56 minutes ago, StayinThailand2much said:

Yes, it totally turns me off! I don't want to be stressed and pressured to discuss and/or count ejaculations. Same as for watching a girl in a hurry, counting the minutes till the deal is done... I never hired a prostitute in the West, and thanks to this behaviour by Thai prostitutes I have not hired one for many years now.

Maybe you should work on your negotiation skills. That is in general helpful, not only with the girls. 

1 hour ago, GameMaster said:

It's pretty common in Thailand too.

You entertain and then she f:cks. Pretty similar to prostitution really.

The money doesn't follow the same path but that's it.

Most regular Thai girls suck at sex imo.

If you pick the right bar girl, you'll have more fun.

 

unlucky you, i have never had to 'entertain' to get a one night stand, whether back home or here, and boy, have i had some amazing times.

4 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

You changed by 25 years.

 

1 hour ago, StayinThailand2much said:

Mind to share; what kind of girls, what age group... ?

most are in their forties, but the odd teen here and there too

kind of girls: city hall employee, hotel maid, teacher, construction worker, motorcycle mechanic, massage therapist, hotel manager, restaurant waiter, cook, golf caddie...

Edited May 6, 20233 yr by tgw

1 hour ago, Celsius said:

 

I suggest you go for a psychopath. Many of them with mental problems here in Thailand and more fun than a bargirl. I suggest you run after 1 month. 

 

Source: Tinder 

 

They are not psychopaths.......who are very few and far between.

 

They are most likely in the B or C Disorder Groups.  

 

Many gravitate, in desperation, towards dating apps.

 

I suggest you, I mean you personally, keep away from them........they are in a bad enough place already.

 

The last thing they need is someone like you.

 

Who, on the basis of your attitude, seems more likely to be a "psycho"  than they are.

 

 

https://www.mygbhp.com/blog/three-clusters-personality-disorders/

 

 

 

 

Edited May 6, 20233 yr by Enoon

The newbie troll who started this thread must be in heaven. 

54 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

I have no doubt one night stands are very common between Thais. And one night stands between foreigners and bar girls.

IMO foreigners would have to be young and handsome before a non-prostitute Thai girl would consider it.

..... And fairly well off. 

10 minutes ago, marin said:

The newbie troll who started this thread must be in heaven. 

Maybe.

 

But I have been asked some very....."naive"...... questions, in person, by people new to Thailand.

 

Example:  "Where can I find a ladyboy who will really love me?"

 

 

1 hour ago, it is what it is said:

 

unlucky you, i have never had to 'entertain' to get a one night stand, whether back home or here, and boy, have i had some amazing times.

Good for you, brother.

46 minutes ago, Enoon said:

 

They are not psychopaths.......who are very few and far between.

 

They are most likely in the B or C Disorder Groups.  

 

Many gravitate, in desperation, towards dating apps.

 

I suggest you, I mean you personally, keep away from them........they are in a bad enough place already.

 

The last thing they need is someone like you.

 

Who, on the basis of your attitude, seems more likely to be a "psycho"  than they are.

 

 

https://www.mygbhp.com/blog/three-clusters-personality-disorders/

 

 

 

 

 

Oh... we have a doctor.

 

Have you applied to be a forum moderator? 

Just now, tgw said:

most are in their forties, but the odd teen here and there too

kind of girls: city hall employee, hotel maid, teacher, construction worker, motorcycle mechanic, massage therapist, hotel manager, restaurant waiter, cook, golf caddie...

Yeah, there’s the problem, as I’m not really into women in their forties, not last because many seem to ‘carry a lot of weight’ with them (pun intended).

Just now, Enoon said:

Example:  "Where can I find a ladyboy who will really love me?"

Answer: near an ATM...

 

No, seriously, never understood the thing about ladyboys. Are the guys who like them gay, or do they just like to do it (cough, cough)... Well, you get my drift.

https://mojomatt.me/ladyboy-bangkok/

Edited May 6, 20233 yr by Goodboybkk

Just now, OneMoreFarang said:

Maybe you should work on your negotiation skills. That is in general helpful, not only with the girls. 

Yeah, maybe.

I have one night stand, I really wanted a set but they only had the single in the store.

15 minutes ago, StayinThailand2much said:

Yeah, there’s the problem, as I’m not really into women in their forties, not last because many seem to ‘carry a lot of weight’ with them (pun intended).

age over 40, weight under 40 ... 5555

6 minutes ago, Goodboybkk said:

https://mojomatt.me/ladyboy-bangkok/

You think many people are going to follow a link that contains "ladyboy" without any kind of context added to it by you?

Just now, OneMoreFarang said:

Have the girls changed? Or did I change?

Probably both. Yes, some ‘girls’ who offered their services 20 years ago are (maybe) still there, esp. in places like Pattaya. Walking along Beach Road in the evening the other day, I wondered if ‘80’ was the magic number now: 80 years old (well some women looked pretty old and ‘worn’) and 80 kilos...

Edited May 6, 20233 yr by StayinThailand2much

Dont you guys want a gf? Sex is boring if no emotion

10 hours ago, MrJ2U said:

..... And fairly well off. 

It's fairly rare in Thailand to find a foreigner less well off than the average Thai.

The average monthly income of Thais is 10K - 15K baht. Even less in a rural village, down to 2-3K /month.

I once knew a guy on a disability pension here. IIRC, about 45K baht/month.

Good-looking guy in his late 50's. While he paid the hookers sometimes, he frequently got freebies.

31 minutes ago, bignok said:

Dont you guys want a gf? Sex is boring if no emotion

I've found completely the opposite.

Once a woman owns you emotionally, she'll stop the sex.

13 hours ago, Mac Mickmanus said:

The reason for an ejaculation is to reproduce Children 

And after you have had the Snip?????

16 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I've found completely the opposite.

Once a woman owns you emotionally, she'll stop the sex.

My gf loves it.

20 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

It's fairly rare in Thailand to find a foreigner less well off than the average Thai.

The average monthly income of Thais is 10K - 15K baht. Even less in a rural village, down to 2-3K /month.

I once knew a guy on a disability pension here. IIRC, about 45K baht/month.

Good-looking guy in his late 50's. While he paid the hookers sometimes, he frequently got freebies.

Find a broke backpacker

48 minutes ago, bignok said:

Dont you guys want a gf? Sex is boring if no emotion

Back in the day, there were starfishes, and women who enjoyed sex. The starfishes did not get a second chance.

I have a GF now, probably because I got tired of sorting the wheat from the chaff.

3 minutes ago, bignok said:

Find a broke backpacker

No such thing, most Thais can't afford international travel.

To them, those that fly appear wealthy, and they'll risk a few 'free ones' to find out for sure.

4 minutes ago, bignok said:

Find a broke backpacker

There are more than 35 million Thai women. How many broke backpackers do you think there are?

13 hours ago, Goodboybkk said:

How common is one night stand

All the curtain / short time motels should be a clue ????

3 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

There are more than 35 million Thai women. How many broke backpackers do you think there are?

Most women have no interest in farangs.

12 minutes ago, bignok said:

Most women have no interest in farangs.

Agree, and that includes white women.