood sugar numbers tell me that I can do this but most can't. Everybody has their own reality and most ignore it when it comes to their health. $3 of broccoli would tear my intestines apart. The solo rectal symphony would scare the neighbors. There are other milder alternatives.

The OP seems to have no savings and is not making much money. Not an insult - just stating my thoughts without really knowing him. His options are limited and don't bolt with the kid unless you are sincerely worried she may harm him physically. Living on the edge financially with a wife that is mentally unstable has to be terrible. I would leave and get your head back together and start over. Have a plan about the kid that works for you but in the end "get out". My gut is also telling me that there is much more to this story...

I think many meet them outside of bars or online sites doing normal things like shopping and then create a story that works. I did that once and it ended poorly.

Really good question and while married for many years wondered WTFF I was doing at times. Told myself if I ever escaped, I would be a lion and Thailand my pride. 4 years after escaping I'm living with a beautiful woman that is older than me and loving life. I guess I'm not built to roar. Many of my single friends that I was jealous of while married are also in serious relationships. They all were religiously promoting the single life until they fell in love. I think most of us don't live that perfectly free existence we dreamed about. Being free enables you to meet countless women which magnifies the "ONE" that standouts from the others. Then what do you do?

Bar girls are evolving and becoming closer to some of the women in the west looking for someone to support them. Too may better options compared to sitting on a bar stool. Over the years I've met some wonderful bar girls but can't remember a single one of these women that remained a bar girl for long. There are a couple I would have considered taking to the next level if I had been single. It's a hellish job for someone that has high self esteem and they quit or find alternatives. Not all customers are jerks but many are.

Global tourism is up 25% YOY and this happened with high inflation. Expected to surpass pre-pandemic numbers next year. Wish people would just stay home... Thailand fumbled along early in the recovery but the numbers in the next few years will surpass 2019 which is sad IMO.

"The number of people suffering from diabetes worldwide will more than double to 1.3 billion by 2050 driven by structural racism and gaping inequality between countries, new research predicted on Friday" The title is ridiculous. How about the people suffering from diabetes will double driven by peoples insatiable appetite. What a waste of money and energy on this research. Obese people are 80x more likely to have type 2 diabetes. It isn't a poverty issue or racism that is the issue. Donuts are more expensive than vegetables but more of the world is opting for donuts.

Two months is optimistic and it is bad throughout the year if you live within 2 kilometers of the moat Think you live outside the city center so probably not an issue. I would rather shave a couple years off my life breathing bad air than living in the UK.

Go to the amphur and get a copy of all the divorce papers. Get them translated and fill them out so you know what you want. Take them to a lawyer then and get a second opinion if you want. I didn't have a lawyer and it ended well. Might want to have a lawyer explain the options pertaining to your child. Use the lawyer as an adviser and you don't need their assistance in filing IMO. Here is the tricky part. Tell her you are OK with the amphur without a lawyer and throw in an incentive(200k,300k, 500k, 1 mil... baht) at signing. You know her and how much money will motivate her. I gave the money after the signing outside the office. My ex trusted me and new I would give her the money. You could include it in the divorce paper. BTW, the divorce was simple and I think a lawyer would have complicated the process. Literally took 1 visit that lasted 1 hour if I remember correctly. The divorce paper was completed by a lady at the office that just asked about property and who gets what. The above seems easy but if her mental states are anything like my ex, there will be challenges. I simply told her the details and let her decide when. When she told me she was ready, I was in the car and at the office 30 minutes later.

Interesting and thinking about expanding my solar system at the house. It isn't too complicated but at the same time I do run into a few challenges while installing. Thinking I should get someone with more experience to help. I can barely use a hammer but easily setup 3x160(6000 bht) watt on the roof with 200 AH lifePo4 battery(12,000 bht) and inverter. Figure for the 450,000 you spent I could power the village.

Well said and most importantly if you are satisfied with the quality of your life, others' lifestyles aren't important. If I have someone that makes me laugh throughout the day and I'm healthy, I'm living well. I guess I could still afford all the splashy extras but I found I'm happier without them at the moment.

Ten years ago I was spending much more than that and loving life. Now I'm in a nowhere Thailand with a house on the Mekong river with a woman that has her own money. I'm even happier now and spending under 40k ( house and car paid for) and am comfortable. As you stated, everybody has different needs in regards to being content. Others on this thread have dismissed people living on 20K as losers and wonder what type of person would do that? Unhappy banal Losers?

Good advice and I will do the same. Your post just made remember minor hospital visits I had forgot about (wart removal, benign small lump on neck, ingrown toenail...). What a pain in the buttt. It seems the best option is to be as healthy and honest when applying for a policy. Then just hope everything will ends well. What a minefield for the insurance provider as well as the insured.

Interesting because high cholesterol is meaningless unless the LDL to HDL ratios are not good. My cholesterol numbers are off the charts good. I get blood work often because I train hard and like to look at my numbers. Hmmm, wonder if my high total cholesterol that is a product of my HDL might be an issue. What a mess this insurance game is and no solution that makes me feel comfortable.

Never mind, I see you answered my question on page 2. What insurance company refused to pay? What was for their denial reason? Thanks -I'm looking into an insurance change and have 3 months before my current plan expires.

I think you are correct. This can get confusing. The plan covers me in Asia and Europe and that is why I stated April International. Also my Insurance docs are from "April International".

Yes and the same goes for international insurance but probably not as often. We have all read the stories of international policies denying claims. As for the pre-existing conditions you described used to deny claims, it doesn't apply if you don't have any pre-existing conditions. Maybe I'm misunderstanding you. You are correct about not knowing the future but fate in part is a product of who we are today. Being healthy today reduces your odds dramatically of major medical issues compared to being not healthy. We seem to be coming at this insurance discussion from different perspectives but I respect your opinion.