19 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Never let her go on holiday alone! 

 

NEVER!!!!

 

For any reason!

 

No exceptions.

 

19 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Never let her go on holiday alone! 

 

NEVER!!!!

 

For any reason!

 

No exceptions.

I let my now ex wife go with her girlfriend from work . I wondered at the time why she was so adamant that I let her go!

I never once in 35 years denied her anything !

Come to find out they were doing each other .

 

Anytime anyplace anyone, /$$hit$ happens!

 

 

Spend as much as you can afford to lose!

2 hours ago, norsurin said:

Right..my exwife went to holiday in Thailand for visiting her parents.Came back after 8 weeks and was pregnant with her thai lover.Then we divorced after 11 year marriage.Still stay in my country same our 2 kids.Been here 18 years now.After i took DNA-TEST of my kids and happily im their father.

 

Thank you for sharing this personal experience, which further illustrates the danger of allowing a wife or gf to travel alone. 

 

Thank God you were the father, not a given with a cheating wife, well done for checking.

1 hour ago, riclag said:

 

I let my now ex wife go with her girlfriend from work . I wondered at the time why she was so adamant that I let her go!

I never once in 35 years denied her anything !

Come to find out they were doing each other .

 

Anytime anyplace anyone, /$$hit$ happens!

 

 

Spend as much as you can afford to lose!

 

Yes, we men, often are too indulgent, too innocent. I too had a gf of one year, who told me she had to travel to Roi Et, to transfer land her father left her. I thought it is important for her, got her the ticket, travel money and drove her to the airport. Only later did I find out she had arranged a 7 day sex holiday in Phuket in a 5 star resort. She came home as if nothing happened and slept in my bed. Only her lack of text availability made me suspect, so i checked her phone the next day and the idiot had taken a video of herself kissing and hugging her affair partner and sent it to her sister. Game over.

 

So from that moment on, I knew, you can never allow your woman to travel alone. Unless you really don't care of course.

17 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Yes, we men, often are too indulgent, too innocent. I too had a gf of one year, who told me she had to travel to Roi Et, to transfer land her father left her. I thought it is important for her, got her the ticket, travel money and drove her to the airport. Only later did I find out she had arranged a 7 day sex holiday in Phuket in a 5 star resort. She came home as if nothing happened and slept in my bed. Only her lack of text availability made me suspect, so i checked her phone the next day and the idiot had taken a video of herself kissing and hugging her affair partner and sent it to her sister. Game over.

 

So from that moment on, I knew, you can never allow your woman to travel alone. Unless you really don't care of course.

I heard many stories like ur.To bad.Thats why i prefer to be single.I just have a lady over the nigth.. pay next morning and dont give them my number or line id 

7 hours ago, klauskunkel said:

My advice is to take another look at that sentence.

 

The following post as well 555

6 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Mine gets a pension if she stays until the end.

That's a much better offer than honesty, loyalty and fidelity IMHO.

 

Unless she signs you up for free lessons in the Pattaya Flying Club ...

6 hours ago, norsurin said:

Right..my exwife went to holiday in Thailand for visiting her parents.Came back after 8 weeks and was pregnant with her thai lover.Then we divorced after 11 year marriage.Still stay in my country same our 2 kids.Been here 18 years now.After i took DNA-TEST of my kids and happily im their father.

Are there three kids or two?

Bit confusing?

 

On 3/19/2025 at 4:51 PM, Cameroni said:

Never let her go on holiday alone! 

 

NEVER!!!!

 

For any reason!

 

No exceptions.

If you're with a woman you can't let out of your sight, you've chosen the wrong one. I'd have no worries sending mine on a one-month vacation. I'd trust her more than I'd trust myself LOL.

On 3/19/2025 at 7:08 PM, worgeordie said:

Just lucky I guess ,but we have been together for 37 years now ,

she's a great woman ,looks after me in my few years left,she

is honest as the day is long, You can find good ones if you look,hard

 

regards worgeordie

 

 

That is so lovely to hear that. You've been blessed like many here with very good fortune .

3 hours ago, JensenZ said:

If you're with a woman you can't let out of your sight, you've chosen the wrong one. I'd have no worries sending mine on a one-month vacation. I'd trust her more than I'd trust myself LOL.

Trust in thy self and the shadow of truth will always follow you in life.

3 hours ago, emptypockets said:

Are there three kids or two?

Bit confusing?

 

Stories like this makes me wonder why condoms were made. lol

 

13 hours ago, Crossy said:

 

It is oft said that if it flies, floats or f**ks - Rent! 

 

Meanwhile, it will be our 21st wedding anniversary in November, still love her to bits.

Yes .... if you find the right one, a good one, then life is so much better.

 

14 years now, and for me, at first, it was pure lust- she was just so beautiful and hot! .... but for her, she just decided I was her soul mate, and she would look.after me so well I'd never want to let her go.

 

She's still gorgeous, but also helps run our business, as well as keeping me healthy with good food and a healthy lifestyle.  

 

I know there are gold diggers out there, and understand the negative views of some (most) AN members, but find the right one (or more likely she finds you) and she'll make your life so much better.

22 minutes ago, camper star said:

That is so lovely to hear that. You've been blessed like many here with very good fortune .

I'm in a relationship, actually international and long distance ( kind of ) only a 5 hour flight. On the 14th month of a loving and caring lady in her mid... up there . We chat every night for hours sometimes. I do have PR in another country also but she has no interest in moving her which is good because I plan to live and just really live in her country. I do have a pretty good set up that for the 90 day visit I  leave and then return soon. So, but I would like it to be a bit different but i have national health insurance here which is like about $450 a year with no deductible. Can't find that in Thailand.  Anyway, I always love to here positive news . Say hi to your lovely wife for me. Camper

40 minutes ago, camper star said:

Stories like this makes me wonder why condoms were made. lol

 

To stop sand getting down the rifle barrel in the dessert?

 

Or because idiots beget idiots because they don't use them properly, if at all!

On 3/19/2025 at 6:37 AM, camper star said:

So for you folks here that are lucky enough to have the candle that is lighted into the life of go for the zest in life after what has taken place in your life, maybe even in Thailand. What advice would you like to genuine share at a level that connects with the heart of sincerity with the members here.

 

Don't post stoned or drunk, and neither fall in love when heavily inebriated. The next morning you wish you had done neither.

18 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Mine gets a pension if she stays until the end.

That's a much better offer than honesty, loyalty and fidelity IMHO.

This is what happens after 3 or so divorces. Bad selection process?🙃🙃

On 3/19/2025 at 3:37 PM, camper star said:

Life brings us many challenges and as we may loose the one that has stayed beside us in life, changes happen, good or bad like a gentle wind or worse a wind that uproots the loyalty of a long-time relationship. 

So for you folks here that are lucky enough to have the candle that is lighted into the life of go for the zest in life after what has taken place in your life, maybe even in Thailand. What advice would you like to genuine share at a level that connects with the heart of sincerity with the members here.  

Thanks

Hello...is that you Bobby Boy ????

16 hours ago, JensenZ said:

If you're with a woman you can't let out of your sight, you've chosen the wrong one. I'd have no worries sending mine on a one-month vacation. I'd trust her more than I'd trust myself LOL.

 

That's funny, i said the same about my ex who secretly went to Phuket. Of course you trust them completely, until you can't.

 

it's a fallacy to think you can plan for betrayal. You can't. Even after 20 years you don't really know a person.

 

Of course some women are so unattractive they have no options and the risk they step out is very small, just because they have no option. 

 

Sometimes woman can be of that rare group, a woman of best character, but by definition that group is small. And since people change all the time, even if she is of good character now, if she has options and she encounters temptation, there is still a possibility she will betray you.

 

This is because women are hardwired to seek out the "better option" due to their biology.

 

Wives, gfs cheated or left Elvis Presley, Johnny Depp, Cary Grant, Tom Brady and thousands of other rich celebrities. But I'm sure you're special.

 

Lol.

On 3/19/2025 at 5:08 PM, worgeordie said:

Just lucky I guess ,but we have been together for 37 years now ,

she's a great woman ,looks after me in my few years left,she

is honest as the day is long, You can find good ones if you look,hard

 

regards worgeordie

 

 

Well done, and well said.

On 3/19/2025 at 7:03 PM, camper star said:

My question then is what if the money lessens into the relationship and values other non emotional values over a relationship on loyalty.

Highly unlikely.

On 3/19/2025 at 11:08 PM, worgeordie said:

Just lucky I guess ,but we have been together for 37 years now ,

she's a great woman ,looks after me in my few years left,she

is honest as the day is long, You can find good ones if you look,hard

 

regards worgeordie

 

 

You were just lucky. Mine was perfect till the money got tight.

On 3/21/2025 at 4:15 AM, Kinnock said:

Yes .... if you find the right one, a good one, then life is so much better.

 

14 years now, and for me, at first, it was pure lust- she was just so beautiful and hot! .... but for her, she just decided I was her soul mate, and she would look.after me so well I'd never want to let her go.

 

She's still gorgeous, but also helps run our business, as well as keeping me healthy with good food and a healthy lifestyle.  

 

I know there are gold diggers out there, and understand the negative views of some (most) AN members, but find the right one (or more likely she finds you) and she'll make your life so much better.

Someone wins Lotto, but not many.

On 3/20/2025 at 2:37 PM, norsurin said:

I heard many stories like ur.To bad.Thats why i prefer to be single.I just have a lady over the nigth.. pay next morning and dont give them my number or line id 

I don't suppose you've discovered the difference between making love and f***king. Your system might be ok for a young stud (been there done that), but as you get older, you need more from a woman than just a "whole". You should try finding a partner that likes to be with you, without payment. You don't typically find them where you're pulling them from. I seriously could not afford ladies-of-the-night at the rate they charge and the frequency I'm doing it LOL.

 

I've had girlfriends and serious partners from all over the world, but I've never experienced anything near the dedication of my current Thai girlfriend.

On 3/19/2025 at 3:14 PM, camper star said:

Did you know the Thai lady name of "Lady of Virtue " is Sunee.

Sunee in Thai means 
"lady of virtue" 

On 3/19/2025 at 7:09 PM, Keeps said:

I've banged a few of the non canine variety. I put it down to beer goggles.

VD clinic the next day ?

On 3/19/2025 at 7:08 PM, worgeordie said:

Just lucky I guess ,but we have been together for 37 years now ,

she's a great woman ,looks after me in my few years left,she

is honest as the day is long, You can find good ones if you look,hard

 

regards worgeordie

 

 

That means a lot to me. I thank you with all honesty. A true heart in life speaks through the eyes that sparkle with joy in lovely conversations of each others dreams in life. You've been truly blessed. 

On 3/20/2025 at 10:11 AM, klauskunkel said:

My advice is to take another look at that sentence.

simplicity in words of feelings has no boundaries of a persons emotions.

but thanks for the correction of ones illiterate of being genuinely uneducated.  

On 3/20/2025 at 10:19 AM, newbee2022 said:

I made half way through (16 years) but enjoy every day with my wife.

It is this "giving" and ,"taking" thing.

If you offer honesty, loyalty and fidelity then you'll get same in return.

I'm happy to have my wife caring for me up to the end.

That is as clear of the 7 colors of the rainbow of a happy and cherished marriage. I'm very happy to hear your journey in life is not a destination, but a continuation of the joy of love you have for your lovely wife.

2 minutes ago, camper star said:

That is as clear of the 7 colors of the rainbow of a happy and cherished marriage. I'm very happy to hear your journey in life is not a destination, but a continuation of the joy of love you have for your lovely wife.

Thank you. I'm very happy with my wife. We're caring for each other.

On 3/20/2025 at 10:21 AM, BritManToo said:

Mine gets a pension if she stays until the end.

That's a much better offer than honesty, loyalty and fidelity IMHO.

If true, then she has lived with you in the States continuelessly (sp) for 5 years. I know that is a fact with SS.  I thought about this with a Thai lady and she had no idea about the SS regulation.