sickly looking foreigner

[scubascuba3]

4 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

There is undoubtedly a significant truth to this.

 

Around a decade ago, at the age of 75, my father was diagnosed with Type 2 diabetes. He had recently stopped playing golf three times a week; a routine he had maintained for years. Though never particularly fit, he was also never unhealthy, always carrying a slight but stable excess weight. However, after he gave up his regular rounds on the course, complications arose, leading to his diagnosis.

 

An extraordinary man, he did what he has always done, he took it upon himself to understand the challenge before him. He read extensively, researched tirelessly, and adapted with remarkable discipline.

 

He meticulously tracks his carbohydrate intake, measuring it down to the gram. On any given day, he knows precisely how many carbs he has consumed, allowing himself strategic indulgences; a slice of cake, a cup of tea with sugar etc without compromising his overall control. He has not deprived himself of life’s small pleasures; instead, he has mastered the art of balance with a precision worthy of study.

 

And, indeed, such studies exist: processed carbohydrates are at the heart of countless health issues.

 

Remarkably, his doctors have acknowledged that he has all but reversed his diabetes. He monitors his blood sugar multiple times a day, documenting every reading with diligence.

His primary concern now is ensuring he eats before bed to prevent his blood sugar from dropping dangerously low overnight.

 

I continue to learn invaluable lessons from this man I'm extremely proud to call my father, who remains active and resilient, driven by his love for his grandchildren and to be around for them as long as possible. They, like I, treasure him immeasurably, a sentiment that will only deepen beyond measure once his time with us comes to an end.

 

 

 

 

 

Good he turned it around, most people seem to just want meds to manage it rather than reverse it, self control is a rare thing

[PPGuy]

Is this the guy? A Brit in the Philippines.

 

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14456443/I-high-flying-HR-boss-Im-homeless-Philippines-jungle-fighting-life-rotting-foot-Brits-life-unravels-stabbed-girlfriend-infected-Mpox-lured-botched-exorcism-begs-UK-help.html

[freedomnow]

20 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

No cure

That would be a music stopper entrance in a gogo bar.

[BusyB]

16 hours ago, save the frogs said:

ah ok. they can't afford treatment.

 

Oh they'd get it for free off the social security ... they're just too far gone to even see how bad they are or feel too ashamed or don't trust even hospitals .... Sooner or later they end up in hospital for some reason or other (usually alc) and then they get treated.

 

Rinse and repeat. Die early.

[Bday Prang]

On 3/8/2025 at 7:48 PM, save the frogs said:

was so hideous looking, i had to look away fairly quickly

most people would consider prolonged staring somewhat impolite and to be honest just plain weird. 

[Bday Prang]

7 hours ago, freedomnow said:

That would be a music stopper entrance in a gogo bar.

but you should really see the large one

[JAG]

On 3/8/2025 at 6:36 PM, save the frogs said:

I guessed it was diabetes.

He cant afford medical treatment due to no insurance in thailand? 

 

Treatment for diabetes is not expensive here.

But - you do have to 1) present yourself for treatment. 2) be prepared to manage your diet and restrict your booze intake.

[save the frogs]

Just now, JAG said:

Treatment for diabetes is not expensive here.

But - you do have to 1) present yourself for treatment. 2) be prepared to manage your diet and restrict your booze intake.

some people may have mental health issues then , so they don't even go to hospital?

booze is a factor in diabetes?

[1FinickyOne]

7 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

He meticulously tracks his carbohydrate intake, measuring it down to the gram.

That's a lovely story - - your dad sounds like a special guy. I hope and like to think I am equally special to my family and certainly have raised the quality of many lives w/o ever asking for things in return. What worries me about a long life is a too long life. My parents lived until 92 and the last 10 years were not pretty as dementia stole any joy from not only their lives but from we devoted children who had to proceed down a regular and difficult path of keeping them from hurting themselves and others, balanced against trying to help them achieve many of their final wishes, There were so many daily problems as my father fought to remain independent. Getting him to stop driving was a big one, He could not comprehend that his license was revoked. We didn't want him to blow through red lights and kill others. I do not want my family to be left with bad memories of me after all the good ones we have had together. 

 

It is not easy for people to give up independence and autonomy. My father was a brilliant lifelong investor and struggled with giving up control even when he was long past fully knowing what was going on. At what age or percent of loss of mental capacity would you want to surrender control of your money that you worked all your life for? There are some things that I can do now to prepare but it sure would all be easier if I knew my expiration date, Or, if I can choose a date to reach a desired outcome. Lots of challenges to face, but I think I am executing a plan in a manner that will be correct for my family and me. As I get older and more pained, there is less joy in Mudville. 

 

But all my best to you family and dad as you venture down your path. 

[JAG]

8 hours ago, save the frogs said:

some people may have mental health issues then , so they don't even go to hospital?

booze is a factor in diabetes?

Yes and yes.