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28 minutes ago, lee b said:

 

 

I have been screwed by a few. but i found a great girl that would die for me, so do you understand, good and bad in all. Good luck anyway.

I personally prefer girls that would rather screw me (the more times the better!) than die for me.  In fact, I'd even be generous enough to let all of her friends screw me (and maybe a sister or two), but then I am a giving  person by nature.

 

But, to each his own I suppose

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10 minutes ago, eppic said:

I personally prefer girls that would rather screw me (the more times the better!) than die for me.  In fact, I'd even be generous enough to let all of her friends screw me (and maybe a sister or two), but then I am a giving  person by nature.

 

But, to each his own I suppose

Great bravado...................but posted on a Saturday night at 2 AM , like . 

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On 7/9/2020 at 2:44 PM, Jjjjjjj said:

Im male 37 living in Europe.

What are my chances to get a normal/cute looking normal size thaiwife who is childfree?

Young, maybe max. 23 years.

None right now, unless you get one where you are.

 

As for 'normal' - assuming one means not on game, educated, works, independent - unless you speak the lingo, understand the culture, go gently, look alright, wear nice clothes and clean shoes; then NO chance!

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On 7/9/2020 at 9:28 PM, Jjjjjjj said:

Okay,

so its 50/50 chance, when reading what people tell.

 

Its funny, because thai women have reputation in internet and in ppl minds, that you can just pick a wife easily

like that, but i was thinking its not gonna be so easy.

 

Is it possible in some other country? just to get a wife back home, no hassle, nothing more ????

not sure they will like your sssssssssssstutter

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On 7/9/2020 at 9:28 PM, Jjjjjjj said:

ts funny, because thai women have reputation in internet and in ppl minds, that you can just pick a wife easily

like that, but i was thinking its not gonna be so easy.

Took me a week .........

to find one I liked the look of, another week to negotiate the purchase price and contractual details through an interpreter, then married at the end of the 3rd week on an auspicious date (Valentines day).

 

Best 100,000bht I ever spent.

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17 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

I once met a movie producer in a Pattaya bar and told him my idea for a tv series based on a Pattaya bar and each week it would deal with a different farang punter come to find the girl of his dreams.

Either he thought it wasn't worth while making or he wasn't really a movie producer, but it never happened. I still think there would be enough material for a series lasting years and years!

Indeed it's a good idea imo

but i can understand why the producer wasn't intersted, he was a Thai or a foreigner?

The bar scene isn't something you can show to the public (The face thing)

it's too ''low-so'' for being a popular sitcom in Thailand, and in the rest of

the world there is not enough people knowing Pattaya or interested by this special place.

In France for example only few movies have been done (Like Ladybar 1 and 2) with a very

little success and it was when the french were here in numbers, 10 years ago.

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1 hour ago, thaibeachlovers said:

I once met a movie producer in a Pattaya bar and told him my idea for a tv series based on a Pattaya bar and each week it would deal with a different farang punter come to find the girl of his dreams.

Either he thought it wasn't worth while making or he wasn't really a movie producer, but it never happened. I still think there would be enough material for a series lasting years and years!

Yes, a never ending soap...????????

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57 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Guys back home don't believe you anyway, no point in even talking about it.

If you try telling anyone in your home country you can have sex every night with a different attractive young woman, they just call you a liar. Most of them have only managed infrequent sex with a couple of ugly women in their entire lives (same as me before I moved here).

Why only "a different attractive young woman", I've always been told about how good sandwiches are in Thailand...:whistling:

By the way I like your comment with the three week marriage-story, but I still miss the ????-emoji in the like-panel...????

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I suspect this was just a troll post, but generally speaking yes- you can easily find a Thai girl in her early 20's to date you if you're under 40 and decent looking. And I'm not talking about hookers. Just go online and talk to girls who actually speak (write) English and have a uni degree.

 

Don't expect to marry a bar girl and take her to Europe and she'll be happy about it. They usually miss home and miss their food and miss the bars. However, there are many normal girls who actively WANT to get out of Thailand and go abroad, so this will be a win-win for both of you and result in a much better relationship.

 

You can start now online and chat with them for a few months, but keep in mind that chatting and talking in real life are completely different things. She could be a sweetheart online and turn out you totally don't match in person. The best way is for you to visit Thailand (when you can) for at least a few months and go on actual dates until you find one where there is enough chemistry/love.

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23 hours ago, kingofthemountain said:

Indeed it's a good idea imo

but i can understand why the producer wasn't intersted, he was a Thai or a foreigner?

The bar scene isn't something you can show to the public (The face thing)

it's too ''low-so'' for being a popular sitcom in Thailand, and in the rest of

the world there is not enough people knowing Pattaya or interested by this special place.

In France for example only few movies have been done (Like Ladybar 1 and 2) with a very

little success and it was when the french were here in numbers, 10 years ago.

He was an American. I think he was telling the truth about being a producer.

I agree that an American audience would have been shocked at the idea of the Thai bar scene. However, my scenario would not have dealt with mongers per se, but with farangs coming to find a wife. It would have been centered around the bar, but in a sanitised for western audiences way. The emphasis would have been on the back stories eg Nok from Buriram grew up in poverty on a rice farm and goes to Pattaya to find a farang husband and infinite variations on the theme. Bar scene would have more partying than in reality and each week would have a Thai music dance routine- If you remember the Malibu show, it would be set in a Malibu show type barbeer, with the show going on in the background. I did meet said producer while watching the Malibu show at the bar.

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21 hours ago, PingRoundTheWorld said:

I suspect this was just a troll post, but generally speaking yes- you can easily find a Thai girl in her early 20's to date you if you're under 40 and decent looking. And I'm not talking about hookers. Just go online and talk to girls who actually speak (write) English and have a uni degree.

 

Don't expect to marry a bar girl and take her to Europe and she'll be happy about it. They usually miss home and miss their food and miss the bars. However, there are many normal girls who actively WANT to get out of Thailand and go abroad, so this will be a win-win for both of you and result in a much better relationship.

 

You can start now online and chat with them for a few months, but keep in mind that chatting and talking in real life are completely different things. She could be a sweetheart online and turn out you totally don't match in person. The best way is for you to visit Thailand (when you can) for at least a few months and go on actual dates until you find one where there is enough chemistry/love.

LOL. The best looking bargirls gave up bars long ago and went on line. Uni degrees are easy to fake, and if a Thai girl speaks excellent English it's often a give away as to where she learned it.

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18 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

LOL. The best looking bargirls gave up bars long ago and went on line. Uni degrees are easy to fake, and if a Thai girl speaks excellent English it's often a give away as to where she learned it.

Did you ever meet anyone with a fake uni degree in Thailand? I know in Phillippines it happend awhile ago, but not because they wanted to get married.

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On 7/14/2020 at 4:46 PM, Tagged said:

Did you ever meet anyone with a fake uni degree in Thailand? I know in Phillippines it happend awhile ago, but not because they wanted to get married.

I never went on line to meet the girl of my dreams, so it never came up. Personally, if a potential GF had boasted of her degree I'd have dumped her on the spot. Other than things like medicine and engineering, most degrees, IMO, are a waste of time. In nursing, those with degrees were never as good, IMO, as those that trained in hospital.

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On 7/14/2020 at 11:32 AM, thaibeachlovers said:

Thai sandwiches are usually best when being discussed later. Reality is often less tasty.

However, there was a place off Sukhumvit that specialised in sandwiches that were really yummy.

That's because you need a Thai girl and a Thai ladyboy as the bread, with you as the filling.

I'm guessing you tried it with two females.

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On 7/13/2020 at 1:48 PM, PingRoundTheWorld said:

You can start now online and chat with them for a few months, but keep in mind that chatting and talking in real life are completely different things

I am in quite a peculiar situation .

I speak quite often speak toto my Thai female friend on line by way of text

But when we meet in real life , we dont speak much .

Even when shes around my house sat next to me , I usually text her 

Maybe its just a sign of the times or maybe her spoken English isnt too good ?

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6 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

That's because you need a Thai girl and a Thai ladyboy as the bread, with you as the filling.

I'm guessing you tried it with two females.

LOL. I once asked the proprietor of the sandwich shop why he didn't have both, and he said the sugar and spice didn't mix well with carrot and potatoes.

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Situational report:

Ive been thinking some things in my life, i have 2 options with women:

 

1. try to get a young philippine wife. get a online dating sites and chat to them,

try to arrange meeting, then fly there, meet those girls, allso can try to meet locals through tinder,

or talk to them face to face. maybe the online would be best, how the hell otherwise i could

dig those suitable girls from there, total luck needed.

Social class doesnt matter, only thing matters, is that the girl is cute, childfree, and into me. and i survive the process without gone mad. and, if this could workout, then live in the philippines about 10 years, do 2-3 children there. then talk if wife wants to come to europe. not before,

because if you bring this 23yrs old cute childless girl to west, it will go crazy and dumb me ????

(becaus in west, this girl has SO MANY options with guys. flirty westeners everywhere, and western

free culture, pop music, night clubs, new friends who will say to this girl that "you can have better man in here" material life style etc. the girl might be gone in a month :D)

->if this whole <deleted> dont work out, dont find wife, then just keep vacation in philippines. meet some whores etc, have fun. go back home.

-> so why try philippine wife, not thai?

1. just a gut feeling. feels like thai women :

a: not interest in me (i was in thailand 7-8 years ago. only the hookers in bangkok bars

did show some interest. and ofcourse that doesnt count) (i didnt have tinder at the time.

and i didnt use any online services. i didnt search for a partner back then. (but maybe it doesnt change anything, if search or not. because if someone is interested, it will tell it without searcing)

b: philippines talk more english, and allso you cant online chat with some thaiwomen,

because they speak with thailetters, i dont understand those weird signs ???? )

c -> all around the net is information how philippines girls dont care about age difference at all,

im little sceptic, but could try.

 

2. So, if number 1 fails, after a little try, lets say something like 6months(online chat, planning the trip, and then trip etc) which might be so, because somehow ive been cursed with my luck with women since i was 20years old, no matter what i do, then i give up.

Then i take first single mom about the same age as i am (dont need to be single mom, but like i mentioned before, cute women in here at my age who are willing to take me are single mom, no matter how hard i try something else) from tinder that i could find.

Because then there is no other love in this planet that i could get. You could say, that then it is scientifically proven fact.

 

These are my thoughts now. maybe just should take the single mom right away in my country, but, i dont know. I could try to fight again my destiny 1 more time and see where it goes...if i have the guts.

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6 hours ago, Jjjjjjj said:

dont find wife, then just keep vacation in philippines. meet some whores etc, have fun. go back home.

Yes, do that

life is short, you will try to find a wife later

when you will be old and tired of the game

untill then, it's better to work, build your financial wealth

and enjoy the holidays with a lot of different girls

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is this guy real or just making a story up?

In Thailand, everybody gets a woman.

You look like catweazle or Johnny Depp, everyone gets one.

Doesn't matter how old or young you are, if you are fat of slim.

Thai women do not love the same way as westerners. For them is more, who can take care of them and their family.

It's in their DNA. Love is not important. Taking care of them and their family is important. 

If you look like Quasimodo but have a good bank account, they prefer that, than having a young James Dean with empty pockets.

 

I asked quite a few girls what they think when I showed them couples where he was probably 30 years older then her, looking like being 11 months overdue (so fat).

All answers were the same. He must have good heart, taking good care of the lady. 

55555

 

 

 

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