benlee53 Posted August 9, 2004 Share Posted August 9, 2004 I got marries in a thai temple no paper signed just money given to mother.Now after 9 days she tell me i stupid to marry her she has money now and laugh me . I have 2 houses can she come get them and stay or sell them?Neither are in her name just me and land owner at land office.?Is THIS A BINDING MARRIGE DOES SHE HAVE ANY RIGHTS AT ALL????????? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lopburi3 Posted August 9, 2004 Share Posted August 9, 2004 You are not married here but from your other posts you may still be married if divorce not final from US. You fail to say how you own houses as a foreigner - your plan was to lease them so if she holds title and gets angry I would not want to be in your position (but you say she does not own them so not sure what you have). I would not want to live in Thailand with an angry ex around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Mist Posted August 9, 2004 Share Posted August 9, 2004 doesn't give you much to work with aye Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
davethailand Posted August 9, 2004 Share Posted August 9, 2004 if you married at a temple then it was a blessing, not a legal marriage, unless you've got a certificate then don't worry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
astral Posted August 9, 2004 Share Posted August 9, 2004 if you married at a temple then it was a blessing, not a legal marriage, unless you've got a certificate then don't worry. That is my understanding too. Legal marriage is done at the Amphur office!! However, I would have a few heavy set friends to stay, in case she does try to get nasty. Keep the land deeds in safe place as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nam Kao Posted August 9, 2004 Share Posted August 9, 2004 Another calf off to the slaughterhouse Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meom Posted August 9, 2004 Share Posted August 9, 2004 Another calf off to the slaughterhouse Aye. Can't understand why everybody seems so eager to get married in the first place. I thought the trend was not to get married except maybe for same-sex couples. Without marriage you can still take care and give your money away, if that's what you want. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mai Krap Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 Have you considered a bullet proof vest and military helmet, A little hot but good investment in divorce Thai Rules. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
falong Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 Have you considered a bullet proof vest and military helmet, A little hot but good investment in divorce Thai Rules. Youre probably safer in Iraq Check out that other thread on possible jobs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IamMaiC Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 He is safer in Iraq Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pierre513 Posted August 13, 2004 Share Posted August 13, 2004 Sorry, I'm just curious... How can it be ..? Have you ever lived with her before ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Noodles Posted August 13, 2004 Share Posted August 13, 2004 With just a blessing you should be ok! How much monet did you give maire..if you don't mind me asking?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benlee53 Posted May 15, 2005 Author Share Posted May 15, 2005 With just a blessing you should be ok!How much monet did you give maire..if you don't mind me asking?? <{POST_SNAPBACK}> 100K Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr_Pat_Pong Posted May 15, 2005 Share Posted May 15, 2005 With just a blessing you should be ok!How much monet did you give maire..if you don't mind me asking?? <{POST_SNAPBACK}> 100K <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Talk about slow. 9 months later a reply Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maerim Posted May 15, 2005 Share Posted May 15, 2005 she has money now and laugh me . She's not the only one, almost as funny as toothache. You ever thought about what you might like to do if and when you ever grow up? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ken Posted May 15, 2005 Share Posted May 15, 2005 Talk about slow. 9 months later a reply <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Geeesh, I'm "slow" this morning also. I read the whole thread till I realized how far back it went till the recent reply (glad it wasn't a long thread). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crossy Posted May 15, 2005 Share Posted May 15, 2005 With just a blessing you should be ok!How much monet did you give maire..if you don't mind me asking?? 100K Talk about slow. 9 months later a reply Since we are now 9 months down the line and the OP has stuck his head above the wall, how about an update, what has happened?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
devildog683 Posted May 15, 2005 Share Posted May 15, 2005 when you rush into things........... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dragonman Posted May 15, 2005 Share Posted May 15, 2005 Don't understand why, unlike most people, Khun Ben's diction changes in past posts from Californian to Cali-phony-one. Perhaps he is scytzophrenic and that is why his girlfriend left him. Or he is so upset he has taken on the persona of his ex. Any comments Ben? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Khutan Posted May 15, 2005 Share Posted May 15, 2005 Legal marriage is done at the Amphur office!!<{POST_SNAPBACK}> astral; Exactly, No paper, no marraige. The other is generaly known as an "informal wedding" or a "Jungle Wedding", as there is no regognition at law for a de-facto marraige. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zarkow Posted May 15, 2005 Share Posted May 15, 2005 Exactly - and in my case we just went to the police directly and never bothered with any temple. And had our own ceremony afterwards. In Thailand they have a true separation of church and state (regarding marriges..) - something other countries could learn a thing or two from. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Mist Posted May 15, 2005 Share Posted May 15, 2005 They do in other places and it's called a "Civil Ceremony", performed by a "Marriage Celebrant" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zarkow Posted May 15, 2005 Share Posted May 15, 2005 They do in other places and it's called a "Civil Ceremony", performed by a "Marriage Celebrant" <{POST_SNAPBACK}> You miss the point - in an marrige in a church in most Euro-countries it's still a legally registered marrige. I.e. the church's registration goes straigtly into the goverments papers (and this, as we all know, affects taxing and so on). It's not a separation of church and state, it's allowing some to marry outside the church if wanted. Not the same thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Mist Posted May 15, 2005 Share Posted May 15, 2005 I did get your point, although moot, but was simply clarifying that marriage in other places is not the sole domain of the church, separation has occurred. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chownah Posted May 15, 2005 Share Posted May 15, 2005 People are assuming that she is angry. There is nothing in the original post to indicate that she is angry...sounds like she is happy and will be happier still when he is gone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zarkow Posted May 15, 2005 Share Posted May 15, 2005 I did get your point, although moot, but was simply clarifying that marriage in other places is not the sole domain of the church, separation has occurred. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Ok, I see. Might be language-barrier, but my original post was aiming towards the fact that I think state should be the sole 'provider' of govermental-affairs (as legal marrige) and the church can handle the religion - and bounds under God. Then it would truly be a separation between the two. Sorry if there was any confusion. Oh, and sorry for going off-topic. =) On-topic: Marrige for 9 days and want out - maybe OP should have made some more trips to visit his woman before marrying her...? :| Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BIG SPUDS Posted May 15, 2005 Share Posted May 15, 2005 check out the original posters other threads, something isnt right! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roscoe Posted May 15, 2005 Share Posted May 15, 2005 With just a blessing you should be ok!How much monet did you give maire..if you don't mind me asking?? <{POST_SNAPBACK}> 100K <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Talk about slow. 9 months later a reply <{POST_SNAPBACK}> If he's that slow no wonder he started the topic .The man needs to be sectioned for his own good ,or maybe he was that would explain the 9month delay Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roscoe Posted May 15, 2005 Share Posted May 15, 2005 No caustic comment when the other thread was closed!Strange, but I am pleased it was closed ,threads like that could harm TV.Ban him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr_Pat_Pong Posted May 15, 2005 Share Posted May 15, 2005 Ben might have been doing time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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