Jump to content

fredwiggy

Advanced Member
  • Posts

    8,033
  • Joined

  • Last visited

  • Days Won

    1

Everything posted by fredwiggy

  1. Freedom of speech,along with gestures, should be worldwide, as it shows freedom, which should be everyone's right. Everyone has the right to protest a corrupt government, justice systems, politicians or any other officials that are doing wrong, and doing this, although it comes from weak minded sheep who follow those who hate, should be allowed. It will show others how people think, and who should be labeled as toxic and better avoided.
  2. It must take you an awful lot of time to check all those kids bikes.
  3. That's true but not for a simple reason. A damaged woman does not feel good about herself. Low self esteem coming from her childhood and or previous relationships with men. You can treat her like a queen. Loving, caring, trusting, building her up, protecting her, and she might still not be able to let go of her past.
  4. Exactly. My mistake was trusting her. The only reason I am still here is waiting until I can move back home with my daughter. The longer you take getting to know her, the more red flags will arrive, or they won't. I only visited my ex for a month at a time a few times before I moved here, doing exactly what others warned about in forums. Pretty face and good body threw me for a loop. Lies and seeing how she treated her previous children (giving them away young) should have told me enough. The first time she hit me because she was mad at her mom was another red flag, with coming at me with a knife added on. After I moved here, and the house was built, the real her came out in bright colors, but I wouldn't for many reasons leave my daughter here with her. Like you said, some can hide what they really are for a long time, especially those with narcissist personality disorder. Love bombing you until they get what they want, they turning on you like the Third Reich.
  5. The most important thing in a man -woman relationship is trust.If you don't have that, the relationship falters and dies. Compatibility is important. Closer to your age does mean something, but here they really only want someone to take care of them, as many aren't full time employed. Future plans have to be in sync, or there will be constant arguments until someone gives in, and that will also ruin the relationship. My own mistakes were not getting to know them well enough before I committed, meaning attraction did me in. I do know the most important thing in a woman's life, so she can get along with her future men, is her relationship with her father. If he was a caring, loving, non abusive man, she will look for that in her adult relationships, and will relate better to men in them. If her dad was absent, abusive or neglected her, she will always look for that perfect man, who doesn't exist, to replace her not perfect dad. Every relationship I've ever had where there was conflict, it was traced back to that absent or abusive dad. The others that were okay had dads, and usually moms' who were there for her when she grew up. Here. so many dads are absent so finding a good partner is extra hard. Some may be okay for awhile, because the foreigner is taking better care for her than any local did, or at least can support her better, but eventually that fantasy wears off, and she will return to form, and start nitpicking things, with self destructive, sabotage behavior that will ruin the relationship.
  6. Actually it's getting the police to do their jobs. Doesn't take money but the threat of a job loss. This will take many years to change because they really don't care about life here. Just the one case of letting children sit on top of the school buses is enough for most any country to get laws enforced, let alone the 65 or more than die daily, most of them scooters or motorcycles and most without helmets.
  7. Or picked up the STD from someone after her.
  8. Have you noticed the ponds they get fish from daily here, especially after draining the rice ponds after harvest? The same waters they fish, get snails in and swim have a lot of bacterium that can enter body openings.
  9. True, if you aren't a good swimmer and can control the person, calming them down so you can help, it could be bad for both. Two people together can help another.
  10. If I wasn't at home, I would do the same. Been awhile since I drove to Sisaket to have one, but I will surely have some burgers, lasagne, Thanksgiving dinner, BBQ and Mexican food when I go to Texas next month.
  11. That's my point. I have been making healthy suggestions. You don't have to load food with sauces. They are there to add al ittle flavor, not to overwhelm. Fatty burgers taste good, but so do lean burgers, if the beef is good quality. When I go home to Texas, and move there eventually, I eat BBQ without sauce. Just the meat and onions, along with some beans. Sauce isn't necessary. The same with steak. A1 is excellent steak sauce, but I only use it once in awhile. I prefer a steak grilled, plain.
  12. Google Anhedonia. It's a part of clinical depression, and you'll easily spot the symptoms if she has them. Been there. If she has this, it will take a lot of patience to stay, because it's in her hands, and if she disagrees with what she has to do, things will not improve and can get worse. Mood swings are not supposed to be extreme, and happen all the time. She's a little young for menopause., but it's possible . Medications can give a person mood swings also. Wanting to be back here is part of a depressed persons life as "normal". They need easy, routine things to just get by day to day. If she's sleeping a lot, likes to buy online a lot, gets angry easily, doesn't like to socialize with others, uses drugs or excessive drinking to feel good, these are symptoms of anhedonia, and depression. Good luck.
  13. A large majority of people here are never taught to swim as children. Care isn't something shown much here for the young. No one is going to jump in and help because most, if not all of those watching, can't swim themselves. This will continue forever here.
  14. If you actually read what I wrote, plus the links I provided, you would have seen this hours ago.
  15. https://www.beeflambnz.co.nz/the-quality-mark
  16. Just because you're in denial or can't fathom what the links say, doesn't mean they are not useful. You might want to read more and talk less, as I suggested earlier. It's a better way to learn things. Who said spending more was healthier? Not anyone I've seen here. You don't have to leave out the basic ingredients to have a tasty and healthy burger. You just have to leave some things out.
  17. Everything I mentioned can be made at home, and bought in most larger cities worldwide. New Zealand has excellent beef. Don't put insensitive in my replies as that's not me. I'm here to help. He stated he usually eats only junk food. I suggested better options. It's up to him to do what he wants. That's what advice is about. You can take it or leave it.
  18. This means you didn't actually read the links because they do have alternatives and ways to prepare a healthy burger. High quality ingredients in my thinking means healthy. The main one being the beef. I don't eat low quality beef, preferring Australian, Argentinian, Texan or Japanese, along with others I will eventually try. Now you're assuming you actually know thaibeachlovers personally, to know what he has or cooks with. Again, you're assuming you know what anyone does besides those that actually live with you. You don't.
  19. No, they are not. Obviously. Though I always did wonder why burgers are considered unhealthy, since they contained minced meat, tomato, onion and did not seem terribly unhealthy. Edited 1 hour ago by Cameroni That is @Cameroni agreeing with me and disagreeing with you. The way most people eat cheeseburgers isn't too healthy. I mentioned this before. You can make them healthy. I also mentioned this. You are nitpicking again, using one reply and leaving out the others. Take some time, take a breath, and read all of the posts. Then come back, maybe in a week, and realize what you missed.
  20. Where has anyone said everyone else is a narcissist? When you study about them, you can spot them very easily, and they are everywhere, including many in power. That's why they are there. They're sometimes called alpha males. The bane of society. Users, cheaters, exploiters, raised from childhood to hurt, intentionally, others. Everyone has some narcissistic tendencies. Just look at all the selfies people take. Some have a narcissistic disorder, or personality, and they are one huge reason the world is so screwed up. the opposite is en empath. One who cares about others and can put themselves in other's shoes. Always a good thing not to assume.
  21. I don't have to do anything but tell the truth, which is what I always do. First you say all of the foods I mentioned aren't healthy. Now all but burgers are okay in your eyes. Soon you'll realize how ridiculous you sound and maybe understand what I've been saying all along is easy for any teenager to comprehend, especially if they, google.
  22. Cameroni and Khunla have both proven you wrong. I have a friend that's reading all of this, a member, on the phone. He thinks you're a very disturbed , low self esteem narcissist that is very likely lonely and incapable of making friends.
  23. Are you actually reading and comprehending what I and others have been writing? Guess not, because two have. This is what you said earlier............ "No. The cheese they put on NY style pizza is not healthy. Can you point to anything that states that it is? You're whole assertion is quite ridiculous. Who make cheeseburgers with lean beef? More nonsense 😊 Good bun? Now you really are being silly. You should stop. Healthy means just that. Beneficial..................." Since then, I have shown they are healthy choices, if you make them the right way. Common sense seems to elude you. Mozzarella cheese isn't un healthy. You can use any beef you want to make burgers, and all beef is, by itself, healthy. Buns can be healthy if you, again, choose those that are. You still keep replying, after I have shown how they can be a healthy choice. The fact you are missing this shows you are just acting your normal way, being a troll that just likes to argue, even when proven wrong. You're getting very childish with this and showing everyone involved in this topic your true intentions. You have not proven me wrong, yet feel the need to go on and on, now saying you're in better shape than someone you've never met. Think for a second, for once.
×
×
  • Create New...