Mark1969

A lot of people don't like the idea because they get their energy from other people. Usually, they have learned to take in more then they give out (unless it's a balanced relationship). A person who is building their own energy for themselves is very threatening to those who are accustomed to siphoning off energy from others. They will need to either find other victims, learn to harness their own energy or find a suitable partner that gives as much as they receive.

Agreed. Better to just use the roof or a stairwell next time and skip the playing house part.

Whore's don't usually let other guys in. It was someone who was not clear what she was. The other guy was not clear what their relationship was. That caused problems. The Thai's have this kind of boundry issue in many areas. They don't set boundries and limits and just kind of become an extension of the other person, or an extention of what they think you want them to be.

That does actually worry me. Many of these women are sleeping with practically anybody. It vastly increases your chances of disease even if condoms are used. I don't really hate the guy. The problem here was an unfaithful woman.

He seemed to be some sort of jaded boyfriend who she convinced to wait out on the balcony while I left is my guess. Or, maybe he knew someone was there but thought I had already left. If he knew I was actually in the bathroom I would think he would have tried to get me out of there before just hanging around inside the house. Maybe what happened is he knew someone was over somehow, then freaked out when he saw me come out of the bathroom.

You're probably just not real observant. Take a look around you right now. You can probably find at least three different people staring right at you. Ask yourself why they are staring at you and why you should care what they are thinking.

I think quoted costs are just an estimate. Similar to a car repair, they quote an usual amount, but if the repair takes longer then expected or there are other issues the final cost can increase. If you decline an increase you can tow it away. In a hospital scenario, a revised estimate is given at the conclusion, not as the treatment is happening, since it's a health issue. I don't think they can intern you in the hospital for non payment. Isn't it a civil dispute? 66k baht is not a lot in that situation if the rest was covered. I would consider that fortunate. That's the deductible I had on my insurance before I would be treated at all.

Yes, it does. It's called looking ssshhhiiittt usually. People do it to distract you, because they want something, anger, envy, etc or for all kinds of reasons. It's usually because they want some sort of response back. It could also be positive, goodwill, etc. Whatever that energy is, it's getting transmitted to you mostly through eye contact. We are talking about odd prolonged looking, not just casual glances.

You're lucky you did not meet him in that derelict building. He may have wanted the arse.

He was out on the balcony when I exited the bathroom towards the front door. He lunged at me from behind the drapes as I was crossing the room and fell over the coffee table. It look like an emotional outburst, but it could have been him waiting there in a surprise attack. Not sure, it happened so quickly. Not a controlled movement, it was an agitated quick outburst. It was a large guy so he was probably kind of clumsy, not very agile. Down the elevator, then hiding in the pool garden for a bit before final exit.

It's not just looking or seeing me or glancing over, it's people that notice me then appear to want to interact, or that are kind of eliciting like they want a response back. For example, nodding or maintaining direct eye contact, or kind of just noticing me but not moving on and lingering and being in my way in a strange manner. I have no problem being in a large crowd where I'm left alone.

Not if they touch or rape. You fight.

I realize that. However, I think at some level I feel responsible for responding or reacting in some way and that's why it bothers me, or why it distracts me at all. I'm not sure why, it could be social norms, upbringing or other things. It could be similar to what scammers look for, people who feel obligated to explain, listen to a message or respond in some way. I would be the last person to be scammed though, so it may be something entirely different.

I think I'd rather buy a place with acreage and a nice iron fence around it or a moat. I'm an outdoor guy and don't like blinds or being indoors much. Hopefully, you won't come around knocking, or if you make up an excuse to do so you just get a big nothing burger and I never know about it.

I want to be invisible because I find other people's energy draining and distracting. I can't "hear" my true will when it's mixed together with someone needing something or wanting to connect for some reason. When that happens my energy and attention is directed towards them and not me, or it's directed on just something other then my own goals and needs.

That's one thing I forgot to mention. Thai's don't seem to do it with other Thai's in a lot of situations. It's more just incognito interactions. I have suspected for some time that I'm doing something to elicit the approach in some way that other people don't get. For example, perhaps I'm vibing an avoidance which causes others to approach because they feel I need something, need help, or whatever. Or, they know I speak english and they don't so they get nervous about me being there, so it sends off a weird connection about a possible question or something.

There are people out there that just seem do it naturally. It's not a training issue for them.

Probably not 100%. There are spycraft techniques people use to remain largely invisible, go around unnoticed, etc. That's what I was getting at. A grey man theory, but just the mental stuff, not so much clothing, etc. Usually that's about blending in, acting as normal as possible and not being remembered. I wanted to take it a step further and not be noticed at all.

Please learn to do things on your own. It's the best way to get things done correctly.

That's an approach. I want invisibility.

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They don't usually say. They just gain my attention through eye contact, facial expression or being to close in personal space. I can just keep walking but the interaction/distraction has already occurred. That's the same as someone asking for something in that it diverts me energy into a distraction I don't want.

Being a nutter attracts a lot of attention. I want to move through people and areas unnoticed (invisibility), not just unapproached...