Unsettling Experience at 700 Years Stadium – Advice or Similar Encounters?

[Harrisfan]

Just now, Felt 35 said:

 

Open your perspective a bit not everyone is on diet. I often cycle at 0300am until 0630 - 0700 am and two croissants would just be a teaser to breakfast.😉

Felt

You shouldnt eat or exercise within 3 hours before bed. So exercise and eating at 10.30pm means sleeping at 2am.

 

Your breakfast idea makes more sense.

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Keeps]

I would have accepted the impending BJ with good grace and put it down to experience, never to return.

[BangkokReady]

9 hours ago, falangUK said:

I’ve seen all sorts of characters around that area, but never had something this strange happen before. I wasn’t shocked as much as just disgusted. I thought briefly about following him, but didn’t. No idea what he was on   possibly drugs, not acting normal at all.

 

He probably thought you were gay and was trying to make a move.  Some locations become known as gay meetups where gay guys do gay stuff together.  Not really anything to worry about.

 

9 hours ago, falangUK said:

Now I’m wondering what I should do. Should I have reported it to the police? Or to whoever manages the 700 Years Stadium area? Is it even worth reporting something like this? It’s hard to know whose responsibility it is.

 

Forget about it and move on with your life.  Possibly look into the fact that you may be a little homophobic.

[Harrisfan]

14 minutes ago, Keeps said:

I would have accepted the impending BJ with good grace and put it down to experience, never to return.

Nah ask the Chinese guy to buy dinner first. Then invite Bob for an all in.

[NorthernRyland]

That may be known location and time for gay cruisers. Chiang Mai is feeling really gay these days. I'm constantly asking my wife if she thinks people are gay or not, men and women. Maybe it's all those fancy cafes with the expensive croissants turning the kids gay? 😂

 

I used to live next to a park in the US where they would do this too. It was annoying and seeing used condoms on the grass everyday and every so often I'd having something vulgar said to me. Goes with the territory I guess.

[ColeBOzbourne]

10 hours ago, falangUK said:

Just trying to process it and figure out what to do next.

It is imperative that you report all microaggressions to the police immediately!

[Yellowtail]

Try to not look so gay, 

[Harrisfan]

7 minutes ago, NorthernRyland said:

That may be known location and time for gay cruisers. Chiang Mai is feeling really gay these days. I'm constantly asking my wife if she thinks people are gay or not, men and women. Maybe it's all those fancy cafes with the expensive croissants turning the kids gay? 😂

 

I used to live next to a park in the US where they would do this too. It was annoying and seeing used condoms on the grass everyday and every so often I'd having something vulgar said to me. Goes with the territory I guess.

CM seems like most Thai cities. 10 to 15% are gay everywhere.

 

The Old City has a 1000 tourists and lots of cafes. Never seen gays hugging random people.

 

In my wife's village shop there's a ladyboy behind the counter.

 

In Khon Kaen I've been served by ladyboys. 

 

Thailand has lots of gays. Who is surprised by this?

 

 

[Harrisfan]

Don't dress like this

[NorthernRyland]

Just now, Harrisfan said:

CM seems like most Thai cities. 10 to 15% are gay everywhere.

 

 

That high? CM used to feel way less gay. It's probably more just metro-sexualism and people from Bangkok moving there. If you put a man in enough cute little cafes and glitzy malls with expensive designer tea drinks they start to become a little gay.

 

CM is probably 10X gayer than the nearest regional towns like Lamphun or Chiang Dao.

[Keeps]

43 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Nah ask the Chinese guy to buy dinner first. Then invite Bob for an all in.

I wonder whether sex with a Chinese guy is similar to having a Chinese meal?

 

You're never full and an hour later you fancy another one.

[Harrisfan]

2 minutes ago, NorthernRyland said:

 

That high? CM used to feel way less gay. It's probably more just metro-sexualism and people from Bangkok moving there. If you put a man in enough cute little cafes and glitzy malls with expensive designer tea drinks they start to become a little gay.

 

CM is probably 10X gayer than the nearest regional towns like Lamphun or Chiang Dao.

https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/lgbtq-population-by-country

[Harrisfan]

2 minutes ago, Keeps said:

I wonder whether sex with a Chinese guy is similar to having a Chinese meal?

 

You're never full and an hour later you fancy another one.

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[Keeps]

3 minutes ago, NorthernRyland said:

 

That high? CM used to feel way less gay. It's probably more just metro-sexualism and people from Bangkok moving there. If you put a man in enough cute little cafes and glitzy malls with expensive designer tea drinks they start to become a little gay.

 

CM is probably 10X gayer than the nearest regional towns like Lamphun or Chiang Dao.

I think there is some truth to this.

 

Yesterday I was shopping (for far too long) with my GF, her sister plus two teenage females. Spent a considerable amount of time in the female clothing department and by the time we got home I was pretty sure I had become a Tranny. 

[fredwiggy]

4 hours ago, Harrisfan said:

Is it 700 years old? Hug for anniversery?

 

Maybe stop hanging around gay areas you silly fool and get a girfriend. Straight blokes arent running at 10.30pm.

And you know this how?

[Harrisfan]

9 minutes ago, NorthernRyland said:

CM is probably 10X gayer than the nearest regional towns like Lamphun or Chiang Dao.

Lamphun seems a bit gay.

 

We went to Dao and there were lots of gays. Ko Samet has lots of them.

 

 

[Harrisfan]

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

And you know this how?

Know what?

[fredwiggy]

1 hour ago, FolkGuitar said:

Have you considered the remote possibility that he's not jogging to lose weight?  Perhaps he's jogging for muscle exercise and aerobic conditioning? When many people exercise, weight loss has little to do with their motivation.  
 

I'm thinking he jogs to earn those croissants. Some exercise just so they can eat and "get away with it". As to the OP, maybe he never touched a foreigner and just wanted that experience. Next time check for your wallet, as hugging is one of a pickpocket's methods.

[fredwiggy]

4 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Know what?

"Straight blokes arent running at 10.30pm" .."We went to Dao and there were lots of gays. Ko Samet has lots of them".............. And croissants aren't gay. They're a very popular dessert that millions enjoy, although high in calories..

[Harrisfan]

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

"Straight blokes arent running at 10.30pm" .."We went to Dao and there were lots of gays. Ko Samet has lots of them".............. And croissants aren't gay. They're a very popular dessert that millions enjoy, although high in calories..

Huh?

[fredwiggy]

3 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Huh?

I'm wondering how you know how many people there that are gay, and that straight men don't run after 10:30 PM. Do you talk to them, asking if they're gay, take a poll or just assume, because the majority of gay people aren't overtly showing it?

[Harrisfan]

3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

I'm wondering how you know how many people there that are gay, and that straight men don't run after 10:30 PM. Do you talk to them, asking if they're gay, take a poll or just assume, because the majority of gay people aren't overtly showing it?

Surveys say 10% mostly. Thailand has gays everywhere. Have you ever been to Thailand? Exercise after 8.30pm is daft.

 

Lots of gays work 7/11 and driver apps. They are obviously gay, including lesbians. Most Thai gays are fairly open.

 

You don't know much about Thailand.

 

 

[CHdiver]

It's Pride month, go with the flow and hug him back next time. 

[fredwiggy]

2 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Surveys say 10% mostly. Thailand has gays everywhere. Have you ever been to Thailand? Exercise after 8.30pm is daft.

 

Lots of gays work 7/11 and driver apps. They are obviously gay, including lesbians. Most Thai gays are fairly open.

 

You don't know much about Thailand.

 

 

You don't understand that I live here yet? I was asking you specifically about what you think you know about gays in a certain area, and that straight people don't run after 10:30, which is just your assumption  and false, as all types of people run at all times of day and night.  The truth is, you go by surveys and then make assumptions about them in general. I actually knew quite a bit about Thailand decades before I moved here, and it has been proven since to be true and worse than what I heard. Some act obviously gay and aren't. many, actually most, don't act overtly gay and if they didn't go to gay hangouts, you would never know. 

[Sandboxer]

Any reaction short of a kick in the nuts makes you a homo too.

 

Use of the word "unsettling" is a first clue.

[Harrisfan]

7 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

You don't understand that I live here yet? I was asking you specifically about what you think you know about gays in a certain area, and that straight people don't run after 10:30, which is just your assumption  and false, as all types of people run at all times of day and night.  The truth is, you go by surveys and then make assumptions about them in general. I actually knew quite a bit about Thailand decades before I moved here, and it has been proven since to be true and worse than what I heard. Some act obviously gay and aren't. many, actually most, don't act overtly gay and if they didn't go to gay hangouts, you would never know. 

Most act gay cause less bigotry. Never heard of a 700 year old stadium. I guess he means temple.

 

Exercise at 10.30pm sounds daft. Too hard to sleep after.

 

Straights have sex with women at 10.30pm. Eating croissants and hanging out with sweaty men sounds gay.

[fredwiggy]

2 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Most act gay cause less bigotry. Never heard of a 700 year old stadium. I guess he means temple.

 

Exercise at 10.30pm sounds daft. Too hard to sleep after.

 

Straights have sex with women at 10.30pm. Eating croissants and hanging out with sweaty men sounds gay.

Actually it's pretty easy to sleep after aerobic exercise, especially if you're a morning person and not a night owl. Straights have sex all hours of the day, as do gays. I worked out in gyms 50 years, around sweaty people all the time, and made many friends there. Gay has nothing to do with it, and croissant eating doesn't make you gay. I've known many gay people in my life that weren't openly showing it, especially in public areas. Things don't just sound gay. They are or they aren't, and most of the time in public you will never know it.

[Quentin Zen]

11 hours ago, falangUK said:

I finished my run around 10.30pm,

no common sense.

 

come on.

[Harrisfan]

3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Actually it's pretty easy to sleep after aerobic exercise, especially if you're a morning person and not a night owl. Straights have sex all hours of the day, as do gays. I worked out in gyms 50 years, around sweaty people all the time, and made many friends there. Gay has nothing to do with it, and croissant eating doesn't make you gay. I've known many gay people in my life that weren't openly showing it, especially in public areas. Things don't just sound gay. They are or they aren't, and most of the time in public you will never know it.

White gays hide it due to bigotry. Thais don't.

 

You don't know much about Thailand.

[NorthernRyland]

11 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Never heard of a 700 year old stadium. I guess he means temple.

 

Never been past dark but it's a very common place go to walk and run.