4 hours ago, NCC1701A said:

my girlfriend apologizes all the time for little and big things. not that big of a deal.

again i get thanks for everything i do. but i hardly give her any money. 

 

i have not paid for anything to walk away from.

 

two year anniversary coming up. no arguments so far and nothing to compromise about. 

 

Fair.

I should have added my opinion based on the type of person the OPs gf seems,

going from what he told us.

 

But really, you cant deny most those things nearly always present in:

 

bargirls,

 

Isaan girls who have been told BS stories and taught racist rubbish all their life,

 

generally the poor and very poorly educated.

 

For sure it dont apply to Chinese ancestry who live in Bkk,

but really how many farangs have access to that group?

(besides some of the our highly esteemed thaivisa posters of course. lol)

 

And well, since forever, the more conservative Thai/Chinese have taught their kids to stay away from us skally-wag cheap charlie farangs..

unless we have oodles of the folding stuff (of course)

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5 hours ago, Nico100 said:

 

Theres things you must know NOT to expect from Thai lady.

1. ...

This is not true. My girlfriend do apologise, even if she don't need to, like in case of a misunderstanding due language issues.

2... 

This is not true. I don't support her or send her money, but do I get a geniuine thank you if I buy her a gift.

4....

This is not true. She always insists to talk about our issues and always ask me to tell her about my concerns, so we can clear this out.

 

And yes, she's a Thai lady too.

Maybe yours has a decent education and some Chinese ancestry!!??

 

But yes, they are always nice and polite at the start..even the bargirl!!

 

And yes, they should all have the qualities your gf has, especially when someone paying them a free way in life.

 

they should be very thankfull, but unfortunately many Issan ladies are not!

 

Ive heard about like this OPs, you could give them the world and get treated like trash in return. 

 

With all the BS you put up with, Unless you can see some basic good values in her, they are not worth it!

8 hours ago, tingtongtourist said:

For sure it dont apply to Chinese ancestry who live in Bkk,

but really how many farangs have access to that group?

(besides some of the our highly esteemed thaivisa posters of course. lol)

 

 

Yes in fact my girlfriend is half Chinese. Her dad is 100% Chinese and mom Thai.

 

Her Chinese DNA makes a huge difference. She is smart, emotionally well balanced and has self discipline.  

 

She did not speak a word of English when I met her two years ago, now she can speak enough English so we can function with simple things.

 

She has a 7 year old son, owns her own business, two houses and a pickup truck. 

 

She is also from Bangkok originally so not a farm girl.