Drinking is a big part of it, but I'm sober probably half the time. It's more like I go into so many places and talk with so many different people that nothing really "sticks".
I think it has to do with traveling a lot and having that mindset, or just liking going into every different place on the block, rather then focusing on a few particular places each time. ????♂️
It happens in other situations too just traveling. Meeting people but the conversation is always the same, where are you from? want to get a beer? etc etc, but it's always like people or places just passing through and no genuine friendships or connections take place because we both know we are not going to be around long ????, if that makes sense. That's about the best way I can describe it.