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simple tax question.... yes or no if that is possible?
Give this online tax calculator a try: https://ata-outsourcing.com/calculate-your-personal-income-tax/ -
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Trump Is A Soft Target And Easy To Beat. Donny Will Lose Bigly Based On His Age Alone.
A double negative? In the words of every Thai I know, "Huh?" -
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Thailand likely detects a new, more dangerous mpox variant
1. Spreading this...where exactly ❓ 2. It's currently a non-event/non-issue and has been so for years. 3. And even IF it is spreading and becomes an issue...you without wanting a F-ing break will spread it the same chance as me wanting a F-ing break. 4. I couldn't give a F-ing 💩 less about it regardless. Every day is a risk. Life is hazardous. Nearly every aspect of Nature is out to kill us. And most of the human manufactured world is too. Constantly existing in fear and paralyzed by fear mongering of the next potential maybe/kinda/sorta bogeyman is not living life. It's life living and owning you. And that is definitely NOT for me. So I reiterate... Gimme a F-ing break❗🙂 -
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Bangkok's Best Cocktail Bars -2024
Imagine sipping a meticulously crafted cocktail while soaking in the dynamic energy of Bangkok’s nightlife. To elevate your evening, we've handpicked some of the city’s top bars that not only serve outstanding cocktails but also offer an unforgettable ambiance. Whether you're unwinding after a busy day, catching up with friends, or marking a special occasion, these venues provide the perfect setting. Each bar on our list boasts a distinctive charm, expertly mixed drinks, and the ideal atmosphere for a memorable night out in Bangkok. Top 10 cocktail bars worth visiting in Bangkok 1. COM’ON BKK Image via Phuwadech Sombatdee Address: 114 Salak Hin Alley, Rong Muang, Khet Pathum Wan, Bangkok, Thailand Opening Hours: Sunday to Thursday, 5.30PM to 0.00AM; Friday to Saturday, 5.30PM to 1.00AM How to Get There: Hua Lamphong MRT Station Reservation & Info: +66 95 861 8363 or [email protected] Pros Cons ✅ Close to the MRT ✅ Wide range of drinks ✅ Quality live music ✅ Good deals ✅ Breathtaking sunset view ❌ No parking area ❌ Extended service duration Pros Cons ✅ Close to the MRT ✅ Wide range of drinks ✅ Quality live music ✅ Good deals ✅ Breathtaking sunset view ❌ No parking area ❌ Extended service duration Image via Phuwadech Sombatdee Perched high above the city with stunning sunset views, this rooftop bar is the perfect blend of exquisite dining and delightful cocktails in a cozy, romantic atmosphere. It’s an ideal destination for a date night or celebrating special moments. Indulge in a lychee-infused cocktail for a sweet hint of romance as you watch the sun dip below the horizon, or explore their selection of craft beers for something different. The garlic herb shrimp with rice is a must-try, bursting with flavor and perfectly complementing the drinks. Occasionally, live music adds to the ambiance, making your visit even more memorable. What people think (4.8 stars out of 5 stars, 419 reviews) Chanakan Chaidaroon: “Nice atmosphere and drinks. Good Thai and Western live music. Especially if you prefer a chilling night out somewhere with less crowds. Watching sunset from the rooftop and the lights along the street withing neighbor is recommended. The staffs are friendly and nice, even though they are quite busy.” Thanat Jatuphattharachat: “A secret bar near Hua Lam phong. The food is better than you’d expect. The Pork knuckle with a thin, crispy skin is a must. I like the Umeshu (Plum wine) here; it has a nice sweet taste unlike what I have had before. The entrance is a bit disorganised. Hopefully, they can make some improvements.” 2. SALOON ARI Image via saloon.ari Facebook Page Address: 21 Suthisarn Winitchai Road, Samsen Nai, Phaya Thai District, Bangkok 10400, Thailand Opening Hours: Tuesday to Friday, 6.00PM to 2.00AM How to Get There: Walk 500 m from Saphan Khwai BTS Station Reservation & Info: +66 64-561-9246 or Line: @saloonaribkk Visit them on: Pros Cons ✅ Great atmosphere ✅ Delicious cocktails ✅ Good services ❌ Higher Prices ❌ Crowded during peak hours ❌ Limited food options A newly opened two-story bar in Ari-Saphan Kwai. This bar offers you exquisite choices of food and drinks with its creatively designed signature cocktails and savoury dishes. This place is such a perfect hangout spot for those seeking a nice bar aside from the Ekkamai-Thonglhor area. Their cocktails (THB 380 to 450 each) are delicately decorated with florals, flawlessly matched to the colour of each glass. They are very demure and very mindful. Signature cocktails. Image via routeen website In addition to their exceptional and creative cocktails, this rooftop bar also offers a menu of appetizing dishes that are simply irresistible. Each dish is carefully crafted to provide a culinary experience you won’t forget. Among the must-try options are the Wagyu Marrow Fried Rice (THB 320), a rich and flavorful dish that elevates the traditional fried rice with premium ingredients, and the Chicken Confit with Yuzu Red Wine Sauce (THB 280), which combines tender, slow-cooked chicken with a tangy, aromatic sauce. These two dishes are highly recommended and are sure to enhance your dining experience. Image via saloon.ari Facebook Page What people think (4.8 stars out of 5 stars, 181 reviews) nice ncd: “The atmosphere is perfect for a date! Everything is just right—music, singers, delicious food, and great prices. It’s also easy to get to since it’s right by the BTS. If you’re in the area, I highly recommend stopping by. The mood is just amazing!” LeoverySexy: “It’s a chill spot with a relaxed atmosphere. The place is beautifully designed and comfortable, with a friendly vibe. The staff is lovely, and you can join in and sing along with the performers. The cocktails are delicious. I like that you can have a conversation on the second floor while still hearing the live music, but if you want to fully immerse yourself in the live music experience, the first floor is the place to be.👌🏻” 3. Uniek’ A.M. Image via Uniek A.M. Facebook Page Address: 150/2 Lat Phrao Rd., Bangkok, Thailand Opening Hours: Wednesday to Monday, 5.00PM to 1.00AM How to Get There: Phahon Yothin MRT Station Reservation & Info: +66 65 397 4987 or [email protected] Visit them on: Pros Cons ✅ Unique concept ✅ excellent Cocktails ✅ Stylish ambiance ❌ Slower service during peak hours ❌ Limited space ❌ Limited food menu One of the good bars around Lad Phrao. With retro-style decorations and unique infused cocktails, it is the go-to bar for someone who is looking for a nice bar to sit back and chill alone or with some friends. Summer Samba, a cocktail infused with mango, is the recommended cocktail. Besides their cocktails, the food is delicious too. Image via Uniek A.M. Facebook Page What people think (4.9 stars out of 5 stars, 17 reviews) Quentin Huber: “Lovely gem hidden in Ladprao! If you are around you must come and try their fantastic cocktails & delicious dishes. Loved the decor, the service, everything is so on point! Will come back for sure.” Pia Suwannalert: “If you prefer a place with a DJ playing music rather than live bands, I recommend this spot. The food is delicious, and the DJ’s playlist is great. The restaurant accepts cash, QR code payments, and credit cards. A major plus is that it’s very close to the subway—just a 2-minute walk from MRT Phaholyothin, Exit 1; turn right to walk towards Soi Ladprao 4. The restaurant has two floors. Besides the DJ music, the highlight is likely the cocktails, though they also offer beer, craft beer, and wine.” 4. PengYou Cuisine & Speciality Bar Image via PengYou Cuisine & Speciality Bar Facebook Page Address: 99 Rama 9 Soi 41 (Seri 9 Road), Bangkok, Thailand Opening Hours: Sunday to Thursday, 11.00AM to 10.00PM; Friday to Saturday, 11.00AM to 11.00PM How to Get There: Phra Ram 9 MRT Station Reservation & Info: +66 61-161-1682 or Line OA: @pengyou (reservation required) Visit them on: Pros Cons ✅ Creative cocktails ✅ Delicious foods ✅ Convenient location ❌ Slower service for buffet ❌ Lack of diversity of food ❌ Pricey This Chinese restaurant is not only known for its exceptional Chinese cuisine but also for its unique and innovative cocktails. Each cocktail is infused with spices or ingredients inspired by Chinese culinary traditions, adding an extra layer of authenticity and flavor. One standout cocktail is garnished with mala spice powder, offering a bold and spicy twist. For those who want to indulge, the restaurant offers a free-flow cocktail package for THB 890++ per person. This package allows you to enjoy unlimited cocktails for two hours, available from Tuesday to Sunday between 6:00 PM and 10:00 PM. It's the perfect way to explore their creative drink menu while enjoying a flavorful Chinese meal. Image via PengYou Cuisine & Speciality Bar Facebook Page They also serve traditional Chinese dishes like dim sum, which are a must-try alongside their signature cocktails. With delicately curated ingredients, these dishes will elevate your dining experience to the next level. Image via PengYou Cuisine & Speciality Bar Facebook Page What people think (4.7 stars out of 5 stars, 287 reviews) Korn KnightZ: “In the evening, Pen You transforms into a Specialty Bar with a wide range of intriguing drinks. Many of their signature cocktails are crafted with a very stylish touch, perfect for a relaxed evening. For example, the ‘Forever PengYou’ cocktail is beautifully presented in a clear teapot, with a rich flavour that you can easily sip with friends. They also offer a creatively designed cocktail that features a touch of mala and Hong Kong-style pork slices. Each menu item is designed with great flair. If you’re looking for a quality restaurant with delicious food and a great atmosphere, highly recommend.” 5. Apéro Image via Apéro, Bar & Restaurant Address: 7th Floor, Vega Building, 4 Soi Soonvijai, Phetchburi Tat Mai Road, Bangkok, Thailand Opening Hours: Tuesday to Sunday, 10.00AM to 11.00PM How to Get There: Khlong Tan Railway Station Reservation & Info: +66 65 729 7992 or Line @aperobkk Visit them on: Pros Cons ✅ Nice view ✅ Stylish cocktails ✅ Friendly service ❌ Noisy during busy times ❌ Limited space ❌ Higher price This café and bar combines chic design with an incredible atmosphere, making it a must-visit spot. Despite its stylish and modern decor, it retains a warm and cozy vibe that invites you to relax and unwind. Apéro is the ideal place to enjoy evening cocktails while taking in stunning views of the sunset or the sparkling Bangkok skyline at night. The menu features a carefully curated selection of gourmet dishes, such as pesto pasta and beef carpaccio, offering a perfect pairing for their creative signature cocktails. These drinks are crafted with high-quality ingredients, ensuring a delightful and memorable experience in a setting that beautifully blends style and comfort. Image via Apéro Facebook Page What people think (4.7 stars out of 5 stars, 37 reviews) Araya: “The cocktails are excellent, the service is well-managed with staff constantly on the move, and the view is beautiful—perfect for taking stunning photos.” Ratchawan Huang: “The atmosphere is great, the food is delicious, and the drinks are excellent. You should definitely check it out.” 6. Vesper Cocktail Bar Image via Vesper Facebook Page Address: 10/15 Sala Daeng 2 Alley, Silom, Bang Rak, Bangkok 10500, Thailand Opening Hours: Daily, 5.30PM to 1.00AM How to Get There: Sala Daeng BTS Station Reservation & Info: +66 82 569 8583 or [email protected] Visit them on: Pros Cons ✅ Great presentation of cocktails and food ✅ Great tunes ✅ Proper service ❌ Crowded during peak hours ❌ Limited seats ❌ Pricey Vesper Cocktail Bar, named after the iconic martini from the James Bond series, has earned a stellar reputation for its outstanding cocktails and has been recognized as one of Asia’s best bars. Recently, the bar has reached new heights under the guidance of its new bar manager, Federico Balzarini, who has introduced an updated menu that enhances Vesper's already unique offerings. Balzarini’s approach brings bold and innovative ingredient combinations to the forefront, making the cocktail experience at Vesper more exciting than ever. Conveniently located near Sala Daeng BTS Station in Silom, Vesper is a prime spot for a lively night out or a memorable date. Whether you're a cocktail enthusiast or just looking for a stylish venue to enjoy your evening, Vesper continues to stand out as one of Bangkok’s top destinations for a sophisticated night on the town. What people think (4.5 stars out of 5 stars, 939 reviews) Padchy K.: “Whenever I think about a cocktail, I always think of Vesper. The cocktails are delicious yet complex, and the presentation is stunning. I tried four different cocktails, and all of them were impressive. That day, I also ordered Iberico ham, which had a rich flavour.” Eric: “Great cocktails! There’s a drink to suit every tastebud!” 7. Gir Image via Gir Facebook Page Address: T-One Building 8, 40th Floor, Sukhumvit 40, Soi Phra Khanong, Khlong Toei District, Bangkok 10110, Thailand Opening Hours: Daily, 6.00PM to 0.00AM How to Get There: Chidlom BTS Station Reservation & Info: +66 83 236 8236 or [email protected] Visit them on: Pros Cons ✅ Great atmosphere ✅ Unique cocktails ✅ Excellent service ❌ Long queue ❌ Noise level A bar symbolises Gir National Park, the only lion’s natural habitat outside Africa. The conservation site concept inspired the menus, depicting the coexistence of man and nature. The bar’s cocktails present natural elements and decorations like rocks and leaves, giving you a nurturing atmosphere. Image via Gir Facebook Page What people think (4.5 stars out of 5 stars, 30 reviews) Julalak Sucheevajanya: “Great experience at Gir bkk!!! The atmosphere was good, and bartenders are very nice — skilled, friendly, and attentive. Highly recommend for a great night out” Nalin S: “This cocktail bar is incredibly unique. The main focus here is on cocktails, which are easy to drink and enjoyable. The atmosphere is slightly dim with soft music, making it perfect for sitting, chatting, and enjoying the nighttime view.” 8. Lennon’s Image via Lennon’s @Rosewood Address: Rosewood Bangkok, 1041, 38 Phloen Chit Rd., Lumphini, Pathum Wan, Bangkok 10330, Thailand Opening Hours: Tuesday to Saturday, 6.00PM to 0.00AM How to Get There: Phloen Chit BTS Station Reservation & Info: 02 080 0030 or sevenrooms.com Visit them on: Pros Cons ✅ Great interior ✅ Excellent music ✅ Great view ❌ Services ❌ Noise level Lennon’s is a contemporary bar that beautifully blends modern elegance with a nostalgic touch, offering a unique experience that music lovers will especially appreciate. The bar boasts an impressive collection of over 6,000 vinyl records and cassette tapes, allowing guests to immerse themselves in timeless music while enjoying their evening. As Thailand’s pioneering cocktail bar, Lennon’s draws inspiration from classic tunes and local flavors, creating a distinctive atmosphere where music and mixology meet. Under the expert guidance of Filippo Sanchi, the Director of Bars at Rosewood Bangkok, Lennon’s offers an inventive cocktail menu that includes standout creations like the whisky-based “Fly Me to the Moon,” and a refreshing drink inspired by Ravi Shankar’s legendary Woodstock performance. The combination of creative cocktails and the bar’s nostalgic vibe makes Lennon’s a must-visit destination. Guests can relax on plush leather sofas while taking in breathtaking views of Bangkok’s Central Business District from the top floors of Rosewood Bangkok. Whether you're a music aficionado or simply looking for a sophisticated spot to unwind, Lennon’s delivers a memorable experience that seamlessly merges the old with the new. What people think (4.5 stars out of 5 stars, 173 reviews) Vincent T: “Very nice cocktail place. Great atmosphere, beautiful view, good service and delicious cocktails. All cocktails had complexity and they have some really interesting ones!” Jonathan Ong: “Amazing views and cocktails. They have very interesting cocktails and are experimenting with different ingredients like brewing their own kombucha” 9. Alonetogether Bar Bangkok Image via Alone Together Bar Bangkok Address: 29 Sukhumvit 31, Klongton Nue, Watthana, Bangkok 10110, Thailand Opening Hours: Daily, 7.00PM to 1.00AM How to Get There: Asoke BTS Station or Sukhumvit MRT Staion Reservation & Info: +66 82 569 8583 or [email protected] Visit them on: Pros Cons ✅ Great jazz music ✅ Good snacks ✅ Nice interior ❌ Limited space ❌ Lack of hospitality Step into Alone Together Bangkok, a retro bar with live jazz and expertly crafted cocktails. Hidden behind a curtain of electric wires, this speakeasy-style bar from the teams behind Ku Bar and Sugar Ray focusses on great service and drinks. Anupas Kong Premanurat, known for his creative cocktails at Ku Bar, adds local twists to classics with ingredients like fresh wasabi and pomelo slushies. You should try the unique Sazerac with Bai Prong Fah. Image via the Alone Together Bangkok Facebook Page Alonetogether is not just a bar; it’s a sophisticated retreat that caters to both cocktail connoisseurs and music lovers. The venue features a cigar lounge for those who appreciate a fine smoke, as well as a vinyl listening room known as Recoroom. This space is designed for audiophiles and jazz enthusiasts, offering a curated selection of vinyl records and spectacular live jazz performances five days a week, from Wednesday through Sunday. While you're there, you can sip on classic cocktails such as the Aviation or the Godfather as you relax in the comfort of plush leather chairs. Whether you're unwinding after a long day or soaking in the smooth sounds of live jazz, Alonetogether provides a perfect blend of elegance, comfort, and nostalgia. What people think (4.2 stars out of 5 stars, 390 reviews) chanisara uengsawat: “Good cocktails!” Pattaraporn Suwanmanee: “Retro vibes. Super cozy with a live Jazz band on specific days. Their classic twisted cocktails are amazing.” 10. Truth or Dare, Langsuan Image via Truth or Dare Langsuan Facebook Page Address: 61 Lang Suan Road, Lumphini, Pathum Wan, Bangkok, Thailand Opening Hours: Daily, 6.00PM to 0.00AM How to Get There: Chidlom BTS Station Reservation & Info: +66 83 236 8236 or [email protected] Visit them on: Pros Cons ✅ Creative cocktails ✅ Good concept ✅ Nice ambiance ❌ Limited seats (reservation recommended) ❌ Strict dress code Located in the Duchess Hotel, Langsuan, this bar offers a unique and interactive drinking experience that revolves around a fun Truth or Dare concept. When you choose Truth, you’ll be served a cocktail designed to resonate with your emotions, allowing you to stay true to your feelings. On the other hand, selecting Dare challenges you and your friends to finish a series of shots, adding an element of playful excitement to your evening. In addition to these concept drinks, the bar also offers a personalized touch—you can have your picture or name printed directly on your cocktail, making it a memorable keepsake. Whether you're in the mood for a reflective drink or a daring challenge with friends, this bar at the Duchess Hotel provides a creative and enjoyable twist on the traditional cocktail experience. Image via Truth or Dare Langsuan Facebook Page Besides the cocktails, the cheese popcorn is another popular favourite among customers that you shouldn’t miss. Image via Truth or Dare Langsuan Facebook Page What people think (3.7 stars out of 5 stars, 180 reviews) chanisara uengsawat: “Good cocktails!” mini kimtae: “I like the cocktail here, creative and delicious. Nice place to hang out.” Need more bar recommendations? Check out our 10 secret hidden bars in Bangkok. -
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Trump Is A Soft Target And Easy To Beat. Donny Will Lose Bigly Based On His Age Alone.
Oh, susan, why don't you just give up and go away? Your schtick is old and lame, just like your cult leader's. -
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Thailand-Malaysia Rail Partnership Grows: Bangkok-Penang Route Approved
I wasn't aware that it was dark in that part of the world for 16 hours. Why is it easier to fly with all the <deleted> security checks and airport hassles? Train was an enjoyable experience, unlike flying. -
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Looking to buy a new SUV - any recommendations?
So why are you passing such a comment with out having proper knowledge. Byd is the worlds best electric car company not ICE car company. You mentioned that they make successful ICE cars, so name them here rather than being a keyboard commando. -
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Trump Is A Soft Target And Easy To Beat. Donny Will Lose Bigly Based On His Age Alone.
The stench of "Fox" is wafting from this post. -
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Miicrowave Oven Repair in CM...Cheaper Options?
Bought a small Haier microwave at Big C for 1700 Baht. -
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Thailand-Malaysia Rail Partnership Grows: Bangkok-Penang Route Approved
That's you. I enjoyed every trip I did on the train in LOS. Much preferred to flying. -
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Going short-time only, shallow or succulent?
18 myths on prostitution TOGETHER FOR A EUROPE FREE FROM PROSTITUTION “Prostitution is the oldest Profession in the world.” Let us change the perspective: pimping could indeed be considered the oldest profession in the world. In any case, just because something has existed for a long time does not mean that it should or cannot be changed. We do not say “murder has been around forever: we cannot do anything about it”. Look at death penalty or slavery for example. A ChoiCe? “it is A job like Any other.” Do you know any other job where people face a mortality rate 10 to 40 times above the average? Where 60 to 80% of “workers” experience regular physical and sexual abuse? If this is a job like any other, how come so few women from Western Europe take the opportunity? How come the overwhelming majority are migrant women? Does this mean that this so called “job” is only for the foreign women in your country? For the sake of gender equality, should we campaign to promote this job for men? There are trade unions in Europe that do not see prostitution as a job as it is incompatible with the safety and the dignity, as well as the “career” progression, associated with a profession. “Prostitution brings women eConomiC indePendenCe, esPeCiAlly to migrAnt women.” In times of economic crisis, with high unemployment, with thriving racist attitudes, it would be very easy to say that prostitution is a solution for women in general, and for migrant women in particular. It would even help to reduce unemployment rates! Real issues for migrant women are about: labour market access, qualification recognition and family reunification rights. Economic independence should not come at the cost of harm and abuse. In the 21 st century, we have to do better. “it is A ChoiCe.” “If women had more economic choices in this society, they would not choose to be abused in prostitution”, says Fiona Broadfoot, survivor from the UK. Choice is always related to a context. Today in Europe, gender equality is not a reality: just look at the gender pay gap (16%), the prevalence of violence against women (1 in 5 women victim of domestic violence), sexist stereotypes, underrepresentation of women in business, academia and politics (24% of national parliamentarians)… In a context where many women face discrimination, poverty and violence, consent can be bought with money. Extensive research indicates that poverty, family loss, homelessness, drug addiction and a history of physical and sexual abuse combine to make young women vulnerable to entering prostitution. Moreover, the majority of women who enter prostitution first do so very young. Would you want your daughter or sister to choose prostitution? She could start tomorrow. “Prostitution brings A lot of money.” To whom? According to Interpol in Europe, a pimp earns 110 000 euros per year and per woman in prostitution. If prostitution were such a good job, how come the majority of women in prostitution do not own a car, an apartment or save money for the future? The idea that prostitution brings a lot of money is a myth. Moreover, debating on the amount of money earned in prostitution is a dishonest strategy: whatever the amount, prostitution is about someone buying access to your body and sexuality. Human beings are priceless. ” “ 00 100 EURO 0 “Prostitution is About sexuAl freedom, Abolition is Anti-sex.” Let us be more precise: whose sexual freedom are we talking about? Everyone agrees that sexual freedom consists of enjoying sexual health and rights, based on equality and free from any discrimination, coercion or violence (definition of the World Health Organisation). Prostitution is not about sex, it’s about power: the purchase of sex is the denial of the other person’s desire. Paying for sex is denying another person’s right to sexual desire and consists of a profound disempowering of sexual agency in another human being. In other words, buying sex from someone can never be about sexual freedom. Abolitionists are pro-sex: they want genuine sexual freedom and equality between women and men, and this cannot be achieved as long as sexuality is placed within the scope of the market. sexuAl freedom? “Prostitution is PArt of women’s historiCAl struggle to Control their body.” In the 1970s in Europe, women indeed struggled for the recognition of their reproductive and sexual rights, in particular the right to safe abortion. They were denouncing structural gender inequality and therefore any authority imposing its views on women’s human rights: religion, tradition… and the market. The commodification of sexuality and women’s bodies cannot be considered part of a collective struggle for women’s rights: prostitution is about men entitling themselves to buy sex, it is not about realising gender equality. “some women ClAim thAt it is their right to Prostitute themselves.” Some people freely accept to work for less than the minimum wage (especially undocumented migrants for example); some even agree to sell one organ. In both cases, our society has decided to protect the most vulnerable and guarantee decent life for all; in such cases, the law therefore condemns the employer, or the buyer of the organ. Similarly, the law should criminalise the sex buyer, not the person in prostitution. Some persons might indeed claim that they choose to be in prostitution; but a democratic society is not built on the basis of individual claims that don’t reflect the situation of the overwhelming majority. At stake is the future we are creating, the society we want to live in. In this day and age, we should be more concerned about women’s and men’s right not to be in prostitution. “only “sex workers” should tAlk About Prostitution, beCAuse they know best.” Should only women who have been victim of domestic violence be entitled to denounce intimate partner violence? Domestic violence is recognised as a structural form of violence against women, that affects us all, women and men, because it is about societal values. Prostitution also affects us all: it conveys norms and representations to young people, it is trivialised and even glamorised by the media and the culture industry. No wonder the insult ‘whore’ is so widespread! Moreover, for every mediatised “sex worker”, there are many survivors of prostitution, who very rarely speak out, because of the trauma linked to their experience. And millions of persons still in prostitution, who are invisible. It is time to listen to them. ” “ “Prostitution is useful for soCiety, esPeCiAlly for soCiAlly isolAted And lonely men.” Sex buyers do not fit this stereotype: international research shows that the majority of sex buyers are men married or in a relationship, and are more likely to have a larger number of sexual partners (not through prostitution) than the rest of the male population. By justifying prostitution as a social institution, one would imply that some women are to be sacrificed for the “needs” of these men. Luckily, you or your sister/wife/daughter/friend is not part of the sacrificed ones. Women in prostitution are first and foremost women; they should all enjoy the same equal rights and human dignity. “demAnd will never disAPPeAr.” What a sad vision of men…: according to this assumption, men are driven by their so-called sexual “irrepressible needs”, not by their brain. It is all the more surprising to believe, as the majority of men are not sex buyers. Demand is justified by a certain vision of masculinity, related to virility or strength, all stereotypes about men conveyed in our unequal societies. Demand can be reduced by education, prevention and legislation. It is as simple as that. Fatalism is used by people who do not want to change society. “Abolishing Prostitution would leAd to more rAPes.” Actually, it is the other way round: studies have shown that men buy sex simply because it is possible. The normalisation of prostitution on the contrary fosters acts of violence against women, by sending the social signal that women are commodities. Nevada, where pimping has been decriminalised, sees the highest rate of rape compared to the other American states. In a study on men, 54% of prostitute-users recognised having had aggressive sexual behaviour towards their partner(s). soCiAl utility? “legAlising Prostitution is the best wAy to guArAntee ACCess to bAsiC rights for PeoPle in Prostitution.” Being in prostitution is “legal” everywhere in Europe (except Croatia where it is criminalised). The issue of accessing rights is not linked to the legal status of prostitution, it is linked to the migration status of each person: if you are legally staying in a country, you can have access to basic rights, including HIV- testing and health care. If you are undocumented, you will not have access to these rights, including in countries that legalise or decriminalise prostitution; it has nothing to do with being in prostitution or not. In Germany, only 44 persons have registered as “professional sex workers”, out of the estimated 400 000 persons in prostitution. Legalising prostitution (or decriminalising “sex work” and therefore pimping) does not change the stigma on persons in prostitution. ” “ “we must CombAt trAffiCking, but Prostitution hAs nothing to do with it.” Such claims contradict the reality: if prostitution has nothing to do with sex trafficking, what exactly are women trafficked for? According to EU data, 62% of trafficking in the EU is for sexual exploitation. Trafficking is profit-driven, and has a direct link with the prostitution markets, where the demand fuels the supply. It is estimated that the benefits from trafficking for sexual exploitation amount to US$ 27.8 billion. And where does this money come from? From the buyers, like in any other business. This is why prostitution and trafficking are intrinsically linked. “with the swedish model, Persons in Prostitution fACe more violenCe As Prostitution goes underground.” I f b u y e r s c a n f i n d a n d m e e t w i t h w o m e n i n prostitution, so can the police and social workers! By criminalising sex buyers, the Swedish model changes the relationship between women and buyers: buyers are the criminals. Women in prostitution, who have been to Germany before joining Sweden, said to the Stockholm police prostitution unit that there is much more violence in legal brothels as sex buyers are entitled to do what they want, as they are the “clients”. Social workers in Sweden see that persons in prostitution feel more confident to come forward for assistance. On the contrary, in countries were brothels are legal (like Australia or Germany), service providers and law enforcement say that they have limited access to women. Legalising prostitution will not change the reality: prostitution is a form of violence. 68% of women in prostitution suffer from the symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder, like victims of torture or veterans of war. utoPiA? “we should not CriminAlise sex buyers beCAuse they CAn sAve women or identify viCtims of trAffiCking.” Maybe you have watched “Pretty woman” too many times. A sex buyer who “saves” a woman, or report a case of trafficking, is still a sex buyer. The existence of “nice sex buyers” does not reduce demand, it just comforts a romantic vision of prostitution that has nothing to do with reality. Moreover, the “nice sex buyers” are a very tiny minority among sex buyers: punters’ websites are very revealing in that perspective. Here are some quotes:“Reasonable <deleted> but just a bad attitude and making no effort to look interested or even pretend to enjoy”; “it was like <deleted> an attractive sack of spuds” (The invisible men Tumblr). “Abolitionists wAnt to Prohibit Prostitution.” There is a great difference between the prohibitionist approach, which criminalises all actors in the system of prostitution, including prostituted persons, and the abolitionist approach that targets only the buyers, pimps and traffickers, in other words those who hold the power of choice. Simply penalising everybody does not address the root causes and gendered nature of prostitution. Abolition is about qualifying the structural, economic, psychological and physical violence inherent to prostitution, and therefore protecting the persons affected, and criminalising the perpetrators, i.e. the sex buyers. Abolition is about proposing concrete alternatives to persons in prostitution and changing mentalities. “the Abolition of Prostitution is utoPiA.” Abolishing prostitution does not equal eradicating it. Rapes, murders or paedophilia are prohibited, but still exist. What is important is the social norm conveyed by legislation: it anchors amongst human rights the principle that the human body and sexuality are not for sale. It creates the conditions for a genuine equal society to be realised. ” “ the netherlAnds2 on 1 st october 2000, the netherlands lifted the ban on brothels dating back from 1911. since then, several studies from the scientific research and documentation Centre of the ministry of justice (wodC) and from the national police force (klPd) have studied the impact of the decriminalisation of pimping in the netherlands. the situAtion of Persons in Prostitution hAs worsened. • The study ‘Daalder’ 3 carried out for the Ministry of Justice unveils that: • “There has been no significant improvement of the situation of persons in prostitution”. • “The prostitutes’ emotional well-being is now lower than in 2001 on all measured aspects”. • “The use of sedatives has increased”. • Requests for leaving the industry were in high demand, while only 6% of municipalities offer such assistance. 50% to 90% of the women in liCensed Prostitution “work involuntArily”. These data were unveiled in 2008 by the national police force (KLPD) in a study on the sector of legalised prostitution entitled “Keeping up appearances”. 4 In this study, the Dutch national police force gives a very worrying assessment of the law decriminalising procuring. Direct cause of the study is the Sneep-case, where two Turkish- German procurers, together with 30 accomplices, were condemned for exploitation of and violence against more than 100 women in the Netherlands, in Germany and in Belgium. What is striking is that all the women, who have been exploited with extreme violence in the Netherlands, were in the legal, licensed, taxpaying and State sanctioned brothels. orgAnised Crime kePt the Control over the legAl seCtor of the sex industry. In 2011, a deputy mayor of Amsterdam, Lodewijk Asscher, also the new figure of the labour party in the Netherlands, stated that decriminalising procuring has been a “national error” 5 and that the government has been “reprehensibly naïve”. A report made jointly by the City of Amsterdam and the Ministry of Justice 6 shows indeed that a great part of the legal sector of the sex industry perpetuates exploitation and trafficking in human beings. Half of the permit-required businesses of prostitution and coffee shops (marijuana) have one or more managers with a criminal record. deCriminAlising ProCuring And legAlising the sex industry did not Prevent from An inCreAse in ‘hidden’ or ‘illegAl’ Prostitution. In 2010, the RIEC Noord-Holland, a government body in charge of crime prevention, unveiled in a study 7 that only 17% of the prostitution advertisements published in newspapers and on the internet are placed by licensed brothels. 1 Assessment produced with the support of Mouvement du Nid France - 2 General source: ‘On legalised prostitution in the Netherlands’, Karin W -
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NETA V - Have any members got one?
I test drove the Neta (1st generation) but I was rather underwhelmed. Unfortunately for Neta CM, their showroom is on Mahidol Road which is rather rough and bumpy and the Neta’s suspension is known to be rather soft. Also the steering wheel cannot be adjusted and the infotainment system doesn’t support Android Auto or CarPlay. One very good feature however is the V2L (vehicle to load). However some owners are very happy with their vehicle. I settled on the BYD Dolphin but it’s significantly more expensive. TOU stands for time of usage which means that there are on peak and off peak times whereby the unit price varies. https://www.pea.co.th/Portals/0/demand_response/ElectricityReconsiderNov61.pdf?ver=2019-01-25-100804-110 Check with your local PEA/MEA regarding installation and costs. There are some reports that PEA has stopped installing 2nd meters due to usage abuse. Whether you need a 2nd meter or not also depends on your current main meter. -
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Thai women fight Kuwaiti tourists in Soi Bangla, Phuket - video
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Thailand-Malaysia Rail Partnership Grows: Bangkok-Penang Route Approved
I must have imagined the train I took from Bkk to Butterworth years ago then. The track was a lot better on the Malay side of the border, but the idea that this is a "new" service is a nonsense.
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