I know exactly what you're talking about. My wife comes from a family of 10, 6 males and 4 females. All her brothers have very little and get bombed out on Lao Kaow every night. Their male friends do exactly the same. They live in the countryside out of Korat. I used to go there 3-4 times every year to suit her indoors. Now I refuse to go stating my age when driving. In reality the place gets to me. I'm only from ordinary class myself. I came from a working class area and worked on the docks all my working life. In saying that, even the scum bags in the area where I came from had far more class than the Isarn ferals. May I add, her brothers treat me well, maybe it's because I used to buy them several bottles of the high octane booze that they drink. Anyway 2 have seen the light in the past 6 months as they've gone to Buddha forever. They both have wives and 6 kids between them. I've flatly refused to supply them with any financial assistance.