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Congratulations on coming out as two spirit!
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I get what you're saying but sometimes people that think they are beautiful actually are. But then we get into what is beauty? Different cultures have different culturally specific concepts of beauty. In the same culture, that can change over time. My context is western gay male concepts of beauty. That has changed since my peak bloom to usually REQUIRE some level of having a gym body. I didn't have that, so with my same looks I had now, I wouldn't have the same high level of swoon appeal. Still OK, but I would be rejected a lot more by the cream of the crop in a bar or these days more like Grindr. Also the swoon worthiness I did have was mostly from men. Women most often aren't particularly interested in twinks beautiful or otherwise. On another note, I did have a swoon bloom in my school age years, but only from about 13 to 15. I got cast as adonis Demetrius in Shakespeare's A Midsummer Night's Dream based on my looks rather than my acting ability. Pretty girls were all over me! But I didn't want the girls so I put on weight and that took care of that.
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And then there is the fall. I remember being 30 and a coworker saying to me -- you know you're not as cute as you think you are. Ouch. It's true. I wasn't. It gets much worse. I guess in my 40s. For some reason my butt was being discussed by a bed partner. He said, I can see that it USED to be hot! Then it's so over.
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Some people think that most all people going through the bloom of youth are at least beautiful humans during that time. I beg to differ. In my opinion, younger people are mostly average looking with some ugly and some beautiful. I suppose some average looking younger people do later enter better looking or even beautiful phases. Maybe they alter themselves at the gym or with surgery, etc. But anyway, the way I look at it there are significant numbers of people who have never been beautiful all their lives. For those that have been, in general the beauty fades away with age though of course older people can be stunning as well. So what's the point of this thread? To invite discussion about your own personal experience with being beautiful in the past (or perhaps you still are) and the feelings about that fading and also from people who have never and will never experience it. The never swoon worthy, do you feel pity for people that had it and lost it? The faded swoon worthy, do you feel pity for those that never experienced that? By swoon worthy beautiful, I will give a personal experience. During my peak bloom, I could walk into a disco and be pursued by countless unattractive people but the key point proving swoon worthiness was that I could approach any of the most attractive people in the joint and close to none would reject my approach. Not saying they all wanted to bed down on the spot (most did), but almost never a rude rejection. So that's what I mean as SWOON worthy. A very high level of desirability.
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I wouldn't use a communal women's toilet but there are situations where using a one person women's toilet is perfectly OK. Like when the men's toilet is broken or in more than peeing use and nobody is waiting for it. Sure I have done. I don’t like it only because of the fear of dirty looks when exiting.
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Wow. Marriage equality appears to be coming soon. If so the obvious big uestion will be whether foreigners married to same sex Thais will be allowed to get marriage extensions.
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The captives are assets to get leverage. That's why the Hamas terrorist scum is keeping them alive. As soon as they think their value is gone they'll murder them. Ironically they're treating the captives better than their own people that they use as human shields.
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Troll bait ignored
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Deflection
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Know thyself Jeff. We see you.
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Funny. According to you Jewish Israel is especially chosen to commit national suicide like no other country would ever be expected to do.