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I'll set this off so nobody gets the idea I don't like Thailand.

I hear lots of sad tales about being used, ripped and disillusioned there.

Why do I keep going back? I suppose it's a case of me and the Thais using each other.

I can always get a cheap flight, stay in a decent hotel, eat well, date and really chill out well within my budget.

They want my money, which I don't mind parting with if I get what I want in return.

I don't love the place or the people but it's predictable there and I'm just too lazy to look for a suitable alternative.

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The young men.

The food.

The ease of getting by in English.

The (still) reasonable cost.

The ease and reasonable cost of medical care.

Being able to be a "bum" without much negative social stigma attached.

The relative ease of getting a long term visa for early retirement without a pension.

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I'll set this off so nobody gets the idea I don't like Thailand.

I hear lots of sad tales about being used, ripped and disillusioned there.

Why do I keep going back? I suppose it's a case of me and the Thais using each other.

I can always get a cheap flight, stay in a decent hotel, eat well, date and really chill out well within my budget.

They want my money, which I don't mind parting with if I get what I want in return.

I don't love the place or the people but it's predictable there and I'm just too lazy to look for a suitable alternative.

Come on don't be shy and beat around the bush, you are an aged whoremonger. You like to pay cheap women to engage you in one-way sexual gratification, and you are devoid of any feelings or emotions as you ejaculate your way through Thai womanhood or what ever else it is that takes your fancy. You are a Prince.

That out of the way, your question was?

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Come on don't be shy and beat around the bush, you are an aged whoremonger. You like to pay cheap women to engage you in one-way sexual gratification, and you are devoid of any feelings or emotions as you ejaculate your way through Thai womanhood or what ever else it is that takes your fancy. You are a Prince.

I always say that describes 99.9 of us, but that really seems to upset some people. :o

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What am I looking for?

1) This is where the wife wants to be.

2) For what I do, it is a bore in the US, the job has little oppertunities.

3) The position offered to me in Thailand offered a lot of autonomy and oppertunities that in the US there would be too many barriers such as:

1) Initial start up costs

2) High over head

3) America has many laws set up to protect the rich and keep "start-ups" from challenging those with established positions within the market place

So... I came here looking for a challenge, cheaper intrance fees etc. I probably bit off more than I can chew, but I have to say it has been fun, as of late.

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3) America has many laws set up to protect the rich and keep "start-ups" from challenging those with established positions within the market place

That is so a million idiots are not fighting over the same slice of pie and ruining it for everyone. If only Thailand would adopt some of these laws. :o

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If you were young Bali kicks ass all over Thailand .Indonesian & 100% hot internationals to play the field & its cheaper.

A lot cheaper.Short time or an international girl. (Ahhh those younger years 2002)

Thailand gives me the best Bang for the buck, got woods mountains trees & the We're the only house on our road.And a great girl .

Not to shabby! That all can change in the blink of an eye.................This is Thailand.

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I'll set this off so nobody gets the idea I don't like Thailand.

I hear lots of sad tales about being used, ripped and disillusioned there.

Why do I keep going back? I suppose it's a case of me and the Thais using each other.

I can always get a cheap flight, stay in a decent hotel, eat well, date and really chill out well within my budget.

They want my money, which I don't mind parting with if I get what I want in return.

I don't love the place or the people but it's predictable there and I'm just too lazy to look for a suitable alternative.

Can you re-write this so I can understand it?

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I like the dirt roads, shacks that the locals call home (which they live happily in it). It reminds me of my home country 40 years ago. The laid back life here (udon and Nongkhai, as far as i am concerned). Well, life is peaceful here in the upper NE.

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I'll set this off so nobody gets the idea I don't like Thailand.

I hear lots of sad tales about being used, ripped and disillusioned there.

Why do I keep going back? I suppose it's a case of me and the Thais using each other.

I can always get a cheap flight, stay in a decent hotel, eat well, date and really chill out well within my budget.

They want my money, which I don't mind parting with if I get what I want in return.

I don't love the place or the people but it's predictable there and I'm just too lazy to look for a suitable alternative.

Can you re-write this so I can understand it?

Sure thing, anything to help.

Any particular language take your fancy? :o

Edited by qwertz
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I'll set this off so nobody gets the idea I don't like Thailand.

I hear lots of sad tales about being used, ripped and disillusioned there.

Why do I keep going back? I suppose it's a case of me and the Thais using each other.

I can always get a cheap flight, stay in a decent hotel, eat well, date and really chill out well within my budget.

They want my money, which I don't mind parting with if I get what I want in return.

I don't love the place or the people but it's predictable there and I'm just too lazy to look for a suitable alternative.

Come on don't be shy and beat around the bush, you are an aged whoremonger. You like to pay cheap women to engage you in one-way sexual gratification, and you are devoid of any feelings or emotions as you ejaculate your way through Thai womanhood or what ever else it is that takes your fancy. You are a Prince.

That out of the way, your question was?

Used to be, GR, nowadays I'd rather have a good cup of tea. :o

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having lived in tropical and subtropical countries with hardly any infrastructure half my life both the Mrs and i hate sun and heat. that's why we selected Thailand which has a moderate cool climate and a superb infrastructure in each and every respect :o

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Why to Thailand and Not Elsewhere?

Pretty simple in my case. I wasn't looking for some one or some thing in Thailand. I was working in Japan and just happened to meet a nice girl from Thailand and we hit it off. So it's Thailand because my partner happens to be Thai, not because I came to Thailand looking for something.

On a different thought, it was almost Romania and a girl from Romania that I met and hit it off with. All I knew was one thing. If I was ever going to meet a girl that I would want to marry, it wouldn't be an American girl.

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Thailand is so very different than the US. Both countries have much to offer if you look for it, but Thailand is new and exciting. Trips to NY and Vegas are fun, but after a few days the excitement wanes.

I got off a plane in BK in 1999 and four years later was still loving each day. Now, I’m back in the US with the pristine malls, clean toilets... and life is good. The problem is that I find one week blends into the next and it is easy to get in a rut.

The wife and I will be in Thailand soon and plan on living in different cities for a year or two. Maybe we will set up in Thailand or return the US, but I can guarantee we will have fun. I think many of the expats are dreamers and Thailand is a dreamer’s paradise.

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I'll set this off so nobody gets the idea I don't like Thailand.

I hear lots of sad tales about being used, ripped and disillusioned there.

Why do I keep going back? I suppose it's a case of me and the Thais using each other.

I can always get a cheap flight, stay in a decent hotel, eat well, date and really chill out well within my budget.

They want my money, which I don't mind parting with if I get what I want in return.

I don't love the place or the people but it's predictable there and I'm just too lazy to look for a suitable alternative.

Can you re-write this so I can understand it?

Sure thing, anything to help.

Any particular language take your fancy? :D

Wrong Turn, you sure came to ask the right person. :o

'qwertz' was the master of languages. :D This gentleman speaks several languages and had once worked as a translator for former New York Mayor - Rudy Giuliani.

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For me, I have no other choice.

LOS is my birth country, so I come here to see my siblings, relatives, and all the friends I grew up with. Attending some social affairs like wedding, funeral or when some friends got promotion to a high ranks, etc.

One particular I'm looking forward to is enjoy eating Thai fruits ( Long-Gong, Long-Gan (Thai=Lum-Yai), Pamelo(Som-O), Mangostine ( Mung-Kud), La-Mud, Ngoh (Lambutan), Farang (Guava), Supraros ( Pineapple), Malagor (Papaya). And a unique Thai dish: Ma-Muang Nam-pla waan ( Green mango with spicy sauce). :o

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in the US . . . I find one week blends into the next and it is easy to get in a rut.

Whence this oft-repeated illusion that everbody in Western countries is in a rut but nobody is in Thailand? In Thailand, both Thais and expats lead fairly routine lives. The expat routine may be a different routine than that back home, but it's still basically just a routine. In a Thai village, one decade seamlessly blends into the next. Truth is, compared to Thailand, Western countries offer far more variety and opportunity should one choose to take advantage of them.

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in the US . . . I find one week blends into the next and it is easy to get in a rut.

Whence this oft-repeated illusion that everbody in Western countries is in a rut but nobody is in Thailand? In Thailand, both Thais and expats lead fairly routine lives. The expat routine may be a different routine than that back home, but it's still basically just a routine. In a Thai village, one decade seamlessly blends into the next. Truth is, compared to Thailand, Western countries offer far more variety and opportunity should one choose to take advantage of them.

Never stated all westerners are in a rut. I did state that "I" find Thailand more exciting. I have a good time in the US, but enjoy myself more in Thailand. I'm typing this post while looking over Lake Tahoe and will be going to a five star restaurant tonight. Life is pretty good at the moment and if a person gets away from the television, there are many thing to do in the US.

Hey, if you like the variety the US offers, great. Arguably Thailand has less variety, but what it really comes down to is what you personally enjoy.

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Home for me for over half my life, my family, love life here, business opportunities, ease of making dreams come true and the women in my life are very open minded. :o

:D

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A rut is just a grave, with the ends kicked out. You can live in a rut anywhere. After you have audited the income tax records of four or five big insurance companies, it is all the same, boring routine. Change your habits, and life gets exciting again.

I fell in love and lust with Thailand as a tourist, five years ago. I went back home, sold everything, and am still here. I like the weather, people, work, retirement, beaches, sex, etc. You do not even need to speak the language or eat spicy food. And even at 32 baht to the US$, it is still cheap.

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3) America has many laws set up to protect the rich and keep "start-ups" from challenging those with established positions within the market place

That is so a million idiots are not fighting over the same slice of pie and ruining it for everyone. If only Thailand would adopt some of these laws. :o

Yea, if only.... then we could have limited choices and higher prices... That would be better.

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A rut is just a grave, with the ends kicked out. You can live in a rut anywhere. After you have audited the income tax records of four or five big insurance companies, it is all the same, boring routine. Change your habits, and life gets exciting again.

I fell in love and lust with Thailand as a tourist, five years ago. I went back home, sold everything, and am still here. I like the weather, people, work, retirement, beaches, sex, etc. You do not even need to speak the language or eat spicy food. And even at 32 baht to the US$, it is still cheap.

Cool post PB! :o

:D

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Why Thailand and Not Elsewhere ?

I take the question to mean "Why have I chosen to live in Thailand instead of say, Cambodia, Peru, Iceland, Egypt or another country other than the one I originated from".

For me, I guess you could say it was a matter of logical deduction.

When I originally planned on retiring from the (Canadian) military, I knew I couldn't live in Canada on my pension. I didn't want to be like my father and still have to work until I'm 65, and then squeak out a meagre existence for how ever long I'd have left in this incarnation.

My dad once told me he wanted to retire to a place where the only time he saw snow was on a postcard, and the only time he saw ice was when he was stirring it in his drink.

That sounded great to me as well. Unfortunately for dad, when he finally got to the position where he could do that, he was so set in his ways that he never even tried to make the move (although I'm trying to help him out there by bringing him to Thailand this summer, to see what life is like in a place where you don't have to shovel snow 4-5 months of the year, and haul firewood for heat 8+ months a year).

So, back to my original retirement plans. I had lived in Germany (4 years), been to Croatia ("peace-keeping"), Thailand (holiday), the US and Mexico. The internet was still fairly new and raw in those days. I looked at what I knew of the world and made up a list of possible alternative destinations. Mexico, Peru, Bolivia, Belize, Costa Rica, Paraguay/Uruguay, Egypt, Thailand, the Philippines, Cambodia (mostly places that never see snow !) :o

I then started looking at various factors and tried to grade them (health care, cost of living, education system, infrastructure (roads/rail/bus/communications/power, etc), political situation, crime, religion, immigration policies and travel (getting there and back). Using what I could find on the internet, travel brochures, books and trips to embassies/consulates, I started ranking my selected choices.

I've mentioned in other threads similar in nature, when I narrowed down my list and took into consideration all that I knew about each place, Thailand came out on top as the best option. There are cheaper places (cost of living-wise), perhaps places with better health care options or "political stability", but IMHO, overall Thailand ranks # 1 (and no, the women in each country weren't a consideration, nor was the food, or entertainment options). I think my 2nd choice would have been a toss-up between Peru or Belize.

In any event, I ended up back in the military for a few more years, and then straight from there to Afghanistan for the last few years, during which time I made the decision and began the process of relocating to Thailand (almost 4 years ago now).

I've also had the opportunity over the last few years to see some other places (India, Egypt, UAE, Laos), which have only re-affirmed my decision that Thailand is still the place to be, for me.

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3) America has many laws set up to protect the rich and keep "start-ups" from challenging those with established positions within the market place

What US laws are you refering to? What do you think about the requirement to employ Thais in Thailand regardless if you need them or not? Also, how has Thailand made it easier to compete against the established Thai companies?

The other points you made in your post made sense.

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