55 minutes ago, Hummin said:

I read the OP more as a clever piece of satire than a serious argument. A mix of dating, politics, feminism, belief and the usual forum calculations.

And yes, casual sex may be easier in Thailand, but it does not replace trust, companionship and building something together.

Trust isn't required, unless you're desperate to lose a house, and building something together with your money ain't all it's made out to be. As for companionship, my three rabbits are great companions.

7 hours ago, Rockyroad said:

Decades of research consistently show that a couple's relationship satisfaction takes a significant hit after the birth of their first child.

• The Decline: Studies show that the rate of decline in marital satisfaction is nearly twice as steep for couples with children compared to childless couples

But in Thailand, there's plenty of other women to bang on the side.

So it isn't that much of a problem.

3 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Trust isn't required, unless you're desperate to lose a house, and building something together with your money ain't all it's made out to be. As for companionship, my three rabbits are great companions.

Which rabbit orifice do you use?

7 hours ago, Rockyroad said:

Decades of research consistently show that a couple's relationship satisfaction takes a significant hit after the birth of their first child.

• The Decline: Studies show that the rate of decline in marital satisfaction is nearly twice as steep for couples with children compared to childless couples

Another copy and paste job from an unidentified source, presented as though it carries some value. No citations, no references, no attribution. If the information has any real value, the source would be named. Otherwise there’s no reason to give any of it any credibility, or even read it at all.

Every single (or married) man here knows that casual sex is most often fun. It has been made more available with the advent of Tinder, though one will often get a pro. When one uses the calculation of a dinner date, it's cheaper than short-time. (There is no more long-time.) At least BJs haven't had so much inflation.

Maybe you don't run around on the wife. But, if you do, don't get caught and don't bring home any diseases. Wives have their period, headaches, are too tired, aching jaws aso. It's sure nice to have an alternative, keeps the woodpecker...woody with some strange.

8 hours ago, marin said:

She has accrued 1300 shares over her 2.5 years. I am happy for her. I also know once the IPO from Space X comes out she will give notice. She has an offer from K2 Space and will move to La Jolla Ca as her husband works at UC San Diego Med Center.

Oh the irony in that. Once she gets enough money she'll leave. Smh.

28 minutes ago, blaze master said:

Oh the irony in that. Once she gets enough money she'll leave. Smh.

Oh the idiocy in that statement. She married in May of last year and lived away from her husband till now. She was in LA and he working as I said at UCSD med center. She let them know in May of last year she would be leaving but stayed on. Her job was Star Shield and it was necessary for her to stay. Now she is leaving to join her husband, shares or no shares. Because she was smart and got them as bonuses and individual purchases she has done well.

But here you are with no knowledge at all of the situation trying to get your two cents worth in. Hope you enjoyed it. Idiot.

3 minutes ago, marin said:

Oh the idiocy in that statement. She married in May of last year and lived away from her husband till now. She was in LA and he working as I said at UCSD med center. She let them know in May of last year she would be leaving but stayed on. Her job was Star Shield and it was necessary for her to stay. Now she is leaving to join her husband, shares or no shares. Because she was smart and got them as bonuses and individual purchases she has done well.

But here you are with no knowledge at all of the situation trying to get your two cents worth in. Hope you enjoyed it. Idiot.

I see you have deliberately missed the point. Keep your head in the sand then.

12 hours ago, Rockyroad said:

Marin gave me thumbs down for agreeing with you but not to you. Proof he has issues and does not read content. His goose is cooked. A more dishonest person I have not come across.

He visits my wall about twice a say. I assume he also pervs on other posters he doesn't like. He literally has an obsession with me since ajarnforum days. That's 2 decades of perving and stalking.

Quite a strange fetish from someone who claims a neverending winnings

2 minutes ago, Celsius said:

He visits my wall about twice a say. I assume he also pervs on other posters he doesn't like. He literally has an obsession with me since ajarnforum days. That's 2 decades of perving and stalking.

Quite a strange fetish from someone who claims a neverending winnings

Yeah there's some weird guys in Thailand.

33 minutes ago, Celsius said:

He visits my wall about twice a say. I assume he also pervs on other posters he doesn't like. He literally has an obsession with me since ajarnforum days. That's 2 decades of perving and stalking.

Quite a strange fetish from someone who claims a neverending winnings

He gave you a thumbs down and made no comment. 20 years of profile perving is strange.

15 hours ago, Rockyroad said:

In many cases you are right. So many get trapped by kids. Not having kids is the key.

Vasectomy when I turned 40, I decided I wasn’t going to have any accidents. Been accused I was father of a child on several occasions, quick trip to Doctor settled that argument. Go find the real father.

8 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

He gave you a thumbs down and made no comment. 20 years of profile perving is strange.

20 years AND COUNTING

56 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Yeah there's some weird guys in Thailand.

Yeah, talk about weird. There are some seriously strange blokes who spend 18 hours a day on a forum, churning out 50 posts of complete tat every day, most of it pure cringe.

They’ve been doing it for years. Tens of thousands of posts already, and all of them utterly forgettable.

They get banned repeatedly for breaking the rules, rack up negative feedback on most of their posts, yet somehow still believe they’re adored and can’t stay away from the place. It’s genuinely bizarre.

Can you imagine what people like that are like in real life? Trust me, mate, you wouldn’t want to know.

38 minutes ago, BilllyGOAT said:

Yeah, talk about weird. There are some seriously strange blokes who spend 18 hours a day on a forum, churning out 50 posts of complete tat every day, most of it pure cringe.

They’ve been doing it for years. Tens of thousands of posts already, and all of them utterly forgettable.

They get banned repeatedly for breaking the rules, rack up negative feedback on most of their posts, yet somehow still believe they’re adored and can’t stay away from the place. It’s genuinely bizarre.

Can you imagine what people like that are like in real life? Trust me, mate, you wouldn’t want to know.

You are deadset creepy.

Oh look, Soozy has blown another gasket. 😂

On 6/12/2026 at 6:27 AM, scubascuba3 said:

Yes kids is the biggest thing, how many thai girlfriends have accidentally got pregnant? too many

Exactly the same amount of farang boyfriends who couldn't be arsed to 'bag up' first?

25 minutes ago, NanLaew said:

Exactly the same amount of farang boyfriends who couldn't be arsed to 'bag up' first?

You are forgetting the girls who are on contraception but "forget" to take it

3 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

You are forgetting the girls who are on contraception but "forget" to take it

Never met one of those personally. I guess I wasn't as much of a catch as they claimed I would be.

20 hours ago, BilllyGOAT said:

They’ve been doing it for years.

20 hours ago, BilllyGOAT said:

They get banned repeatedly for breaking the rules,

Hey I resemble that remark.

2 hours ago, NanLaew said:

Never met one of those personally. I guess I wasn't as much of a catch as they claimed I would be.

Oh I caught something on soi 7/1 alright. Doc says no biggie though.

I went out with about 6 very reasonable Thai women, one Iranian Christian, two rich Chinese- all over 50.

Settled on one, took about six months.

No drama, everybody was civil and attractive.

My odds back in New York City would be considerably worse.

AI muttering about divorce rates -and the Bignok has shared his own sad divorce story- has nothing to do with the Plush reality of dating on the ground here