I Should Know For Sure!

[amigay]

I'm thinking about getting serious with my bird., Thing is, I'm not entirely sure I've sorted out my "issues" fully.

I've fooled around before on the 'other side of the fence' follow...Since my teenaged years. I sometimes get the feeling

that I've not fully 'explored' that side of me and- I still want to. What if there's more...much more? I must be bi since I've come

this far with many, many women, and they always make me randy as...just need to know whether I can say for absolutely

certain that I'm not gay. Don't know if I can say that now, as I'm occasionally in heat for ****. I don't come from a

homophobic family or anything, but that doesn't mean I might not be closeting myself...maybe its bi and I can handle that.

Just seems messy business, that. Rather do one or the other, innit!

I'm scared stiff to go to a gay bar. So to speAk It's also too public.! theres the 'net...well, I've tried a few times, not much comes of it.

My query for you all is: what's a guy to do? Any friendly advice> ?

[Jingthing]

Get drunk for liquid courage (but don't drive) and use protection. Try it out some more and your true tastes will be revealed.

Edited December 26, 2007 by Jingthing

[cm-happy]

If you have any gay friends or aqqintances ask them to take you to a gay entertainment venue. They'll protect you and maybe offer advice about do's and donts. Kick back relax and enjoy. some of the boys may let you touch the merchandise. In these places PDA is thrown to the wind!

[Ijustwannateach]

^I think OP is anxious to avoid public exposure, so a night out of that sort may not suit.

I'd suggest perhaps a visit to one of the more well-appointed saunas for the opportunity for quick, anonymous one-time encounters (but safe, please!) to test drive your gay libido- in that case, though, you really should consult a gay friend about how to behave before you go (or ask him to come along).

I think as long as you have doubts about this, it's *not* the time to "get serious with the bird."

"S"

[phayao]

just need to know whether I can say for absolutely certain that I'm not gay.

Don't know if I can say that now, as I'm occasionally in heat for ****.

...maybe its bi and I can handle that.

Just seems messy business, that. Rather do one or the other, innit!

I'm scared stiff to go to a gay bar. So to speak It's also too public.!

My query for you all is: what's a guy to do? Any friendly advice> ?

1- There's no need to label your sexuality: you're "yourself".

2- If you wish to explore "the other side of the fence" and you are now in Thailand thre's no better place to start.

3- Before venturing into a gay bar (there are the "go-go" ones and the ones in Silom soi 4) you may try a sauna.

4- If you want to try a sauna and if you're in BKK you may go to Babylon (lots of "falangs") or a more Thai one (like Chakran).

5- Depending on your looks (saunas and soi 4) or your wallet (go-go bars) you may cool down your "heat" in a short time.

6- Have you try the escort services?

Good luck.

[amigay]

Can you guys kind of walk me through what to expect at Babylon on here?

Without getting x-rated,of course...just what to expect and how I might get

what I'm looking for at a place like that. I will also research it on my own,

thanks for the idea, I think it might be a very good place to start. Cheers.

[PeaceBlondie]

As Lou Reed said, take a walk on the wild side.

[cm-happy]

Can you guys kind of walk me through what to expect at Babylon on here?

Without getting x-rated,of course...just what to expect and how I might get

what I'm looking for at a place like that. I will also research it on my own,

thanks for the idea, I think it might be a very good place to start. Cheers.

Since you seem to be shy and inhibited, may I suggest you seek out the dark room in Babylon. Its literally very dark and cannot see well at all. Its mostly a touchy feely, place for some fun groping. All you need do is stand around and THEY will find you.

[kek]

Why not start off with something a bit 'tamer' than Babylon ... try one of the gay massage parlours. It will guarantee that you get an experience of some sort and rules out the possiblity of rejection that can happen in some saunas. There are so many massage places listed in dreadedned.com or dragoncastle.net that you will easily find one close to where you live or work (or if location causes an embarrassment problem then choose one as far away as possible).

A gay massage will let you know if you are at ease being touched intimately by another guy and if you want to go a bit further there are very many ways of receiving the "Happy Ending" to your massage. Just remember the golden rule with all massage places and that is to tell the mamasan what you want the masseur to be capable of doing ...

If you are comfortable with the massage then try one of the saunas.