British expat, 39, found hanged in luxury Phuket house

[NamKangMan]

On 10/17/2017 at 4:44 AM, cyberfarang said:

Making a blind stab in the dark and after reading the report, I would say this is a suicide.

The old song comes into mind; After The Ball Is Over.

 

After the ball is over,
After the break of morn –
After the dancers' leaving;
After the stars are gone;
Many a heart is aching,
If you could read them all;
Many the hopes that have vanished
After the ball.

 

Meaning; they want to prolong the taste of the good life but circumstances dictate otherwise. It`s all very tragic and sad.

 

 

Most likely suicide, but my question is, what STARTED him down that path????

 

Is it POSSIBLE he just bought a property in his wife's name, and was then told by his wife the marriage was over????

 

It's not like it hasn't happened before, is currently happening, and will continue to happen in Thailand.

 

Edited November 3, 2017 by NamKangMan

[LivinginKata]

3 hours ago, NamKangMan said:

 

Most likely suicide, but my question is, what STARTED him down that path????

 

Is it POSSIBLE he just bought a property in his wife's name, and was then told by his wife the marriage was over????

 

It's not like it hasn't happened before, is currently happening, and will continue to happen in Thailand.

 

 

Can't say I ever read any report that the house was owned or rented. I might have missed that.

 

Or are you just speculating NKM =  trolling   

[cm662]

 
Most likely suicide, but my question is, what STARTED him down that path????
 
Is it POSSIBLE he just bought a property in his wife's name, and was then told by his wife the marriage was over????
 
It's not like it hasn't happened before, is currently happening, and will continue to happen in Thailand.
 

I think his wife leaving him would be a plus!

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[MaeJoMTB]

Wanted to see a photo of the wife ...... can't find one.

[NamKangMan]

11 hours ago, LivinginKata said:

 

Can't say I ever read any report that the house was owned or rented. I might have missed that.

 

Or are you just speculating NKM =  trolling   

 

Who is to say the house he bought was the house they were living in????

 

Maybe he just bought a farm, with a house on it, or bought or built a new house, in Issan. 

 

Are you denying it happens here, LIK?

[cm662]

I am amazed by the lack of knowledge and understanding about depression and what can drive someone to take their own life. 
 
Far from being a cowardly act, it is often a brave thing to do when faced by problems that appear insurmountable to that person, even if not to others.
 
Have a little sympathy please for someone who had reached the end of his tether in sad circumstances and had to end it all.

I can't believe he didn't have a friend, even just one, to call to talk to... Someone to clear his thoughts! FUKC!

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[cm662]

Yes, it solves all your problems without you having to deal with them. Where is the courageous in leaving your problems behind, not dealing with the difficulties of life and not have any feeling about how you might hurt the ones standing close to you? Just called you by going all in, didn´t I?

Suicide is for wusses! I would love to talk to his so-called friends!

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[cm662]

There are some hateful types who are sick and unwell on this site!! If you have nothing nice to say then kindly say nothing because this is a awful event as he possibly has family back who cherish their son brother sister so please have some respect! RIP young man Peace!

He probably cut all ties when he left cheerio chap - land!

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[Just Weird]

On 10/15/2017 at 11:52 AM, worgeordie said:

Police are very quick, in most cases to come up with the verdict of

suicide,there were 4 letters found but they don't say if they were

suicide letters, RIP fellow countryman,your at peace now.

regards Worgeordie

Police have not come up with a verdict of suicide in this case..."Although the death appears to be a suicide, police said they are continuing their investigation".

 

[Just Weird]

On 10/15/2017 at 12:01 PM, nev said:

Before any law establishment releases a statement stating suicide over here they should be doing more research, or does that mean they have to put in a shift 

The police did not say that in this case.

[cm662]

 
My brain certainly doesn't think like that all the time.  I'm happy here, and consider myself a positive thinker.  There's nothing wrong with seeing Phuket / Thailand, and certain Thai's, for what it really is, and what they really are.. 
 
There's a reason why they call this country "The world's brothel." 
 
You can't afford to be that naive here, and I don't mean in the monetary sense.  This thread is an example of that. 
 
Many posters seem to think the problem was all in the deceased's head.  Sure, he very well may have taken his own life, but who/what pulled the trigger? 
 
Is it not possible his problems started when he came here, and perhaps he couldn't see it until he created his own financial ruin?
 
You can personally attack me, no problem to me, but do you deny Thailand has been the financial ruin of many here, with some of those people choosing suicide over repaying debt and embarrassment???? 

FUKC getting married... Like when I got to Clark in the Philippines, and the Base's Commander hosted a "Frank Talk," some organization needs to host/throw a newcomers "Frank Talk" Party. Part warning, and part party!

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[cm662]

 
"It said he had just returned from England to HIS WIFE!." - so????  Maybe he came back to find his "wife" in bed with her "brother."  Like that has never happened.
 
"They had had no problems or arguments." - says she. 
 
Perhaps you should open your mind a little to what happens here in a lot of "relationships" and I use that term, loosely. (no pun intended) 
 

OF COURSE she says THAT! Hahahaha!

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