Getting GF to leave condo

[ravip]

On 27/03/2018 at 1:07 AM, mstevens said:

Your goal is to get her out of the condo without incident, and ensure that she will never return.

 

As she has no job, you're probably going to have to cough up some money so she can find a place to stay.  A basic room could run 5,000 baht a month and with one month's rent paid in advance and a 2-month deposit, there's 15,000 baht already.  She's going to need some money to get there and money to live on so top it up to 20,000 baht.  That way, she cannot say you threw her out on the street destitute.  OK, so she might not use the money to find a room and might instead go and stay with friends or family.  Np problem, that 20K baht is like "severance pay" and will help her to move on with her life.

 

To get her out of the condo, I'd try and get help from outside to, at the very least, act as a witness.  It could be the condo owner, someone from the condo building's management or, perhaps, someone with "authority".  The problem with that is that with other Thais there seeing her being asked to leave she will lose face and she might become unpredictable.

 

Once she is gone, change the lock and / or add another lock to the door.  Also, instruct security and management at the condo that you and her are no longer an item and under no circumstances is she allowed back in to the building for the purpose of visiting you.

 

Finally, if you engage in anything questionable such as consuming weed or anything else illegal that she knows about and which could be used against you, get rid of whatever it may be now.  A scorned woman can become unpredictable and some Thai women can become vengeful so take steps to eliminate any vulnerabilities you may have.

 

Good luck, and let us know what you do and how it goes.

 

 

On 27/03/2018 at 1:18 AM, NilSS said:

Jesus christ. Man up F F S! Tell her to fkuc off and change the locks. She can eat her stupid dog if she get's hungry.

 

On 27/03/2018 at 6:36 AM, jackdd said:

Is she with you 24 hours a day?

If she is ever not at your room, pack her stuff, put it in the Lobby with the security and instruct them to not let her inside anymore. Also tell the condo management about it so they can kick her off from the condo grounds if she doesn't want to leave but hangs out at the lobby to harass you.

Depending on how entry to the building works, ask them to deactivate her keycard.

And as somebody suggested already, change the lock, in case she wants "revenge" and ever gets access to your floor.

 

On 27/03/2018 at 8:25 AM, FritsSikkink said:

Paying 20K, why it isn't your responsibility. Who gives anything about the losing face, you will if you give her that much. 

Lovely advice and very cheap too... the way to go man go...

[ravip]

On 28/03/2018 at 8:18 AM, Dazinoz said:

Love the compassion shown by many members here on TVF. Warms my heart.

 

 

On 28/03/2018 at 8:20 AM, HLover said:

Yes, it pulls at the world wide heartstrings of the populace.

That's how the 'top-class' works and TV have them in abundance!

[Thongkorn]

2 minutes ago, ravip said:

 

That's how the 'top-class' works and TV have them in abundance!

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