fredwiggy

I'm for helping out decent women, and if you prefer to call it rescuing, so be it, because that's pretty much what we are doing if we're taking better care of them than they previously knew. And I'm thinking you don't know a thing about the US besides the bad news you hear, from not even going there. Facts are, almost all of the Thais that move there, and it's quite a lot, never come back here. There are reasons for that, and it's not all about money.

And you and your clueless "friends" are making a mountain out of a molehill, because it isn't happening that much by farangs but daily by locals. I miss no points and see lies and made up stories for what they are. Brown nosing or farang bashing, especially towards nationalities other than your own. How do "we" all know about the high rates of farang alkies hitting their Thai hookers? Where is this news coming from? Again, 4 farangs hit women here, and of course it's newsworthy, but a few hundred locals doing the same to their hookers, girlfriends or wives and you'll see one on the news that might have killed her. I\ll never stick up for anyone hitting, abusing or taking advantage of a woman, and they need to be punished, but that also includes the majority of the male population that gets away with it daily.

What you don't see, by your posts, is that at least some of us are taking care of Thai women here, while you go from one to another to another, using them and only seeing them as meat.A woman that's been with a Thai man that's left is the norm, and not a whore because she wants a chance at a better life with a farang, who usually has more money, is a better provider, the chance to leave a third world country for one that's better in almost all ways, a father figure for her children instead of a local who only stayed for the sex and didn't provide for the child he made, the chance for better schooling, and seeing their mom treated better has a more positive effect on their future than a dad that was never there. As far as your ridiculous post, as others have attested, daily abuse, rape, neglect and beatings happen to Thai women nationwide. Farangs get news because we are a tiny percentage of the population. You see it daily on the news, a tiny fraction of what goes on all over. For every story about a farang hitting his woman, there are a hundred about locals. You'll never see this on local news because there are only a few networks here and most of the news is about snakes, gold thefts, traffic accidents and people ganging up 5 against 1 hitting him with sticks . And not all farangs are old and fat. Some take up with women 35 years their junior and that's all about money, and it happens all over the world. Many are less than a 20 year difference and a lot of farangs take care of themselves and aren't all drunks. By now everyone on here knows what you think of women, and looking like you are somehow sticking up for them isn't what you're all about. Using women one after another is also abuse, and it lasts longer.

Taking testosterone blockers leads to a higher sex drive, fertility and facial and body hair changes only. Height is mostly genetics. Castrato's were taller because they were castrated, stopping testosterone. Human growth hormone affects height, influenced by testosterone.. https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/increasing-height#TOC_TITLE_HDR_3

Isaan lawyers have an English speaking attorney, along with translators. Based out of Korat but will travel, extra costs of course. There are many lawyers around. Siam is another. You and her will need to go to the amphur to sign. I'm thinking there are process servers here. If she doesn't agree on split 50/50 of marital assets, you'll need to see a judge, and having a lawyer helps. The house will go to her unless you fight for it and want to live in it meaning if you paid 100%, otherwise you could sell and split the profit. No kids no problem. I'm guessing your son is from a previous and since he lives alone that doesn't matter anyway. If you divorce and want to stay in Thailand, you'll need a retirement visa or work visa. Do you have any of her family that could give her your thoughts?

Depends on what you consider young. Teenagers ,no, most couldn't care less about their future health, children and driving conditions. Those past 25 and into their 30's , 40's and beyond think more of the future, their health, and their safety.

They could ask for more. Always hot and humid, with little respite, with the need to spend most of your time indoors. Less chance of food poisoning from a lack of monitoring of stalls. Sunny most of the time, the need to avoid to prevent skin cancer. Smiles hiding prejudice and hatred in many. Safer roads for himself and his family, which will never happen. Better schools for any children he creates. A culture that doesn't look at women and girls as inferior, hoping they will re-incarnate as a man. Harsher punishment for those trafficking drugs and humans. Less emphasis on what some foreigners do wrong and more on what the rest do right.

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You're lost if you can't understand equal pay for equal crimes. What gives a country a bad reputation is how it treats other foreigners, and it's money lost when those foreigners tell others what happened to them, and it gets passed along to thousands. People getting a slap on the wrist for murder while others go to jail for having one joint happens, and it has always been wrong.

Exactly what happens with migrants in the US. They are always arresting the workers and deporting them, daily, and who's hiring them? Rich, white landowners who are too cheap to hire US citizens. Sadly, a lot of Americans do not want to pick fruit and vegetables, so the migrants needing money are ready and willing. I don't blame them for wanting to work, especially jobs locals don't want, but do it legally, meaning the one's who hire them also.

People doing the same crimes are to be dealt with equally, no matter the country. Anyone going scot free for a crime that incarcerates another is a misuse of the judicial system and corruption, and not a good thing for international relations. There's a lot of hate crime worldwide and Asians are punished for the behaviors of their peers in situations like these. All people should behave, everywhere.

Because the millions of locals aren't newsworthy?...............https://www.pacificprime.co.th/blog/state-of-mental-health-in-thailand/

Manufacturers know full well how addictive sugar and salt is, so they put as much as they can get away with without the food tasting cloying or too salty. People get addicted and then it's hard for them to stay away from the sugar. Sugars in the body need to be burned before stored body fat can be burned. That's why the keto works so well, at least as far as losing weight fast is. It's not a healthy diet long term as some think it is. Here, it's the extreme amount of rice they eat, along with the slowing down of metabolism as they age, the less work they do on the farm, the more sugar laden drinks they consume, along with the snacks. Kids here are given snacks like they are meals. The same happens in the US, where obesity has exploded this last century. here it will continue to rise, as it has been, and Thailand will be closing the gap on western countries where obesity and overweight people abound. I have to tell my ex wife and her family to stop giving my daughter so much crap, because she doesn't get but a smidgen here, and they know nothing of nutrition. Snacks are to appease the children if they complain about what you feed them, and it becomes a habit they win at. Parents give in too much. People can have a propensity to be overweight by genetics, but it's environment in those homes that ruins their chances of being a lean adult. They eat what their parents who are fat give them, setting them up for a lifetime of bad choices in food. My parents parents were from Poland and Ireland, and my parents cooked that food, which is rather heavy on calories. But we also ate healthy lean food. My dad gained weight over the years but mom didn't, preferring fish over meat a lot of the time. I started weight training at 17, just as I was starting to gain fat. Then studying nutrition along with the weights taught me what to eat, and I stayed very lean for the next 45 years, until I moved here and didn't have a gym handy until recently. Eating more rice here hasn't helped, so I've had to cut down to stay lean. I know many that I've met in gyms that are lean who have fat parents. Just takes will power and a desire to sty lean. Diet is most of what you look like. I can turn to a keto (kinda) diet and get ripped in a matter of weeks because I keep my body fat manageable. I love pasta, potatoes, rice, sweet potatoes and bread but don't eat too much because the waist starts to thicken. Salads help to fill you up so you eat less starches for dinner.

When a woman feels loved, she will do whatever she can to make her man happy. If she's not a person who was fatter earlier in life, and only gained recently, she does not like how she is so that's when that positive feedback will work. Women know their bodies, as well as men, but they usually think they aren't as good as they really are. Many men think they are better than they actually are. Negative never works, and can make matters a whole lot worse.

He's actually right about positive feedback. You tell a woman she's beautiful, looks great, sexy etc, and she'll do her best to stay that way. You tell her she's getting fat and she'll hate your words, never forget them, withdraw from you and maybe self sabotage herself by eating more.

What do women deserve?

How you live your life, putting in diet, exercise, amount of time in the sun, and stress can mean a lot more than genetics. I've seen many women and men who grew up looking a little like their parents, but in much better shape at the age I saw their parents at earlier.

Take a look at this also.............https://www.calculator.net/bmi-calculator.html?cage=30&csex=f&cheightfeet=5&cheightinch=10&cpound=160&cheightmeter=154&ckg=39&printit=0&ctype=metric&x=Calculate

No need to have a go. You aren't in the gym business, training and working out, like I was from age 17 to now, so you don't understand what chubby means.

Again you must not understand what BMI means. A woman can be fat, meaning carrying more fat than she needs to, at 40 kilos, and lean at 60. Everything factors in like I noted. Some like bony girls with teenager bodies, meaning young teens. I prefer a woman having a woman's shape. 125-135 lbs isn't near chubby, unless they are under 5'. 5'1" and 85 lbs is teenage girl size, and small boobs. This is but one height-weight scale. There are many, with of course body fat percentage being important also...........https://www.rush.edu/how-much-should-i-weigh

All in the eyes of the beholder. Weight isn't the only factor, as has been noted. Height, weight, body fat percentage, boob size, more muscle, all factor in. Of course the face matters, but to each their own. Some like a white skinned Thai with a tiny, almost teenage structure. Some like a tall, full figured woman. Some like a big butt, others an athletic shape. None of this matters except to the one that look at her and is attracted, both to what she looks (looked) like, and to how she treated him over the years. There is no perfection. I see a lot of women on TV here that all look much the same, on the Gossip channel. Same goes for the men. All skinny, haven't worked out a day in their lives, short black hair and mostly white. But they're superstars because clueless, mostly teenage girls have put them on a pedestal. Happens worldwide, and is why so many that are untalented become rich. The Kardashians come to mind in the US. Hero worship makes people undeserving millionaires, and they care nothing to little about their fans. I have been with women from 4'11' and 90 lbs (40kg), to 5'9" and 155lbs(70kg), and they all looked good. I prefer 5'5" and around 125-135 lbs (56-61kg), but again, the woman's heart and how she treats me is more important. Of course attraction comes first, as that's not a choice, and then you go from there. A woman that's 5'5" and 40 kilos is skinny, and might be anorexic and unhealthy, but some like tiny girls .My gf now is 5'6" and 62 kilos and she's still the same in my eyes, because of the way she's treated me these 3+ years. When I met hr she was 53 kilos, and slimmer, but not a problem for me, as she knows herself and says her clothes are a little tight now, so she knows what to do.

Surely happens both ways, as a woman without a good male role model in her life, the best being her father, loses her respect for what a man is and does what a lot of her friends do, and uses them for money, takes what she can get from them because that's all she's learned how to do, and usually ends up alone, or with a man she's taken for granted, doesn't respect what he does for her because her father didn't respect her mother, or her father was totally absent and she doesn't know what to expect from a man. A woman can't use a man for sex, so she does what she can do. Look at him as an ATM that is an endless supply of cash, and love doesn't enter her mind because she's never known what love means.

Exactly. When a man isn't taught, by actions and or words from his father, the main male role model in his life, what a woman means, and her worth, he goes by what he sees his friends and a lot of the world doing with women, meaning victimization. When he grows up seeing them get along, fighting fair, no abuse and or neglect, he thinks this is the way she should be treated, and will follow this in his behavior as an adult. Anyone who disagrees is one of those that have seen violence towards his mother growing up, and thinks this is how I should act. Actually posting such negativity towards women is despicable, and shows narcissism in it's worse way. And they laugh about it, not understanding or caring how bad they look to all decent men.

He's actually right as far as human trafficking is concerned. Thailand is a huge hub for it, and sadly, a lot of officials are involved because it's big money. Many girls that are prostitutes are forced into it by traffickers. Bangkok is a big hub for trafficking and has been for decades. many girls are from Myanmar , Laos and Cambodia. From 2018, meaning more now....................https://theexodusroad.com/human-trafficking-in-thailand/

Will she leave you when you get fatter?