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Well, worse I think Jingthing, it might confirm some suspicions that we are most likely not "real" or "proper" people. (only in some, I hasten to add)
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I don't use the word "atheist" in a conversation with Thais, as most don't even know what it is (newsflash: most Christians don't either), so I simply say: "I have no religion". I then either get a friendly nod, or people would ask a few more question to explain, but after a few sentences the chapter is closed and everything goes back to normal... In other words, they just take me as I am and leave me alone.
Now... guess what happens if I tell a Christian that I have no religion or.. god forbid I use the A-word? I saw people dropping their jaws down to the ground and faces that looked like the end is near, followed by unbelievable stupid comments such as: "So you're worship satan?", or "How can you be a moral person w/o god?" , "But you're such a nice person" [facepalm] and the freakiest so far: "So you're a free mason"? The last one came from someone from the Philippines, and I had to dig hard to find any link to the whole free masons thing.
The problem is when you say that in thai. In Thai "I dont have a religion" is like calling yourself an immoral being. You'd typically hear it being used in anger against some absent party, who has done something so bad as to warrant being complained about above and beyond the usual "hes such a bad guy". Its like calling someone an animal, almost (but not quite).
ไม่มีศาสนา - mai mee saat sa naa (no have religion- gasp!)
I think better to get around it by saying "I am a student of (monk) philosophy"
The word for which isปรัชญา (pbrat-yaa) and does not mean western analytic philosophy, but is enough of a meaning, in my experience to stop further questions about superstitious belief. While also having the added benefit of making you look smart and respectable and, most useful, of high morality.
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Like many words, the meaning changes with the age of the person hearing it.
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slightly more serious than a girlfriend, slightly less serious than a fiance. If a man uses it to describe his girlfriend, it normally means she is (1) listening and (2) angry with him about something.
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Well, you have to be something. I have thai friends who are atheist and in one case he was refused an ID card unless he wrote a religion on it, and in another case he actually managed to get a "-" or something for religion.
So, in the Thai mindset, if you must have a religion, then what is the white religion? Christianity, of course! (Jesus was white didn't you know? So is God, too. He's also a man. Lives in the clouds and everything. Pretty cool actually. So.. see you at church?)
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Its a non question for me and my "young male" friends. None of us will be getting married legally speaking. The trend I see now is engaged for the longest time with perhaps some non legal ceremony.
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The least likely are the items you are concerned about. More likely (by quite some margin of probability) is one of about 15 boring technical issues that can and do exist on such networks as those typical found serving apartment internet access. Majority of which you have no control over.
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You have constructed your question in such a way that we have no choice other than to recommend you come and teach in Bangkok. So, see you soon then.
I think you already know the answer- 4 years in Bangkok on the resume will look suspicious to a great many serious western employers. To others, it will not. The risk is there with this particular city unlike so many others.
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Im not a doctor but my father had the same issue (not involving travelling) and eventually he was given thyroid meds which solved it. If you already know you have thyroid issues dont underestimate what neglecting the meds might do to your energy levels.
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So, hang on. You mean you cleaned up, and then everyone else just started copying you? It honestly sounds like youre only telling part of the story. The world doesnt usually work that way
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Is this the perennial sudden death syndrome which affects young asian men particularly badly?
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LA is interesting, that ping is a bit out of whack with your results.
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Its been years since I had a tourist visa so my knowledge is very out of date. Is it still easy enough to get a 90 day tourist visa from pretty much anywhere, or is there a place recommended or places to avoid?
Many thanks in advance
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This thread has been nominated for the "Best of ThaiVisa 2013".
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no tax..!
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This is all because SCAD lacked funding and had to close, right?
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OK, Chicog.
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You've identified her yourself as a sociopath and yet you still expect her thoughts and actions to be non-sociopathic. Why?
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You should lower your expectations, it is 'domestic' even if she is an ex girlfriend from a year ago.
If you do not have a policeman who likes you or considers you important somehow, then you won't be able to get around this.
As soon as you mentioned "girlfriend" anything you report however vaguely relevant will be seen through the eyes of "domestic" and therefore you should expect very little legal action from the police. Completely forget about her being arrested or her house raided for your property etc etc..
You should not try to buck against this Thai way. You should play along- meet with her, with a policeman at the station, bring a senior member of your own family or parent, or work senior Thai, ask her to bring her parent or similar, be polite, speak calmly, and work out an agreement and expect it will be a compromise and you will have to give some of your stuff or money to her in order to get the most of it back.
Or, sit down at a bar, laugh at the situation, and feel lucky you only ever saw her wave that knife.
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Because the OP, for whatever reason, is only going to keep having issues with malware and virii if he continues to use windows at his current level of experience and understanding. For example, he asks if it might be OK to ignore it.
Rather than try and bring him up to the level where he can avoid this issues and solve them for himself, I would suggest removing such issues from the equation entirely.
I have used the same philosophy with my own friends, family and even staff with good results.
Although, if you have enough free time to commit to the responsibility of your own suggestion, then all the best to you as you guide him through using hbcd.
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Random ones, I admit I could put more effort into it, but it's not a priority. Once of those things. However I did once go to a temple in Korat which is famous for being a place to send the alcoholic father in law etc, which have controversial but highly effective techniques which include making their guests vomit regularly.. the "abbot" there is well known, I forget the name (am useless with names) and I had a conversation with him.
But I think, if one has to go and find one out and go to such lengths to research their specialisation or reputation then one is no longer talking about monks, but rather academics.
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Small town in the West vs Bangkok. I still can't believe it. Perhaps we could remove the sidewalks and if not, crowd them with vender carts and scooters and what not. Perhaps we could park the cars all askew and pay no attention to traffic or parking signs. A couple of truckloads of litter would help. A bunch of wires overhead running all askew would fit in. Import some polluted air. Put some unknown crap (literally) in the water and perhaps some in the street. Import some food of unknown origin and chemical content. Get a bunch of dogs and rats to roam the streets. Show no respect for other drivers or pedestrians. Worry about the wiring in your new house, and put in a septic or sewer system that won't drain properly. Put some loudspeakers in the streets to mimic the noise...
Idaho's pretty nice...
Those pics do look nice, and I found your post about replicating the feel of Bangkok in one of them very funny.
//epic attachment fail.
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consider installing ubuntu - ubuntu.com - its easier than windows to download and can be installed from within windows. This will solve both your problems as:
1) You will retain ALL your data
2) The presence of the virus (and all the others that particular one usually bundles with) will no longer matter as cannot affect ubuntu.
Ubuntu looks and feels familiar to most windows users.
You will then have the chance to go through your data, sanitise bits you want and delete the rest, at your leisure.
All without snooping repairshop guys
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Sabaijai, and anyone else, who has met and discussed something with an "insightful" monk, would you please mind sharing what was discussed and why you enjoyed it?
I am genuinely interested. Its the kind of experience I would like to have myself but have repeatedly failed. Perhaps it is me!
Where Can Expat Female Have Fun?
in ASEAN NOW Community Pub
Posted · Edited by OxfordWill
In charity to the spirit rather than the letter of your question, I would suggest you check out, in no particular order:
Bash club (suk soi 11)
Climax (suk soi 11)
Demo club (thong lo soi 10) ***
Wip (end of thong lo by bridge, inside liberty building) ***
Mixx nightclub (bottom floor of .. whatever that hotel is. Most taxi drivers know it)
Spoon club (ratchadaa, between soi 4/6) *** (!)
Narz club (sukhumvit soi 23, go past cowboy entrance, take first right, then as road begins to turn left, go right into carpark and you will see two clubs, one behind the first one is Narz (dont go into first one- not the kind of place you want)) (!)
Glow bar - suk 23, go past cowboy, take first right, then first left and 15 metres on the left
*** = Predominantly Thai and therefore less tolerant of non-Thai values
(!) = substances often in use
Theres are plenty more which would accept a more "liberated" kind of female night out, but frankly, none as liberated as you mention. Like many people have warned you, its really not safe to show your bum or breast in any thai club, including brothel bars, and speaking as a guy one year younger than you and from the same part of the world, I would find it really offputting (I realize, you are not out to impress me!)