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Thai hotel wedding disrupts British woman's three-day stay

A British woman has described how a three-day wedding at a five-star hotel in Thailand disrupted what she had expected to be a peaceful break after a long flight.

Angela Epstein, journalist from Manchester, said she and her husband arrived to blue skies, spacious rooms and sea views, but soon discovered that a large destination wedding was under way. The celebration included lawn games, an MC using a loudspeaker and, later, drunk guests and a DJ set.

She said the noise began while they were at breakfast on their first day, with a "relentlessly chirpy" master of ceremonies calling out: "Are you having FUN?"

A wedding guests had not expected

Epstein said hotel management sent a letter advising that a wedding was taking place and that some areas could be unavailable. It ended with the message: "thank you for your understanding".

She argued that guests should be warned before booking when a wedding or private event is likely to dominate a hotel stay, particularly after they have travelled long distances and have little practical option to move elsewhere.

Destination weddings have become increasingly popular, including in Thai beach and resort locations. For foreign visitors and expats planning a quiet staycation, the issue is worth considering before paying a non-refundable rate.

Hotels may list the possibility of on-site events in their terms and conditions, but guests can also contact the property directly before booking. Asking whether any weddings, corporate functions or exclusive-use events are scheduled during the stay can provide a clearer answer than relying on a general booking description.

What guests can ask for

Epstein said she complained immediately and requested a remedy. In her case, the Thai hotel removed charges for all extras during the wedding period, including lunches, dinners, drinks and a spa treatment.

She said, however, that she would have preferred quiet rather than compensation.

For Thailand-bound travellers, the practical lesson is to seek written confirmation of planned events, especially at smaller beach resorts or properties promoted as wedding venues.

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17 August 2026

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JohnO958 Apprentice Member

JohnO958

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7 hours ago, jacko45k said:

I needed her last night to talk to a table of Chinese at the restaurant I was in!

What you going to do, hotels will try and squeeze a few guests around such parties.....they seemed to have at least tried to appease the lady.

Anyone who had all those extras comped is an ingrate - BOO”Freaking”HOO - Caveat Emptor!! 🤣😂🎉

unblocktheplanet Star Member

unblocktheplanet

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6 hours ago, ChipButty said:

If you think a wedding is bad, wait until a film crew take over the whole hotel for a week, it's happened to us twice in Goa,

Happened to me once...in Holland Park! Expensive hotel. We got to meet the actors, watch the scenes, even booze with some at night. It was actually great fun. I did not feel taken advantage of.

unblocktheplanet Star Member

unblocktheplanet

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If you want peace and quiet, do NOT come to Thailand! Thai's noise tolerance is astounding. In the Capital, you'll hear the constant scream of motorcycles and the shrill of whistles. Upcountry, enjoy parties for every possible excuse with the speakers way up.

Live with it, buy chainsaw earmuffs (as I have), tune it out. Or go home.

Perhaps the only solution to the situation would be to take all the free amenities offered, hedge for a discount on the room and join the wedding party. Dancing, champagne, why not?

Are we having FUN yet?

cynic1 Silver Member

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I think this might raise more comments;

"Epstein said hotel management sent a letter advising that a wedding was taking place and that some areas could be unavailable. It ended with the message: "thank you for your understanding".

A "letter"? A letter is defined as postal mail.

Being a motel it must be the first in the world to not use email contact or alerting potential customers, on their booking web?

Do they have something to hide about what they did not do to protect from potential refund? Especially, when Angela said they did not warn people or her before she booked?

Plus wasn’t this annoying wedding for Angela a three day event? A previous commentor stated it was a one day.?

ThailandGuy Advanced Member

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4 hours ago, ikke1959 said:

Thai parties a terrible as the noise is over the top, during the day and night. The woman in the BTS stated that Thai people don;t make noise, but in my surroundings there is almost every day a party, festival, market or I don't know, but the basses and screaming is being heard, and now I heard that the neighbours started to complain too.


Correct. If someone can make a lot of noise it is the Thai. Especially when they get drunk. They do not have any control or inhibitions and do not think about what impact this has on the rest. I have been there many times and i always am flabbergasted that they talk that loud to each other even when they are standing only half a meter apart as if they are freaking deaf! There are no limits on their own, but there are many limits and outrages when others do exactly the same. "Sanook" is only for the Thai?

Jiggo Gold Member

Jiggo

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Should ban Weddings anyway

Somnambulist Silver Member

Somnambulist

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It happened to me in Mexico once I forget what town it was. It was a wedding celebration. They were all dancing and locked up at 4 AM and I could feel the base up on the fourth floor. I think it was a holiday Inn and what really pissed me off is that I stayed there because they had staff at the airport inviting me to stay there even though they knew it was going to be impossible to sleep. They moved me to a new room that was just as bad and in the morning they didn’t wanna know about it.

scorecard Star Member

scorecard

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4 hours ago, Liverpool Lou said:

Using your same logic, the destination wedding guests could also have spent the days away from the hotel, perhaps at the beach.

What beach? This is in Chiang Mai.

sambum Ruby Member

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"Epstein said she complained immediately and requested a remedy. In her case, the Thai hotel removed charges for all extras during the wedding period, including lunches, dinners, drinks and a spa treatment."

Open invitation to "balloon chasers" looking for dates that hotels that are having weddings!

sambum Ruby Member

sambum

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1 hour ago, cynic1 said:

I think this might raise more comments;

"Epstein said hotel management sent a letter advising that a wedding was taking place and that some areas could be unavailable. It ended with the message: "thank you for your understanding".

A "letter"? A letter is defined as postal mail.

Being a motel it must be the first in the world to not use email contact or alerting potential customers, on their booking web?

Do they have something to hide about what they did not do to protect from potential refund? Especially, when Angela said they did not warn people or her before she booked?

Plus wasn’t this annoying wedding for Angela a three day event? A previous commentor stated it was a one day.?

I don't think the wediing was for Angela!!! 😄

Edited by sambum

Liverpool Lou Star Member

Liverpool Lou

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43 minutes ago, scorecard said:
5 hours ago, Liverpool Lou said:

Using your same logic, the destination wedding guests could also have spent the days away from the hotel, perhaps at the beach.

What beach? This is in Chiang Mai

The beach that mfd101, to whom I was responding, referenced, ask him! Maybe the beach that was shown in the OP photographs, the OP that did not mention the hotel being in Chiang Mai.

Edited by Liverpool Lou

Sigmund Gold Member

Sigmund

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(edited)

Hope she slams the establishment on social media. That would be the best retaliation and the comment to be removed only once the sojourn is fully refunded. Of course, the postings to be made only once she leaves the country.

Edited by Sigmund

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