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  1. Buddha was aware of what went on in the world around him, just as Jesus was, and they tried to teach people to be good to each other, looking inward for answers. that things aren't the answer, earning a living that doesn't hurt others, among others,which sadly doesn't happen as much as it should.
  2. Real men support family living with them, with the exception of adult children who should be working or in school and do something to contribute. A wife might be a homemaker, taking care of children and the house, while the man works. Who else is going to support them besides the husband? Helping your wife if she is going to school by supporting her is also support. Of course any man wants to find a woman who loves them for who they are, but many have other motives for marriage. Some are greedy, gold diggers, lazy, incapable of working, so they look for a man that will take care of them but it's that man's choice if he wants to take that on. Finding a woman here that loves you first for who you are is impossible, as they've all lived around other locals who have proven to be not too good at taking care of a family. Yes, there might be attraction first, which isn't a choice, but after that is started, they'll be thinking support, and there's really nothing wrong with that unless it goes overboard, meaning wanting money for family or bad habits. The role of a man is first to take care of his family.
  3. Like he said, make a few copies of the passport face page and visa page, trimmed,and carry in your wallet just in case anything happens or you're asked by police, which sometimes happens, especially at road stops.
  4. Anyone who has a child here has to worry. Parents that use abuse to punish won't help, as they can't know what's going on in households and children are usually afraid to tell on their parents, even if abuse is happening. My daughter, 8, told me her Thai teacher hit her. That's all it took for me to go and talk with the supervisor lady. I told her no one hits my children, and if she did again, she would lose her job,meaning the teacher. Of course this would come back to the supervisor in charge, and shes a nice lady , so she talked with the teacher about my concerns. If it was a male teacher I would have spoken to him personally. I pick my daughter up a lot from school and wait outside the classroom so I see a little of the last class. the same teacher would have a stick in her hand while she was teaching, and after a few times seeing this, the last time I saw her hit another child, on the head, with the stick. I again went to the supervisor and told her, and she said she would again tell the teacher. i went into the classroom that day and broke 3 sticks I found next to the teachers desk, in front of many children and a few teachers. The hitting stopped.
  5. Which is why you see daily cases of kids chasing others 5 against 1 down the street armed with whatever and kicking them after they put him down. This is learned behavior. Either by their parents or the absence of them. There has to be more care for offspring here to have more social services, because generations of parents have learned the same things. Enforcement here is slow, and punishment immediately and firing of any teachers that still use it would help.
  6. Attraction isn't a choice. The best indication of a good woman is seeing the relationship she has with her father. Other than that it takes a lot of time.
  7. If my comments indicate a general lack of knowledge, you're not very bright and just fail to understand what I'm saying. You don't know where I live, English is spoken by a fair amount of people,I speak enough Thai to get by for 7 years, and translator does the rest, and when I watch Thai news, I'm with my English speaking girlfriend who translates what I don't understand. Living in Thailand, with Thai friends and family, you get to know who's in charge here Many farangs know about the move forward party..Any more assumptions?
  8. Violence teaches them to use violence and control to keep others in line, instead of talking and teaching other ways. Children who grew up being hit by their parents, and I don't mean an occasional spanking but in the face, using weapons or losing control, are extremely prone to abusing their partners or own children, and the process is repeated in the next generation. Allowing others to hit your child is despicable and cowardly. Stopping it in schools is great, as teachers have no business using force against a child. Stopping it at home is a different thing, and is much harder because parents have also been taught with violence against them. Children aren't stupid and if you start from birth, can be reasoned with and they'll know who's the boss. If they get out of control you call the police, and that threat, backed up, is usually enough to stop them. Peers teach our kids a lot, and if they see their friends getting away with things from their parents, they will surely try it with you, but again, past history is with them. I rarely hit any of my children, and only a mild slap on the butt, and the only one who disrespected me was my son when he came back from living with his mom primarily for three years, and it took one time restraining him while talking to him to stop it. The others were never a problem with disrespect. They did get in trouble but learned from their mistakes and the ones who have children now do not hit them, and the kids love them and respect them also. Laziness hurts discipline, and discipline doesn't mean abuse. My parents only hit me a couple of times, and I was taught respect for others, animals and property by them, and by them talking.
  9. Why do you assume i don't get out more? I might get out more than you. In fact, I might be older than you, which could mean I got out many more times in my life than you have, or maybe ever will. You said hundreds have said to you they don't know Aung Ing. I'm doubting you've asked three. Exaggerations don't fly with adults , and you lose credibility if you always use them. I know who he is, but wouldn't bother any farang friends here asking them if they did. We'd rather talk about fishing, hunting, other sports or if anyone knew a good farang restaurant close by.
  10. I'm not political but I know what Trump does affects me in some ways, at least eventually, and Americans here are still Americans, and if they collect SS or a pension, the government is involved. Non Americans are affected because most countries are affiliated with the US in some ways, and those ways have political, governmental, involvement.
  11. Ahhhhhhhsumption. So, you've actually walked up to every farang you see and ask them who Aung Ing is? And they all, with a confused look on their faces, said no?
  12. But how many died from his hesitation to close the borders during the outbreak of Covid? I'm thinking a few more than 13. He "knows everything about Covid" didn't work then.
  13. It affects everyone worldwide in one way or another, and many posts here are about other countries leaders, the insane and the sane, and how they are connected to the US.
  14. Everything you've ever done has been influenced or controlled by a government besides personal actions at home, although your home is also influenced some ways. All jobs, roads, food establishments, schools, vehicles, and many others are or have contact with others that are influenced by the government. Whatever you have received, worked for, or eaten also has a connection.
  15. Dictionary Definitions from Oxford Languages · Learn more bell·end /ˈbelend/ noun vulgar slang•British noun: bell end the glans of the penis. an annoying or contemptible man.
  16. Take away money and all that's left is farmers who use seeds from harvested crops to plant new crops, man-made nets to catch fish to eat, spears and homemade bow and arrows to shoot game, houses made by plants and trees, people who talk to each other in person, walk many miles to visit family and friends, no more traffic accidents except drunks on bicycles, homicides like the old days, with knives, rocks and pitchforks because someone stole your crops, and more deaths because the doctors and medicines are too far away to help.
  17. Who also are affected by the government. Here's more food for thought.........https://www.public-sector.org/social-media/public-services-affect-almost-everything-in-our-daily-lives/
  18. Everything is affected by the government, whether it's local or overseas, it affects everyone, unless of course you live on North Sentinel Island where no one's allowed and they have their own lives with no interference.
  19. That's the idea, but sadly, mismatches occur every day since the beginning of time, and the breakdown of families, and the problems within many, is what makes most problems worldwide. Good people belong with good people, and the bad should end up with the bad, but it doesn't happen enough.
  20. It's a response to you when I said........"US politics affects the world, so they are all part of it.", and you said ,"It has never affected me. Bush and his Iraq war had the biggest impact but still no real impact on daily life", after your question of why people move to Thailand and still talk politics, which , meaning US politics, affects the world
  21. Not hard to research what impact the government has on our lives from birth to death.
  22. Most of it does, or has,...............For more information about Public Service Recognition Week, visit PSRW.org. 50 WAYS GOVERNMENT WORKS FOR US 1. Social Security payments help 51 million Americans. 2. College loan programs help millions who might otherwise not be able to afford higher education. 3. U.S. Postal Service inspection programs help prevent mail fraud. 4. Social Security disability provides benefits if you become too disabled to work. 5. Medicare provides government health care for seniors. 6. Food stamps protect families facing hardship by helping them buy the food they need for good health. 7. Organic foods are certified by U.S. Department of Agriculture standards. 8. OSHA regulations and inspections protect America’s workforce by limiting exposure to toxic chemicals. 9. The federal minimum wage law makes sure every covered worker gets paid a basic wage. 10. The Family and Medical Leave Act provides the right to take time off from work to care for a sick child or parent without losing your job. 11. The National Archives is the nation’s record keeper, overseeing the Declaration of Independence, Constitution and Bill of Rights. 12. The Department of the Interior protects our national parks for the enjoyment of all Americans. 13. Bank regulations limit your loss to $50 if someone steals money from your account with your ATM card. 14. Copyright and patent laws protect an invention or creative work from being stolen. 15. Child-resistant packaging rules reduce poisonings from medicine and household cleaners. 16. Public education is available to every child. 17. The U.S. Mint prints currency and manufactures coin. 18. Inspection of meat, dairy and food protects against contamination and disease. 19. Truth in Lending laws discourage rip-offs by credit card companies. 20. School lunch regulations mandate nutritious meals. 21. Enforcement of the federal Clean Air Act guarantees commitment toward providing safer air to breathe. 22. Federal dams provide electrical power, flood control and irrigation. 23. Federal deposit insurance protects bank accounts. 24. Construction and maintenance of interstate highways link the country. For more information about Public Service Recognition Week, visit PSRW.org. 25. The government provides assistance to artists and musicians to help develop and preserve American culture. 26. Military doctors eliminated disease like typhoid and yellow fever. 27. Regulations prevent the sale of alcohol and tobacco to minors. 28. The U.S. Weather Service provides storm and hurricane warnings. 29. Federal law prohibits employment discrimination on the basis of age, race, gender, color, national origin, religion, childbirth or disability. 30. The Federal Housing Authority helps Americans become homeowners. 31. Consulates and embassies help U.S. citizens traveling abroad. 32. FEMA provides support for victims of hurricanes, floods or other disasters. 33. The National Park Service maintains several thousand miles of trail for park visitors. 34. The U.S. Army Corps of Engineers helps maintain the nation’s ports, harbors and navigation channels. 35. Veterans receive education assistance through the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs’ GI Bill. 36. Each year, the U.S. Food and Drug Administration approves new medicines. 37. The Library of Congress is the largest library in the world with millions of books, recordings, photographs, maps and manuscripts in its collections, which are made available to the public. 38. Public water systems provide safe drinking water based on standards set by the EPA. 39. The Transportation Security Administration monitors the 39 billion tons of cargo that are transported annually by passenger and freight carriers. 40. Thanks to the Federal Aviation Administration the United States’ air traffic control system is the safest in the world. 41. Universities receive 60 percent of all research funding from federal agencies. 42. The Small Business Administration helps Americans start, grow and build businesses. 43. The Americans with Disabilities Act guarantees equal opportunity for people with disabilities in public accommodations, employment, transportation, state and local government services and telecommunications. 44. Veterans Affairs’ facilities treat millions of Americans each year. 45. Customs and Border Patrol agents protect our borders every day. 46. Scientists at the National Institutes of Health sequenced the human genome, which set a new course for developing ways to diagnose and treat diseases like cancer, Parkinson's Disease and Alzheimer's Disease. 47. Labor laws guarantee you cannot be prematurely replaced if you strike over unfair labor practices. 48. The National Cancer Institute has made many discoveries in the treatment of the disease. 49. Economic statistics-keeping helps track inflation. 50. The “Do Not Call” Registry makes it easier for consumers to stop getting telemarketing calls that they don’t want.
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