Cameroni

Thanks. It was very sweet, to see that our connection is alive and well. However, there is a bit of a dark cloud of course, what she did has left traces of pollution. There was an incident as we were picking chocolate croissants at the mall earlier. I noticed the mangy black baseball cap she was wearing was clearly a man's. I asked her is that the troll's baseball cap. She said it was his. This was particularly offensive as I'd given her a baseball cap before she left, which she left at his place. So I told her to throw that hat in the bin. At first she refused. So walked her to the bin, took it of her head and threw it in the bin. I was not happy for a full 15 minutes, until the rage subsided. He also bought her a hideous dress. We'll have to burn that when we get to Chiang Mai. Obviously I'm not enthused about moving to Phuket or Ko Samui. I'd only do it for her. But at least in Phuket I may get to meet this 1.70 m Pigman and stare him down face to face. At Big C. Or the beach. It'd be so off to go to these places, knowing she was there with him. I really hope she goes for Ko Samui instead.

We're in Watsons for an hour now, can you please start the Gofundme ASAP?

I told her I need her to be all in. If she leaves again, I can't do it again, that would be it. What I've gone through in the last 4 weeks, I would not wish on my worst enemy. I can't even rejoice in defeating the Austrian, for I know what he's now going trough. The plan for now is a few days in Bangkok, then beach holiday. Then she'll come back to Chiang Mai and I get ready to sell up and we move to, most likely Phuket, but I'm also trying to get her to visit Ko Samui. I'd rather be away from Phuket. But she's dead set on it. I've not paid her anything. Apart from the flight and for a hotel in Phuket so she didn't live with the Pigman. No doubt I'll have to pitch in to pay mama's motorcycle, creams etc...eventually.

What was particularly significant with her coming back now, is that she absolutely loved her life in Phuket. She made new friends. Played beach volleyball every day, which she loves. And the Austrian pigman was so good to her. He bought her tons of make up. Bought her dresses. Gave her money. And she took it all...and...came back to me. Our emotional connection was stronger. Despite her dream life in Phuket, she could not forget me, and decided to risk everything with the pigman, leave her dream island, her new friends, her volleyball on the beach...to come back to me. However, unfortunately, she really does love the life the pigman provided. She loves volleyball on the beach. The life in Phuket. So she wants to live there. I have to come and live with her there. Which I'm very uneasy about. Clearly, there is a risk she will go back to the rich pigman. She told me she does all this because she loves variety. And she knows the Pigman will just take her back any time. The pigman really loves her too. He told her many times. He's not a seasoned player. Just a 170 tall 63 year old madly in love with her. A very accurate photo of the Pigman:

I am in Bangkok. In a hotel. Phuket Girl is lying next to me. I said I would do it again. I did. I took her off the Austrian. After I picked up Phuket Girl from the airport yesterday I got some first hand reports how the Austrian is angry, mad and now obviously alone and miserable. Given what I went through these last 4 weeks I don't feel bad. This is the law of the land. The strong will win. I also found out the Austrian is only 170 tall. A dwarf really. The magic with Phuket Girl is still there. We will make it.

Another intellectual failure on your part, as you seem to have the same difficulty comprehending what a prostitute is, and does, namely take a one-off payment for a one off-sex act. Phuket Girl is not a sex worker in this commercial sense as is plain to anyone who can deal with nuances and facts. Clearly you have a problem with it.

I think you need to be a lot more careful to not make any more idiotic statments. I'm sure you know deep down you're a bigger loser than most posters on AN.

Well, obviously, I got a hit of MDMA and want another one. Well, she's not in any "trade". Yes, she asks for money from boyfriends, and she has to take care of the family. But that's 6000 baht a month, it's not a problem. The problem is she wants to add money on top, so her savings account grows. Hence she talked of 20000. She was actually reasonable with me, she said 10000 I use for mama and my needs, and the other 10000 I put in my savings account.

The real fantasy is that any women do not have sex for money. All women in our age have sex for money. That's not to say all women are "sex workers" though, that term implies a professionalism which only a minority of women engage in. And Phuket Girl certainly does not.

Well, 20,000 is still acceptable, but 30000 and an Iphone would be a bridge too far. In any event, my hope is she stays for me, not for the Phuket beach condo like with the cripple, or for any money. We have a great emotional connection, which is more important really.

I'd give her a reasonable amount, she's worth it. The problem would be if she looks at unrealistic scenarios and demands exorbitant amounts. I would say 30000 is just too high. She mentioned that figure to live in Phuket. But if she lived alone. If she lives with me this would change the figures.

I'm doing it. I was supposed to have a date with Strawberry blonde, who moved to CM recently. But she had a lot of work today and asked to reschedule. I'm just not sure there's the same chemistry with her as with Phuket girl.

Again, purely a fantasy scenario devoid of real life evidence. In the most recent conversation she even cast doubt that she wanted to stay in Phuket. Nor is she receiving any grand amounts of money from me currently.

Making deals, setting rules, with these girls, is like urinating against the wind. They'll never keep to any of it. That's not a deal I'm willing to enter into anyway. If she comes back, it's all in or nothing.

He doesn't play volleyball with them. He just goes there to ogle the Thai girls, and to pay the bill for beach dinner. I think he has bolts in his hand and foot, so he has to have check ups all the time. The no good ugly cripple.

It's going to take some money, sure, but I think in a case of a woman where there is a history of cheating, like with Phuket Girl, we can say for certain the adventure part of her personality is quite marked. It would therefore be important to offer trips, holidays, changes of scenery, a bit of manufactured drama, and also perhaps projects that keep her occupied, such as university studies. Once you know what animal you're dealing with you can adjust the scenery accordingly.

I have a box of tricks.

Good see some results coming your way. Hopefully it lasts long term. I had a wonderful start to the morning, the best since she left. Phuket Girl texted me first "Good morning". I replied, some small talk, then asked her for a selfie. She was still in bed and sent it to me. I sensed she was alone, so I video called her. She told me the cripple went to hospital, but she didn't go along. She made a big point that it wasn't because of me, but just that she was lazy. She put on some music we played when she was here, and we looked at each other a long time. Then I asked her to show me her bedroom. She went through the whole house. It's a villa where she's staying, not a condo. But the bed looks cheap. Nothing special. But there's a garden. I asked her where we will live when she comes back. She said, maybe we'll talk about it again, she's not sure. I asked how come you're not sure I thought you said you really wanted to live in Phuket? But she said "Maybe it's good to change". Good in a way, but it suggests she's really after adventure, changing scenery. She said she got a phone call from a delivery service and just hung up on me after 13 minutes. I was kinda of shocked she called me again on video call. I thought that was it. We talked another 15 minutes. She explained what happened yesterday. She went to eat, it all went very fast, so she forgot to call me, she went direct from the restaurant to the beach to play volleyball. Supposedly all alone, and she met the cripple at the volleyball place. She said today maybe she'll go to a cafe alone. But no doubt she'll go to the beach again for volleyball. Time is on my side though. Everything gets old sooner or later. Even beach. Even volleyball. Looks she may already be getting tired of Phuket.

She called me 3 times on video call today. I asked for a video of her playing volleyball. She sent it. I published a photo on Insta, she immediately put a heart emoji on it. Which shows she has my insta account monitored. Which is nice. Not so nice, she said she would go out to eat alone, and then call me. Instead she showered and went to play volleyball with the cripple, and no call. Until she came home. Morning texting was quite nice though, when she was jealous and asked if I was in the park alone. Twice. She also said the day is near... I'm feeling more upbeat today.

I don't know. She's much more active on social media than Phuket Girl, due to her work. Constantly posting content on different platforms. She's definitely a good woman though. Attractive, intelligent and two very long relationships mean she has a relatively low body count. One thing the cuteness factor is a bit low with her. She seems almost too masculine in terms of her energy. I'd like her to be a bit more feminine. Not in her looks, but her energy. Whining on a high level, I know.

Thanks, it's all very innocent for now, just coffee date, chats, and walking in the park. Wondering what to do for the second date. I'd really like to change it up but she loves to walk in parks.

She confirmed the second date. We will meet again this week. I saw her on Bumble where she helpfully placed her Insta details. I wrote to her and we hit it off and agreed to meet.

Not at all. I'm very much still in the game. She texted me this morning, when I wrote I want her in bed with me "The day is almost here". Still 13 days to go, but looks like she's serious about coming back to me. I was scoping a date location in CM this morning, a park, and took some pics looking sharp with beautiful flowers as a background. First thing she asked "You go alone?". I said "Yes". She asked unbelieving "Really?". So she's still jealous and concerned if I go on a date with someone else. She also shared her location on Whatsapp now, so I know exactly where she is in Phuket now. So all in all I thought this morning went better, particularly since she was jealous if Iwas in the park with someone else. Until I asked what she was doing. She said "cooking". She cooks for the Austrian. I don't think so. Have you seen when she was last on that Thaifriendly account? Half a week ago. She's busy going to the beach playing volleyball with the new ladyboy friend whilst the cripple watches. That's not what her text this morning indicated.

No she said she will come back on 9 February, her birthday is at the end of Feb. There will be no big present. I'm not rewarding what she's done. It's the opposite, she'll have to prove how much she wants us to continue if we get back together. Yesterday does not bode well though. After the previous day, when she went to lunch with her new ladyboy friend, supposedly spent 3 hours cooking with the Austrian, I had asked her to set aside more time for us. Instead yesterday she went to the hospital with the Austrian, then lunch, then beach and only back at 10.40 pm texting in scared rabbit mode. She even lied to me, two days ago she said she'd not go to the beach with the Austrian anymore but instead would go alone and call a grab. But she admitted yesterday the Austrian went along. This after she told me she was going to the beach with "friends" to which I explicity replied "with the cripple?" and she just replied "friends". So a clear lie. I asked her if she really likes the Austrian. She said "no". I asked "really". She "Yes". But she must be lying. Why else would she keep going to hospital with him, go to the beach with him. And there's supposed to be two more weeks of this. Every day she'd be bonding with the Austrian. Texting me now. Strangely early.

The worst is this ladyboy gang will no doubt rope her into some late night drinking binge. Either on the beach or some bar. This will be the next problem she'll cause, no doubt. It's inevitable.