As for me, I never hung out at bars and never dated a bar girl. Though I met a lot of women here, Thai, Burmese, Chinese, Korean and Singaporean, all of which were well educated and employed. My search for my best friend ended when I met my current wife, best of friends and we keep each other well entertained.
My guess is that most guys come here desperate and are attracted to desperate women, tilling through short relationships. Personally I can’t imagine having a fulfilling life in such a state. Though I don’t judge those who mutually choose to engage in short relationships, but what I hate seeing is foreigners toying with women that are only interested in serious long term relationships, it takes a real chitttyyy person to perpetrate such behavior.