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Social life and dating in Thailand
BangkokReady replied to SomeFarang's topic in ASEAN NOW Community Pub
From a completely anecdotal and speculative angle, I would say that, in my experience, Thai women seem less interested in foreigners now than they were pre-covid. I'm not old, but I'm not particularly active in terms of seeking out a Thai girlfriend either. So it's really just what I "feel" has changed. (And I'm pretty observant.) Purely based on attention from women in the everyday, it seemed like pre-covid it was a lot more common for something like a girl in a 7/11 to like you and maybe an older women might ask if you speak Thai, then the girl would giggle. Or perhaps a girl on the street might notice you, smile, or say something. On dating apps, too, it seems like there are fewer nice looking women than there were pre-covid. What it really feels like is that many Thai women are now scared of foreigners. Some people will say that isn't the case, I'm sure, but that's what I think. That's probably not much use to you, or perhaps it is, but that's what I think has happened. -
too late ... obviously you don't live here, or don't go outside much. I really can't think of a better place for the alphabet crowd to live, other than TH. 'Coming Out' ... waving one's freak flag is so accepted here, it's not even noticed. Pride Month, IMHO, is a bit silly here, and surely just a money maker for the special interest groups. Bring awareness to who, as people stopped living in caves here 1000s of years ago. I think he meant "LGBTQ+ paradise!". As in, it's fine to be accepting and tolerant, but not the super-woke nightmare where your speech is controlled and people with penises can go into any woman's space they want. And if you question anything you lose your job. Thailand is pretty close to as good as it is possible to get for LGBT. It doesn't need to move towards Western ridiculousness where the claim of "oppression" allows you to get special treatment.
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Mexico v Thailand
BangkokReady replied to bradiston's topic in Visas and migration to other countries
I too haven't had many of the issues that people complain about, but I generally live a quiet life and try to be polite to everyone I encounter. But I have noticed a lot of things around covid and some Thais behaving as if all foreigners have covid. I also get a sense that many Thais are not particularly fond of foreigners, although many are fine, and most probably don't care either way. Certainly Thais are not as friendly with foreigners as they are with other Thais, even if all other things remain equal. There might be perfectly sensible reasons for this, but it is what it is. No matter your experience, you must be able to see that foreign people are not considered to be particularly high in terms of social status in Thailand, and are often discriminated against or exploited by some Thais. I feel like I haven't experienced this to the same extent in other countries that I have visited, which was the reason for my question. -
Mexico v Thailand
BangkokReady replied to bradiston's topic in Visas and migration to other countries
So anyone who has experienced those things is lying? You haven't personally experienced something, so you assume that no one else could possibly experience those things? Really? You must know that different people have vastly different lives? You sound like you have a chip on your shoulder when it comes to other foreigners. -
Mexico v Thailand
BangkokReady replied to bradiston's topic in Visas and migration to other countries
Don't assume that everyone has a chip on their shoulder just because you do. -
Mexico v Thailand
BangkokReady replied to bradiston's topic in Visas and migration to other countries
Is there any developing country that has a lower status attached to Westerners than Thailand? -
I think small victories are worth celebrating. If you ask yourself "would this woman behave in the same way if it was a Thai person?", the answer is probably "no", which means it is, although on a small scale, someone attempting to extort someone due to them not being Thai.
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Lorry driver dozes off and crashes into car, female passenger killed
BangkokReady replied to webfact's topic in Bangkok News
Isn't the Suzuki's un-caved-in roof visible in the photo? -
Especially if their tackle is intact and they essentially have "heterosexual sex". It's like when you get a trans-man who gets pregnant. They obviously feel "wrong" living as a woman and having a woman's body, but then they go through pregnancy, birth and breastfeeding. I'm not sure how that helps to make someone feel like a man. As you say, it's up to them how they want to live, but it does make you wonder.
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It's crazy how much violence there is online. I have reported several videos on Facebook that show someone being violently attacked or even killed. All I get in response is what seems to be an automated response telling me that the video doesn't violate their terms of whatever. I remember things like recordings of people dying being impossible to access. They didn't really exist. With the implication that the only way you could see such a thing would be highly illegal. Now it's like "Haha! Look at this guy being brutally murdered!".