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Elkski

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  1. 5 hours ago, GinBoy2 said:

    I think we're pretty aligned on our advice to the OP, that trying to ship a boat load of clothes is a bad idea.

     

    Yes it can be done, but it's expensive and a lot of her stuff won't be appropriate.

     

    We've all mentioned a bunch of stores, Ross, TJ Max, Marshalls, Kohls and thats before you get to the JC Penny's and Macys etc where for she'll be able to easily replace her wardrobe.

     

    And on a social acclimatization, shopping at least in my experience is very therapeutic for women, especially as she gets to grip with moving to a new culture. I might add, she's coming on a K1, so she won't actually get her greencard for quite a long while, so won't be able to work.

    Going out shopping will be a huge distraction for her until she can get a job!

     

    Just my 2 cents!

    No no no!   Don't want to encourage any growth in a shopping habit. Yes  plenty of stores here. 

    Yes I plan to buy warm stuff.  she will need sweaters, warm clothes, hats, gloves, thermal layers, wind breakers. Down coats, for cold.  

     

  2. Reminds me of the Xmas I had a job in the electronics department at a department store. Help set up Xmas displays with the hot designer ladies. Then reconfigured displays and some stocking.    There were several of us temporary kind.   there was a spiral trash chute on each floor.  Used for boxes and clean  packing trash.   An input door at each level and an open chute at the bottom.  We learned it made a fun transportation method to the basement.   One time we tricked this one guy to go first and we had a big mop bucket around the corner.   The water  must have met up with him.   555.  We never saw him but we could see his wet footprints on the floor. He just left work quickly. 

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  3. 1 hour ago, oldhippy said:

    I so much like the word "fiancée".

     

    555

     

    Yes sorry. A K1 visa gives us 90 days in US to get married.  Known each other  35 months.   Many of her clothes are never  worn things.   She is thrifty but seems to enjoy shopping.  Buys things but then has no where to go to wear them.  I am not having luck getting her to try on everything on video chat  so we can sort it #1  Bring,

    #2 keep at moms for next visit, 

    #3  donate.  

    I can see she hates idea of tossing unworn stuff.  

    I plan to buy her many  clothing items,  But mostly  cold climate  related   stuff and  things required for hiking and biking.   I know extra luggage can be 50$ a bag  but I don't want her to hassle with more than 1 person can navigate in an  airport with.  I will make sure she gets a flight where luggage doesn't need to be  picked up and rechecked in midway like sometimes happens on my trips.   I book direct through airlines  but get this surprise occasionally.   I will meet up with her on US soil wherever that may be.  I do have a SUV but...

    I have read DHL is not the most  economical way.   I will call around on Monday.  

    If she can pack 15 items om a box for 4$ each it may be worth it.   Would there be customs fees going this way?

     

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